Triplets in Cornwall

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She doesn't seem to have any curtains or blinds on any windows but can spend £100s on her own bed, her poor neighbours must be forced to see her changing every day and her boys have no privacy! Also boys are away presumably at her mums for a few days, garuntee their hair comes back washed and brushed looking totally different (which shouldn't be possible since she claims that's their natural hair and is always brushed)
Ding ding ding we have a winner. Child without a hat’s hair is much tidier and clearly washed and brushed.

If a friend climbed on my car when drunk they would be paying for the damage. I’d be bleeping fuming!
 
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She’s just acting like a teenager who in their late twenties early thirties can honestly say climb over peoples cars pissed?
Ding ding ding we have a winner. Child without a hat’s hair is much tidier and clearly washed and brushed.

If a friend climbed on my car when drunk they would be paying for the damage. I’d be bleeping fuming!
 
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Look at the difference in their brushed hair, no matting, has that soft fluffy look, and you can see how many knots have come out because one of the boys hair is down to the bottom of his back. Their hair NEVER looks like this with Jess
 
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Surprise surprise the boys aren’t going to school, nor is she doing her uni course. So what you’re saying is you don’t agree with anything ie you just want to do sweet fa and stay in on benefits?! I’m on benefits due to just having a baby but Jesus even once he’s old enough I’m going straight back to work! Does make you wonder if she’s deliberately homeschooling them because she doesn’t want to work.
 
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How pathetic, all 3 have been offered a place in school but it's not her preferred choice, if she wanted her preferred choice she should have applied months before the school year started like everyone else. She needs to just get them in school if there's a place, she can see no benefit but look how behind all 3 are for their age. Is them getting an actual education not a pro
 
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When she says a flexi school, does she mean she wants to pick and choose which days they go in and what time they start and finish?
 
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There is a flexi school near me. It’s mostly used for children who school refuse or walk-out of school. It would also be useful for children with anxiety or depression, or mild learning disabilities. They only need to be at school 3 out of 5 possible days a week. However they do have “homework” for the other two days.
I don’t live local to this family so not sure if flexi school near her is different.
 
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Surprise surprise the boys aren’t going to school, nor is she doing her uni course. So what you’re saying is you don’t agree with anything ie you just want to do sweet fa and stay in on benefits?! I’m on benefits due to just having a baby but Jesus even once he’s old enough I’m going straight back to work! Does make you wonder if she’s deliberately homeschooling them because she doesn’t want to work.
She will have got this years loan sorted so why would she go, once you’re there for the first few weeks the financial support is done for the year !
 
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The dog looks so thin and he is clearly not groomed in any way. Makes me so sad, animal and children are the most vulnerable and neither are being cared for in a way beneficial to them. They are both there for some likes and a go fund me every year! 🤬
 
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The school probably asked why she’d want to send them to school if home education is ‘working so well for them’ because they can already see she’s going to be a pain in the arse.

The children being in school partially so she can get a job isn’t ‘slightly selfish’. It’s the real world. The real world where most people can’t just do a go fund me when they realise they spent a bit too much on beds and now can’t afford the electricity bill.
 
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The school probably asked why she’d want to send them to school if home education is ‘working so well for them’ because they can already see she’s going to be a pain in the arse.

The children being in school partially so she can get a job isn’t ‘slightly selfish’. It’s the real world. The real world where most people can’t just do a go fund me when they realise they spent a bit too much on beds and now can’t afford the electricity bill.

Was just coming on here to day this I can imagine when she went to thr school for the meeting and they said why do u want to send them if home Ed is working so well it wasn't actually a compliment to her it was cos the kids were probably running around like loons and the teachers were thinking duck putting up with that all day plus her and her demands lol!

