Yeah the pressure of people thinking what's the story with the kids situation is intense! like we have one daughter already so I do nearly go out of my way to tell people we are trying as I used to get so many comments like time for another one, what are you waiting for and now people just don't say anything and I don't know which is worseYes that’s trueI suppose when I talk about it to a couple of friends who are trying, I almost put more pressure on myself because I think they will get pregnant before me