What do you want to rant about today? #10

[houdini]

if you are being disrespected then maybe it's time not to spend time with that person again.

I totally agree. Only it’s more complicated than that and such is life. Therapy is helping me

 

[loveulongtime0]

I’m really struggling with my mental health at the moment, I don’t know why. Had a call from my dad as my family have noticed and he lovingly told me “I have nothing to be sad about” and “other people have it so much worse”. duck me, I can’t believe this is a mindset people still have. How is that supposed to help me? I can’t help feeling like this and it would be wonderful if I could just ‘be happy’ as he said. duck you if you think this way.

 

[houdini]

I’m really struggling with my mental health at the moment, I don’t know why. Had a call from my dad as my family have noticed and he lovingly told me “I have nothing to be sad about” and “other people have it so much worse”. duck me, I can’t believe this is a mindset people still have. How is that supposed to help me? I can’t help feeling like this and it would be wonderful if I could just ‘be happy’ as he said. duck you if you think this way.

I’m sorry he said that to you and that your feelings weren’t acknowledged. Your feelings are valid and I’m sorry to hear you’re having a hard time

 

[LydiaDeetzHat]

Yep!! My life insurance and medical are both compulsory! I have been trying to make the most of the health insurance (currently basking in the world of private therapy), but I couldn't give two hoots about life insurance. I've got no dependents so would rather have the cash thanks!

same.. i dont think people realise that.. they also go nuts when I don't have an emergency contact.. like i am likely to drop dead at my desk doing admin lol. its not like a factory or something
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Take that message to HR!!
That is completely inappropriate.

gosh I think I misread this as I thought the sender was looking out for poster and that they were letting her know she was being talked about

 

[Rodneytrotter]

gosh I think I misread this as I thought the sender was looking out for poster and that they were letting her know she was being talked about

Same here, I thought the sender was giving a heads up.

 

[Phil Anne Throw Pee]

same.. i dont think people realise that.. they also go nuts when I don't have an emergency contact.. like i am likely to drop dead at my desk doing admin lol. its not like a factory or something
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gosh I think I misread this as I thought the sender was looking out for poster and that they were letting her know she was being talked about

An emergency could happen and it's important that HR have a next of kin contact. There could be a fire for example or they might need to close for whatever reason.

 

[Rodneytrotter]

I totally agree. Only it’s more complicated than that and such is life. Therapy is helping me

Yes of course, sorry I didn't mean to sound flippant about not associating with them. I've been through this with my dad. I'm so glad therapy is helping you though and I hope you have some support away from the person in question .

 

[goosecat]

Same here, I thought the sender was giving a heads up.

He was- and I appreciated him telling me, it must have been an awkward message to write!

 

[Rxt156]

He was- and I appreciated him telling me, it must have been an awkward message to write!

I can see lots of people getting in trouble for this and rightly so

 

[LyraBalaqua]

Why do I always leave a tissue in a pocket before I put clothes in the machine?

 

[FenellaTheWitch]

New thread here ...

What do you want to rant about today? #11

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