I had surgery a few years ago for endometriosis and I could always get through to my surgeons office if I had any questions. My doctor also was able to contact him when a question arose and heard back from the surgeon quite quickly.I took a look at her latest video, many, many things that she is saying makes no sense:
She said she didn't call her Surgeon because it was late when she got home from the Hospital. Okay, but why didn't she mention the Bleeding while AT the Hospital??? Does she think only the Surgeon can help? And, the staff would have reached out to her Surgeon to let him know; so she didn't have to go another night with questionable bleeding.
She keeps mentioning that the blood may be from the Chemo/radiation/meds, but none of that makes sense either, and if she just called the office, she would know!
Denial is based on knowledge, but stupidity is based on ignorance! As almost everyone has mentioned here, she's hoping it'll just go away.
Odd that she's mentioning about VlogMass, because didn't she say in another video not too long ago that she can't make plans because she's unwell?
She said she feels like December is the last month...... ya, because it is!!! lol
What I find odd with her too, is praying in front of the camera. I think Prayer is personal, and it always sat kind of wrong with me. That's probably just me.
Blah, Blah, Blah... about her favorite shows
Then she says: "I just want to say thank you to you who see's a comment that isn't very nice and you will write Block and Delete, tick, tick, tick. Honestly, thank you so much, like sometimes I feel bad blocking these people, but it's good to get rid of any negativity, towards this channel and us." By negativity, she means honesty, and from the very people who helped build her channel.
It makes her happy to go through the comments for support, and helping each other. How is she helping others??? There's no honesty on her channels besides the color of the T-Shirt she is wearing that day!
Sorry it's so long. I watched this one with a good friend who is a Surgical Nurse and she shook her head all the way through, and agrees, that something is not adding up. Doctors/Specialists aren't that incompetent. She also reiterated that all Doctors can be reached especially Oncologists when a Patient is going through treatment, and Royal Marsden has some of the Best in the world.
If the surgeon has changed his mind about proceeding with surgery for Tiffany, then she sure is too daft to get it if he tried to ever gently let her know/down by giving her options. Her medical team as well. They need to tell it to her as is, in her face. They might already have done so, to her dismay, and that's why she's confused, because as most have said here, she tends to lean toward the belief that she has no more cancer. Many are careful to not declare the death sentence to their patients when undergoing treatments, because there is also that human spirit that may surpass the expectations of what man can/cannot do.I had surgery a few years ago for endometriosis and I could always get through to my surgeons office if I had any questions. My doctor also was able to contact him when a question arose and heard back from the surgeon quite quickly.
I am actually wondering if the surgeon dropped her? Wasn't he the only surgeon to offer to do the surgery?
Something isn't adding up.
Also, I actually think Tiffany looks quite ill in her latest video.
I haven't watched for a couple of weeks now. I can't bear to! I rely on fellow Tattlers. Thank you for taking the bullet.I didn't watch more than 5 minutes of yesterday's video but did she mention any follow up calls or appointments with the mental health team?she badly needs their help in my opinion but will probably do nothing to follow up on it
No word from her on it since her Letters fr Hospital vid, in which she said she would call to make the appointment now, and it cut to the next scene of talking. I assumed she did call, because there shouldn't be a reason to lie when she said she would call. I understand it could also be a over the phone kind of counselling session, if not in person. Doubt she will update, seeing that she has other priorities in mind.I didn't watch more than 5 minutes of yesterday's video but did she mention any follow up calls or appointments with the mental health team?she badly needs their help in my opinion but will probably do nothing to follow up on it
No, she didn't.I didn't watch more than 5 minutes of yesterday's video but did she mention any follow up calls or appointments with the mental health team?
she has oddly always thought that, from the start I don’t think she’s truly ever grasped how serious her situation is. The whole ‘I’m going to do my boomerang’ thing and the just a little bit more to do. I truly have nothing against her, however the whole thing is really bloody frustrating.No, she didn't.
It seems she thinks after her next scans it all will be over and that she's almost healthy - she said "i have a little bit of the journey left and i need to complete it".
