Tiffany Thinks #19

[BettyCrockerr]

Omg where is @Turaj
Yes I wonder if any poor souls watched it in full. Let's just assume there was nothing interesting in it.

they were online this afternoon….?

 

[ScrattyRatty]

It's called "Tumour has grown!!"

Thanks! I had forgotten 'It's an olive!'
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I had also forgotten how much of a hot mess that convo was

 

[EmyUrban]

Sorry I’ve been pretty quiet on here lately. I feel like I’m in a state of shock at all of it. From the time Tiffany and Amma staged themselves leaving the hospital room for supposedly the last time, to the dramatic ambulance ride, and everything after, I feel in a state of shock lol I feel
like it’s all so crazy, that I can’t take my eyes off the videos. I have been reading through the comments and you all are doing a great job and making me laugh with your humor! Is everyone excited for Tuesday’s video? Lol Do you think we’ll get more prerecorded videos, or will she take us into real time? My guess is more prerecorded stuff, but I could be wrong!

Alas Tiffany herself answered a comment ( that she might have deleted since she deletes a lot a lot a lot all day long) and she said that we still have a few more prerecorded videos to watch HA … Quite vague as usual so keep your expectations very low for today video …
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VAGINA ALERT

Funnily I don't find this old Tiffany that annoying. She seems like a regular teenager or young person (she would have been in her early 20s here?). The Tiffany we know today is completely different, very obnoxious, baby voices and unnatural affectations. She is so sickeningly fake today. Maybe she really changed her personality because of HaHa. Maybe she puts this baby persona on for him (perhaps for the viewers too to gain extra sympathy). Maybe he indicated to her that he likes infantile women or he straight up told her he wants her to be his Little and she became it. Or maybe he did not need to tell her anything, maybe it was obvious from his behaviour.

Yes, or maybe she regressed mentally because of the cancer diagnosis ? Or a bit of everything …
I cannot imagine Matt and Tiffany knowing anything about fetishism or knowing what a « little » is, HA ! but maybe I am wrong …

 

[Eddertillet]

the "whole family" consists of some aunts/uncles and cousins a number of which I think are fairly well educated and professional.

They all came to visit Tiffany in her house 2 weeks before her surgery. No masks, of course, no one was worried she could catch covid or flu. It seems her doctor cousin wasn't there though. The rest of them, it seems, don't have much medical knowledge.

 

[ScrattyRatty]

I don’t think the experience is different for those who do or don’t have insurance here. The difference is the bill you get at the end of the stay. The bill I got a couple years ago for a 5 day stay was around $30K, but after insurance amounted to about $3K out of pocket.

So if you don't have insurance in the US what happens? Here, if you are entitled to it, all treatment, from GP to ambulance, hospital, specialists, scans etc are free, whether you have the money to pay or not. We can opt to pay ('go private') and get a much enhanced experience in terms of comfort, access to treatment etc.

 

[UniqueUnicorn]

I agree. Mmm a good question. She behaves like that mostly around Ha but I guess she is always like that now. She is babied by all of them. Maybe we just notice her awfulness more now because she puts out 3 videos per week so it's very hard to miss.

I still don't particularly like her old self, she was just as vapid and superficial as she is now but back then she was more authentic and spoke in a normal voice. Today she is putting on this sickly sweet angel persona who prays for her subscribers in cars

Hm, I haven’t really watched t’s old videos with Tiroy (her ex). I wonder if she acted this way with him? Does anyone know? But I remember reading comments that Tiroy wasn’t very nice to her and ha! Is her soulmate. Maybe because Tiroy told her to stop with that baby nonsense. Yes her baby voice makes me cringe, but the worst childish behaviour for me was when she got ‘Baxter’ back and she rapped about it sounding like the rapper Eminem’s song. ‘Guess who’s back, back again, baxter’s back’ oh dear.. that tops it for me for her worst child like behaviour.