Also she says she feels shame about wanting to go work. I'd be more ashamed if I didn't want to work, she is defp using them being home s hopled as a reason to not have a job

Also I was thinking this the other day, she lived in London before she got pregnant but ended up housed in cornwall, she must have told them that she was living with her mum to be housed out there
 
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She won’t send them to school Because they would have to go to bed at a decent time, get up early, have to wear a uniform and look clean and smart, and it would definitely open up
A whole can of worms for her, I don’t understand how she can’t work I’ve got 5 kids and always worked but universal credits were still on my back because I wasn’t earning enough money even tho my husband was working full time,
 
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One thing I will say in her defence, 3 kids in any form of childcare even before and after school club let's say £20 per day per kid is £1800 a month! Childcare support is capped at £1100 she'd likely be worse off working.
 
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How pathetic, all 3 have been offered a place in school but it's not her preferred choice, if she wanted her preferred choice she should have applied months before the school year started like everyone else. She needs to just get them in school if there's a place, she can see no benefit but look how behind all 3 are for their age. Is them getting an actual education not a pro
Definitely! Also in Cornwall (probably the same elsewhere too) sadly many children don’t get their preferred school, let alone when she needs 3 places. Many of the schools are over subscribed! Unless the school they’ve been given is an awful school, which seems unlikely I think she should take it!
Was just coming on here to day this I can imagine when she went to thr school for the meeting and they said why do u want to send them if home Ed is working so well it wasn't actually a compliment to her it was cos the kids were probably running around like loons and the teachers were thinking duck putting up with that all day plus her and her demands lol!

Also she says she feels shame about wanting to go work. I'd be more ashamed if I didn't want to work, she is defp using them being home s hopled as a reason to not have a job

Also I was thinking this the other day, she lived in London before she got pregnant but ended up housed in cornwall, she must have told them that she was living with her mum to be housed out there
She grew up and went to school in Cornwall before moving to London as a young adult I believe, so that would have been in her favour for a house.
 
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Definitely! Also in Cornwall (probably the same elsewhere too) sadly many children don’t get their preferred school, let alone when she needs 3 places. Many of the schools are over subscribed! Unless the school they’ve been given is an awful school, which seems unlikely I think she should take it!

She grew up and went to school in Cornwall before moving to London as a young adult I believe, so that would have been in her favour for a house.

Oh right most places I london or easex u need a connection within the last 3 years and simply having family in the area isn't good enough it's usually school, work, support etc
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I thibk this is the worst I've ever seen there hair omg how can she walk out the door with her kids looking like that
 
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She usually had their hair like that for weeks on end until they stay at her mums and they come back looking clean and washed.
Oh right most places I london or easex u need a connection within the last 3 years and simply having family in the area isn't good enough it's usually school, work, support etc
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I thibk this is the worst I've ever seen there hair omg how can she walk out the door with her kids looking like that
 
I can not stand parents who are so hot and cold about the school thing. I'm not against homeschooling but when parents want to pick and choose like their kids are the only kids on the planet it really makes me question the life lessons they are teaching them. Those boys are going to struggle because of her! Wake up woman
 
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I can not stand parents who are so hot and cold about the school thing. I'm not against homeschooling but when parents want to pick and choose like their kids are the only kids on the planet it really makes me question the life lessons they are teaching them. Those boys are going to struggle because of her! Wake up woman
Home schooling can be fantastic, if done by the right parent. But Jess sees it just as a opportunity to have days out whenever she likes and not have to work. There's no structure to their week, they are behind which is so.easy to see with their speech and counting. There's no socialising with other children their own age unless it benefits her I.e another influencer. Look at yesterday world book day in school, would have been their first year, get to pick a costume each be excited to show their school friends, see what everyone else is wearing, have lots of discussion around books they may have not been aware of, and made a lovely memory for them. Instead they just have to watch their mum doing 50 different takes on her phone trying to get the right angle of her bare bum as she's changing. What life experience/education is that. Taking them for a swim can be done after school or on the weekend that is not giving them an education
 
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She just angers me, I’ve got a friend who home schools her girls but takes them to brownies etc so they get used to socialising with other children. Jess just uses this as an excuse to do sweet duck all
 
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Eh?! So she's fighting against houses being built because apparently there's loads of empty houses around Cornwall. So why was she homeless for so long?

Make it make sense 🥴
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Eh?! So she's fighting against houses being built because apparently there's loads of empty houses around Cornwall. So why was she homeless for so long?

Make it make sense 🥴
 
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