I do think she's handled exposure to morphine very responsibly (besides the driving experiment given morphine can have a long half life). But, it has not led to her using it more than is needed or developing a dependency on it. I have not seen a lot of justifications or excuses given to when or how often she uses it.Possibly someone who is potentially addictive in their nature and has already used work and income to mask things.
From what I’ve seen of Tiffany she definitely has a leaning to being addictive.
Yes, I am trying to take into consideration how putting an audience in front of someone changes their own narrative. I think a camera can make it hard to admit when one is wrong, to vocalize a change to worsening, to resistance to post about a treatment plan that is in contrast with what subs are advocating for, etc. All this affects what she shows and even the prism in which she understands information. It can all have a powerful impact.I used to sympathise with her situation. However, now I think that she’s cunning and acting stupid (to gain more pity and views) when she already knows everything abt her case. If she’s cancer free, she should throw the boomerang like she said. If she still has cancer, then she needs to do something or die prematurely. Surely her family and relatives should be more informed and could advise her on the right direction she should go.
And to stop labelling videos with things like 'blood and mucus' too.
It's when I see this kind of manipulation, or her pulling influencer tricks ("let me know if you watch this til the end"), her video titles or her inputting the food delivery service or her repetitive WGT merch promos, I realize she is strategizing content from a commercial perspective too. And not haphazardly either, it is quite calculated and multifaceted. So, I tend to be less apt to give her the benefit of the doubt and I view the opacity and lack of clarity more suspiciously now.Yes she is not very bright overall and no common sense but she is calculating in terms of youtube. She literally asks her viewers whether they watch her videos from start to finish (!!!) She might as well just ask them to not skip ads in her videos
Someone on here suggested that she should do separate videos about the cancer and separate about her silly activities so that we can just watch the cancer stuff. She will never do it as she knows that cancer is what pulls people in. That's why she never fails to put the word 'cancer' in her titles along with something overly dramatic instead of putting 'My silly ramblings about christmas trees, cozy socks, jumpers, darling Matt, and other foolishness'.
Yes she might reveal something on Thursday but it will be vague and confusing (as is she). It will last a couple of minutes and the rest will be about cooking, Matt, the garden centre ...
Like others, I am just not that interested in watching her open gifts, arrange her house, what she's wearing or eating. She's losing her audience inputting such materialism (this is NOT a segment of Fine House & Homes!). Small fillers were fine, but when they are the majority of content or repetitive, I am no longer all in.I am quite resentful that she pleads poverty but flaunts her ugg slippers, coffee machines and smeg kettles amonst other things. I can't afford those (not that I would waste that amount of money anyway) and we are helping her buy them.
You can't take it with you Tiffany!!!!
This is so funny but also sad. Poor lady even wearing that awful jumper with the most unoriginal slogan. Tiffany completely brainwashed some really vulnerable and kind-hearted people.Does anyone remember seeing the video of an older woman who wrote and sang a song for Tiffany? Tiff posted the YT link in an IG story last week maybe but it disappeared. Tiff hasn’t mentioned it since.
It was so sad that she fell for Tiffany like so many others who get strung along week after week.
My bad: She didn't write the song for Tiffany, she dedicated one she previously wrote to her.
Wow, I didn't even realise she was wearing it till you pointed it out. I am going mad, as well as blind!This is so funny but also sad. Poor lady even wearing that awful jumper with the most unoriginal slogan. Tiffany completely brainwashed some really vulnerable and kind-hearted people.
Very true. In yesterday's vlog she was like 'I know nothing and I'm so so confused'. She was telling us about the bleeding and the mucus (this is the first time she mentioned it) and she was saying she has no idea what it's all about BUT she just had a meeting with her oncology team prior to that. Didn't she ask them about this issue? It's like she is living in a bubble and no knowledge reaches her.I took a look at her latest video, many, many things that she is saying makes no sense:
She said she didn't call her Surgeon because it was late when she got home from the Hospital. Okay, but why didn't she mention the Bleeding while AT the Hospital??? Does she think only the Surgeon can help? And, the staff would have reached out to her Surgeon to let him know; so she didn't have to go another night with questionable bleeding.
