I was thinking about Big T's antics & her desperation...she actually reminded me of myself(almost 10 years ago tho lol) when I broke up with my boyfriend of 5+ years. It was freeing to finally be single, drama free, do whatever (didn't have kids at the time lol). I felt like I was immediately ready to date, get the D
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
, party etc. But in reality it was really scary being alone! I didn't want to admit that back then, but it was!
I was acting just like Big T - drinking, dressing skanky/extra, tons of pictures to validate how "happy" I was,, throwing myself at anyone who would give me attention. It took a year to finally give that image up, get myself together, focus on my life, and stop worrying about dick, or getting a new man!! And guess what....my now husband came along without effort.
BIG T - LISTEN UP - focus on yourself, glow up, take care of your kids, clean your house, get a real job. I promise you dudes will respect that WAYYY more than your thirst traps and over sexualized facade. I will respect you way more!! As a former fan, I'm still rooting for you Big T- prove us wrong!!