I hate all that "We HAVE to be pretty, and we HAVE to not dress like this or we're a slut, but we HAVE to not dress like that our we're a prude, we HAVE to look perfect all the time!" No you don't. I'm a feminist and I know the odds are stacked against women in some ways, but you don't HAVE to do any of that. There are loads of women who never wear makeup and don't care if they look perfect, they're just getting on with life! If someone is putting pressure on themselves to be perfect, that's up to them. No one's going to come and arrest you for turning a guy down for a date or not wearing a push up bra.