Sorry, I had to rewatch the ‘crying’ part in her last video and here comes ha! To comfort her. I really believe now he has some sort of fetish. My gosh the way he was putting his hand on her chest. My eyes. That was so strange.

 

[suzeq]

I wonder if it’s a kind of prudish, euphemistic thing that she talks like that about her body. Tiffany and her family all seem to be devout Christians so maybe talking about sex or bodily functions is seen as a bit taboo, even in a medical context.

And yet she's mentioned pulliing both Matt and Amma into the wc in order to show them the clots or whatever, the bleeding that was continuing to occur after her biopsy, I think? Before she went to RM, then to A&E for examination of it? Not sure how prudish you are if you are asking your loved ones to have a look at that...

I could completely understand the discomfort in openly discussing anything relating to bowel functions on a YT channel. That, I understand. To have the world know something so personal about you...I don't think she thought that through fully before deciding to monetise her cancer journey.

Except after more than a year discussing your colorectal adenocarcinoma, having all kinds of medical examinations and discussions, talking to friends, family and then on YT, even base level, you'd at least think she'd have developed some comfort level with it all by now, wouldn't you? Exposure surely should have reduced the initial embarrassment most would have.

Her excuses are so ridiculous.
And the person was clearly not asking about PE. They were asking whether it was a laparoscopic one or a classic one. But she threw it in that it was PE, like she is generously giving additional information even though everyone now knows she had PE

There is no reason she cannot explain the extent of her pe, that is sheer laziness and disrespect to her viewers, imo.

There is this lady (petrinabarber on IG) who I believe has just had pelvic exenteration. I think she has two stoma bags. Nat follows her. I have just seen her newest post where she is walking with an aid, a similar situation to Nat's. She mentions being in intensive care for a long time.

I've just had a read through her IG (thanks for the mention here, I am so appreciative for having my exposure to cancer 'influencers' broadened by so many mentions here, wow, was I naïve, having only been exposed to Tiffany beforehand). I noticed a post of hers from a couple months ago, does anyone happen to know what this might be referring to? She has some keen perspectives on life, I admire her reflections.

https://imginn.com/p/CmOW-EIMntQ/

 

[ScrattyRatty]

... And then in the clow car convo - she's wrapped this whole thing in they don't know what to do with me that's why I'm getting this drastic surgery - even though that was the plan all along(since May2022).

But that's not right, the thing about it being an older person's cancer, it's becoming a cancer that affects younger people too, and symptoms are often ignored. She really should have been clearer about that. I'm sure her surgeon would have been fully aware of the upward trend, I doubt very much that he would have said they didn't know what to do with her.

 

[ScrattyRatty]

VAGINA ALERT

Funnily I don't find this old Tiffany that annoying. She seems like a regular teenager or young person (she would have been in her early 20s here?). The Tiffany we know today is completely different, very obnoxious, baby voices and unnatural affectations. She is so sickeningly fake...

I thought the same, it's almost like she is a different person. Is it Matt, or the cancer that has made her turn into an adult toddler?

 

[Turaj]

She's only a couple thousand away, she'll get there eventually. I'm wondering what will happen when she does. Is there another YT milestone after 100k or is that what most of the content creators strive for? Any other incentives to growing more than that other than views? I'm honestly surprised she hasn't reached 100k yet with the amount of views some of her videos get, maybe a sign that at least half the people watching just don't care enough to subscribe or don't want to support with this type of drawn out content?

i see her at 93.6 so that is a distance from 100,000 with no real new content. Her downfall is not getting views because they are off the charts but as mentioned she can't turn that into a sub. In fact I think many "viewers" like myself are former subs and those that will never sub. I think YT gives content creators or influencers etc. some numbers and her ratio of views vs subs is really bad. Unless she does some blitz with a well known vlogger that links her channel and says to go and sub today I don't think the 100,000 is coming real soon.