She keeps mentioning that the blood may be from the Chemo/radiation/meds, but none of that makes sense either, and if she just called the office, she would know!
Denial is based on knowledge, but stupidity is based on ignorance! As almost everyone has mentioned here, she's hoping it'll just go away.
Odd that she's mentioning about VlogMass, because didn't she say in another video not too long ago that she can't make plans because she's unwell?
She said she feels like December is the last month...... ya, because it is!!! lol
What I find odd with her too, is praying in front of the camera. I think Prayer is personal, and it always sat kind of wrong with me. That's probably just me.
Blah, Blah, Blah... about her favorite shows
Then she says: "I just want to say thank you to you who see's a comment that isn't very nice and you will write Block and Delete, tick, tick, tick. Honestly, thank you so much, like sometimes I feel bad blocking these people, but it's good to get rid of any negativity, towards this channel and us." By negativity, she means honesty, and from the very people who helped build her channel.
It makes her happy to go through the comments for support, and helping each other. How is she helping others??? There's no honesty on her channels besides the color of the T-Shirt she is wearing that day!
Sorry it's so long. I watched this one with a good friend who is a Surgical Nurse and she shook her head all the way through, and agrees, that something is not adding up. Doctors/Specialists aren't that incompetent. She also reiterated that all Doctors can be reached especially Oncologists when a Patient is going through treatment, and Royal Marsden has some of the Best in the world.
She said that all of her appointments are booked except for the Biopsy. No mention of a Mental Health appointment.I didn't watch more than 5 minutes of yesterday's video but did she mention any follow up calls or appointments with the mental health team?she badly needs their help in my opinion but will probably do nothing to follow up on it
I feel a lot of Tiffany's behaviour is not the norm. She keeps surprising and shocking everyone. Like she is from another planet.As a (very lapsed) catholic- that sort of attention seeking praying is not the norm.
Yeah, that’s my view too. She never accepted having cancer so this spiral into total bozo miracle-cure denial makes sense. Not that I can’t empathize, but it is the first time I’ve seen someone so disconnected from their own life. It’s really weird but I think it’s a combo of her not being bright anyway then getting a brutal cancer that requires moderate intelligence and emotional independence to tackle.she has oddly always thought that, from the start I don’t think she’s truly ever grasped how serious her situation is. The whole ‘I’m going to do my boomerang’ thing and the just a little bit more to do. I truly have nothing against her, however the whole thing is really bloody frustrating.
Yes, that's what I mean about the method (videotaping) affecting the message (what she posts). I so relate to seeing Matt and Amma visibly appear to shrink away when they see the camera is on now. I can't imagine how hard it is for others to have the camera always on, even walking down the street. It must feel so awkward and very tiring. It sure looks it.I feel a lot of Tiffany's behaviour is not the norm. She keeps surprising and shocking everyone. Like she is from another planet.
Hey suzeq. Just want to say your posts have been awesome to read. You’re really good at making observations both close-up and from 10,000 feet. So glad you joined. You’re right on the money every time.Yes, that's what I mean about the method (videotaping) affecting the message (what she posts). I so relate to seeing Matt and Amma visibly appear to shrink away when they see the camera is on now. I can't imagine how hard it is for others to have the camera always on, even walking down the street. It must feel so awkward and very tiring. It sure looks it.
I remember that. No I think she does not like people being blunt with her at all. She only said that in the heat of the moment when she was so impressed with getting 6000+ messages. She also kind of berated the surgeon in that video and said that he is not her family member and he does not really care for her like her 'youtube family' cares for her. She says many things that is nothing but words. I think she has no real personality and she does not know herself what she wants until she experiences it. That's why it seems she often speaks without thinking. She asks people what to do about the surgery and then she tells them she actually does not want that at all.In the vlog ‘Cancer can spread’ she actually says she wants people to be blunt with her, to not sugar coat it and to tell it as it is, she likes the fact that the Tiffanythinks family says it as they see it! So what changed? I’m still so cross with her over that stunt she pulled.
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