I agree with you and I fully am on the side of the kids here.
However, as an autistic person with ADHD (and once a child obviously
) I had emotional trauma that my parents had to deal with and they had me naturally. Life comes with all sorts of
tit. You could have a baby who is healthy with normal needs and they go to school, get badly bullied and bam you're dealing with emotional trauma. You could have a baby with your partner and then their parent dies, emotional trauma. If you want a child, you
should be prepared to learn to deal with that and support your kid, fight for your kid etc, blood or not.