I'd like to think that they're sent to you.Iām already 70/30 that something exists on the other side but Visiting a medium that knew impossible stuff they would only know from the other side would fully fully convince me of something on the other side but how do you find a real one?
I've seen a medium and been to a spiritualist church a few times. Each time they've got some things right, but have generally left me with more questions where the rest of what they've said has either been far too vague or wrong.
Recently we visited a wellbeing fair and there was a couple of mediums there. One stayed well away and the other (almost uncomfortably) attached to me. He was very intense with looking me up and down. He said that he was looking at my energy and as strange as it sounds I felt him almost baring into my soul.
I decided not to give anything away and just chat casually. If he had a message then I wanted to know that it was from him and someone, rather than from me.
All he ended up doing was explaining how he worked and promoted his book!
He said himself that a good medium will have a connection with you, but I felt that as there and still he said nothing.
I don't mean this disrespectfully at all, because everyone needs to make a living, but surely if they have a message that strong (which I felt he had) then I wish they'd just say, rather than waiting until you pay them.. especially in a situation like that where they're there to talk to people generally and not have booked appointments.
I walked away feeling really odd, I have no other way to describe it. I felt empty, drained almost, and quite sad.
A friend of mine was pulled to one side while she was queuing somewhere once and given a message for her husband who had wandered off to talk to someone he knew. The message she was given she said was 100% accurate and I think that's maybe how you know they're genuine. The lady that stopped her was, I believe, sent to her