 

[Daisychain4]

Okay watched the latest and have some comments...some of which I guess will not be popular..
-First I frankly totally agree with Tiffany asking about another ward. Just the sound effects and some of
what she probably heard as she becomes more and more alert is a valid reason to ask. She is right...
you don't ask you don't get. It cannot hurt. As it turns out she has another c-diff and now in private room.
I think that is a good thing.
-She is much more comfortable with the stoma concept and speaks freely about it.
-Note that Amma and Matt wear no mask around her in the room but put hem on for the hallways.
Makes no sense to me.
-Elodie is missing and apparently part of family that she wants no communication with at this point.
I think that is strange. That is her sister.
-She is in the Ellis Ward and don't know if she will have to move back into the big wards again. I know many
will say she is not special etc. but I think the c-diff saved her.

I did note myself she speaks freely of her stoma, but let’s not forget it’s not really active yet! Things will change a lot once she commences a solid diet and the stoma becomes active.
That will be interesting!

 

[Saydee]

Just to mention my thoughts on Fluffy:
Fluffy was on this forum before Tiffany started to air her hospital video series, and did not post again after the first hospital video was released. I think that Fluffy was taken aback by the extent of Tiffany's surgery, and may have decided to 'forgive' one of Tiffany's major you-tube motivations: money. In other words, to Fluffy, Tiffany's greed doesn't matter to her anymore because she saw how extensive and serious the surgery was. I believe that Fluffy has excused Tiffany for her manipulative nature that Fluffy herself had mentioned on this forum because of the radical surgery Tiffany had and the obvious discomfort and distress that brought to Tiffany.
Fluffy may not be as misguided as she is forgiving of Tiffany for everything. In other words, I think Fluffy does recognize Tiffany's motivations, but glosses over them because of Tiffany's surgery and medical condition. In Fluffy-land, Tiffany is absolved of all manipulative behavior because of the radical surgery she had.

"The obvious discomfort and distress"
Can you eleborate on that?
The distress where she was filming directly after walking up from surgery putting on a slow voice which immediately changed when the nurse asked her if she was ok?
Or the distress that she had to share her space with others on a ward which caused her anxiety?
I havent seen no real discomfort or distress.
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Question - Has T always acted immature? Babyish.
This video is only 3 minutes long. 20+ facts about T
I think the video speaks volumes. Bear in mind that she was 22 years old here

 

[Saydee]

Is it normal for histology results of margins achieved from the surgery to take over two weeks to obtain? Tiffany's hospital video series is now almost two weeks post-operation, and Tiffany has said in these videos that she has not yet been informed of any such results.
In real time, it is over one and a half months since the surgery. Therefore, is it correct to say that Tiffany now knows whether negative margins have been achieved or not? Yet, there has been no written update by Tiffany
in comments sections of her videos regarding histology results.

If margins are normally determined within a few days of surgery, the fact that Tiffany has not been informed of the results (in the video series) perhaps indicated that negative margins could not be achieved and her oncology team was waiting for her to be stronger physically before telling her. On the other hand, if over two weeks is a normal time frame for such analyses to be completed, then there isn't necessarily bad news in-the-waiting.

Histology is 6 weeks standard wait. Ordered to be ready for first post op outpatient appointment which is usually 6 weeks post surgery.
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Hm, I had no idea she was on a radio show. I think if she caught enough attention a radio show would have contacted her. Don’t know how popular she is in the uk.. So I’m going to assume she contacted them? Lol, wouldn’t be surprised. As much as I avoid watching her now, I’m actually curious to hear what she had to say on the radio show. If anyone knows where I can find it, please let me know

I posted the video above earlier today re radio
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Thanks. I would guess, though, that not having a backlog of analyses to do in the laboratory would be a motivating factor to get it completed in a timely fashion.

What difference would it make? Patients are healing which means they can’t start treatment anyway. I think six weeks is fine.

