Her parents have GOT to be embarrassed of what they created. What’s truly sad is no matter what those kids accomplish they will be drug down by Big T’s narcissism. I can totally see her not wanting her daughters to be better than her or do better. She expects them to want to be like her. Gaudy, tacky, and needing validation from men.
If she hasn’t gotten a job now, I don’t think she ever will. She will either live off the state after all of her funds dry up (I think that will be veryyy soon) or her parents will continue to support her lifestyle. It’s always going to be “Poor Tracy, her husband cheated on her and left her with three kids to support with no help” when in reality their visitation is split between her parents and Tara, and they visit their older sister Tracy once a week to play dress up and eat junk food.
This is exactly why women should not be taught at a young age that they MUST have children to be a valid member of society. It’s just not true and Big T is a perfect example of someone who should not have children, or at least should have waited later on in life. She married Corey the scum bag because he was the only man who would be willing to jump into marriage and have children so quickly. No decent man would ever put up with her shit.
The way she talks to her followers is exactly how she talks to her parents, brothers, s/o, children, friends, and anyone else who questions her. She has never found someone who will willingly put her in her place and feel like the trash she is. The only person to call her out would be Sammy (not often enough) and now she can’t even put up with her. She writes off anyone who gets in the way of doing what Big T wants to do. This woman needs serious mental help. It seems like she comes from the type of family who doesn’t believe in therapy. She had to have inherited the delusion from somewhere.
We can only hope that her children see what kind of person she is over time. Until then, all of Julians therapy that her PARENTS took initiative to set up, pay for, and bring him to, she will take credit for. She won’t help the smallest bit by learning sign language so she can communicate properly, but she will take all the credit when it’s due!
I can already see it from what everyone posts of him on social media. The anger, rage, and frustration of having a deadbeat father who has no interest in fatherhood, and a narcissistic mother who could care less about his struggles of being deaf, and thinks that there is a cure. He needs to be placed in therapy to deal with the trauma of those implants he had no consent to, but also his piece of shit parents. She takes his damn hearing aids off for a stupid picture for christ sake! Makes him wear a headband to cover them up because she’s embarrassed.
Humility does not exist in a parent who truly loves their child. What the F is there to be embarrassed about? Just because he’s deaf doesn’t mean he cannot live a successful and fulfilling life. What’s truly embarrassing is her lack of interest in investing towards his journey. Instead she spends $450 on shitty knock-off louis bags, the eyelashes, the weave, and the shitty cosmetic procedures that make her look hideous. She is the embarrassment.
REAL mothers are the ones who put their child’s needs before their own. You don’t want to work? Fine. Spend your free time educating yourself on ASL and teaching your other kids the language. Educate them to love and cherish other children with disabilities so they will be the one’s to stand up to the bullies.
A real mother has bags under her eyes from the late nights she stays up comforting her children.
Big T has bags under her eyes from drinking all night until she passes out at 5am.
A real mother cries herself to sleep at night knowing that she is doing everything in her power to make sure her children are stable and okay.
Big T cries herself to sleep because her marriage failed and she needs a man to depend on for validation.
A real mother would spend the last dime she has on food, appropriate clothing and shelter for her babies.
Big T will spend her very last dime on a nail and lash refill, weave, and bumpy lips so that she feels confident in an instagram post that she photoshops anyway.
It’s remarkable how she spends so much money and time on herself and she looks like complete trash. I would never want to be seen with her in public if she was my daughter, sister, mother, cousin, etc. She just looks like she smells of sweat stains and spray tan. Hair never brushed, makeup slapped on over yesterday’s, perfume showers (if she even puts that much effort in). Loud-mouth lowlife who reeks of cigarettes and alcohol.
I’m just infuriated tonight. At least if you don’t want to be a parent, stop F’ing posting them on your social media. It’s an insult to their actual caretakers. I think at this point I could respect her flat out saying she doesn’t want to be a parent if she just stops posting them. Have some dignity, sis. The only embarrassing one here, is YOU.