As much as its new home new memories and whatever else bullshit she has been spitting since moving in... she has made it clear time and time again that she really isn't in to making new memories in that house with her kids. One would think that the first tree in a new home under the guise of a "fresh start" one would go out of their way to make it memorable. I'm in a FB group where people sell and donate stuff all the time and someone recently posted about how they left a DV situation with basically just the essentials and they were looking for a tree and ornaments and such so that they could make a Christmas for their children.... the rally around this person has been nothing short of beautiful. This person literally asked for a used tree, someone offered to meet them and buy them a new one, they're asking for ornaments, someone offered theirs, plus a gift card for this person to buy their children gifts, people have even asked the person what they need so that they can have Christmas too.... and then you see someone like Tracy who literally had to ask where to get some stupid stockings that she knew damn well she could get right across the street go and erase an opportunity to spend quality time with her children and decorate the tree and create a "core memory" and she chose to bring someone in to do the work, and her fans are just cool with it, like they think nothing of it. To me it's just making it more and more obvious that those kids do not live with her full time, that Wednesday into Thursday is visitation, and these may be factors in why Skylar's party was on a random Tuesday afternoon almost more than a month after her birthday, and why Jayden's is so far out and why Julian didn't even have one. It would also explain why she has all the time in the world to just lay in bed and watch TV, or go off to these procedures.