 

[c.sabatier]

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Now the curtains are NAVY blue, but they too remind Matt of the tiffanys thinks blue? At this point I think T and family associate every blue shade with the blue heart, or maybe Matt is stuck for conversation and just comes out with anything
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On my screen the color of the hospital curtains were royal blue. I also got the impression that Matt was trying hard to make conversation when he commented about the curtains' color!

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A potentially stupid question alert: I'm just thinking that Tiffany had some muscles from her legs removed and put in her pelvis to fill the void.
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In the infamous 'clown car conversation', or perhaps another similar one, Tiffany mentions that the filling in the abdominal cavity would come from the tissue in her 'bum', and that her surgeon thought that there was enough in her bum for that purpose.
Thigh muscles would have been used to create an artificial vagina, and there are articles online describing that scans are required to select the optimal muscle. (In an earlier thread, I might have linked such an article.) However, given the relative ease with which Tiffany moved her legs on day +1 after surgery, a profound wound in her thigh is not detectable. Remember, Matt told Tiffany to be careful because she was rather easily moving her legs in that first video or two when her face was still swollen.

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Only thing I can't resolve on this timeline is that board, unless she lost a day or so after the op, or the staff just filled in the board from the first space, ignoring the day labels.
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Thanks for your 'grassy knoll' type of analysis! I agree that the staff might have filled the board from the first space, or the 'Monday' on the board referred to the Monday that was to follow.

 

[ladyt7087]

I got used to her never brushing her hair, ok, but this is too much. It can't be comfortable to lie in bed with her hair like this

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OMG. A veritable rat's nest!

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another note...today covered I don't know 3-4 days and no Matt in sight. I know he has been working but wonder if he has taken a chance to go back home for a visit prior to her return home.

I was wondering where Matt was too.

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It is today'sTiffany-fest, essentially me, me, me.
She has surpassed herself today.
[/QUOQUOTE Yes, very much so. The princess is back. I honestly don't know how her family puts up with it. She said long ago that many friends no longer keep in touch. Now I know why. She's extremely self centered, much like a toddler.

 

[ladyt7087]

That’s certainly not an acute unit she is in.
It’s obviously a step down so her time in a critical ICU realistically hasn’t been longer at all.

The monitoring she currently has can be done on the high dependency surgical wards over here so I’m sure it’s not that different there.
I don’t really see anything there that she has, that the general surgical wards here can’t manage.
All those drains and PCA is pretty routine stuff for the surgical nurses.

She said it was 4 days in the Critical Care Unit. Then onto a ward. 90% of the current vlog was filmed on day 4 while still in CCU.

 

[Eddertillet]

Tiffany lying in bed - hair looks ok (not perfect, but ok).

Tiffany walking with the doctor where people can see her

 

[ellyjelly2]

I got used to her never brushing her hair, ok, but this is too much. It can't be comfortable to lie in bed with her hair like this

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Amma told her to cut it, why she did I either cut it or braid it is beyond me.

 

[Daisychain4]

Oh my gosh, hahaha. We have a chinchilla, foxes, wombat, frog and I gave in and became a mystical creature.

I’m surprised her subscribers don’t write it out as ‘wittle wabbit’ to meet the age range t talks and acts in, lol.. jk..

I think some on here wanted to know where fluffy went.

is this the same fluffy who’s a frog here? T went from giving them a shock of their life as to not knowing the actual date of surgery to an inspiration again. Cool.

Yes that is the same person I believe!
I think it’s fine to be able to follow and comment on both sites as long as you don’t misconstrue the ethics and respect expected and attached to both platforms and try to humiliate and question opinions.

I do believe Fluffy was/is still commenting on both sites but I don’t take much notice of what is being said over on YT … what I have seen here on TL from that person has been very respectful and kind.

 

[LeonorG]

Please please can someone post this to Fluffy and remind of her own words? Peachy come on out please

Sometimes Fluffy seems reasonable and intelligent and at other times so pathetic and deluded. The way they worship Tiffany is so sad to witness.