TheNurseMum #8

[Sendparent]

Ill admit I’ve gone over her IG a few times to try and peace this together, but I can’t do it.

A good post to read is the one where she tells everyone that her son's grandmother was dying from cancer and had a gofundme but she purposely made the decision and chose not to share it with her followers in case she got to do a gofundme one day as she wanted people to donate to her instead. That post might help you understand her logic a little bit.

 

[I’mThankyou_]

The Nurse Mum #9: 3 9 Fake

 

[Basicbasic]

The real tragedy here is that she could have raised monumental suns of money for research into the condition j had. It is one of the least known and researcherd conditions out there. Instead that money is going into her luxury travel fund. If she wasn't as selfish and shes as she's always been she could have created a charity and given herself a nice paid role at the helm. She would've had lots of support and raised awareness about rare childhood illnesses and kept j's memory alive in an impactful and meaningful way. This would give her income, exposure, ads, and she could make a real difference.

But we all know she hates any kind of work. Remember the 6 weeks of her nursing? Constantly moaning and bitching about having to leave home at 7am (like everyone else who works!) And having to remove her £70 nails she got done for her weekends in London. She hated every second of working.

 

[Sendparent]

I'm sure her followers will think she's donating the 10% of the £25/ t shirt and won't have a clue about the real donations...we know how transparent Kathleen has been about the go fund me monies

Someone I follow wrote on their stories last night that they had ordered t shirts, admitted they wont wear them but will keep them as a 'memento' of J and are really happy they get to donate to GOSH. They would have been better off donating direct, complete strangers dont need a memento of a child who has died. It's odd and disturbing. If people want to donate in Js name, they would be better off donating direct to GOSH or one of the charities that gave them free things despite her wealth. The 10% to charity is just a gimmick to maybe pay less tax on her earnings and to sell more items. Its exploiting the charities aswell as J.

 

[Cucumber and eggs]

There's only one hospital on Male( the main Island) for the whole of the archipelago ...the Maldives are not designed for ill children and the flight(s) alone would take 11 hrs . However I have no doubt she will still 'honour his memory' and go to the Maldives- hypocrite ....although currently the Maldives are not open for U.K. travellers
but remember this is the mother that took her sick child to the remote African islands of Cape Verde, which also had no hospital....it's always been about her and not J

My daughter has heart, kidney and liver disease. Not severe, manageable and requires annual checkups. When we went to Cuba for a wedding, I researched every hospital near to where we were staying, how long it would take to get there, I researched the doctors and if they specialised for her needs. I just cant imagine taking a child who is even more complex than mine, somewhere where they have very little medical care, and miles away from the nearest hospital. I don't follow the nurse mum much, haven't really been on this thread, but since J has passed I can't get over the social media circus she is turning her sons death into. She doesn't have J anymore, so she is climbing her way up the influencer ladder by using his death. I'm sorry if it offends anyone, but its pretty obvious and damn right vile!

 

[Kirsty21]

It wouldn’t surprise me if she’s taking legal action against the hospital for allowing Jaxon home a day or 2 after his “ worst night ever” that she photographed with a nurse attending to Jaxon and posted on Instagram. But let’s remember she pushed for discharge as Kathy had 30th birthday plans she didn’t want to re arrange. Many of times she told us how Jaxon could die from catching the common cold, viruses are fatal to him yet she took him out fo hospital sent him into school and then took him to London instead of allowing him to recover at home. Kept her celebrations private, until she home come. Blocked people who viewed her friends story and seen she was out in London celebrating. So I hope to bloody god she doesn’t try and sue the hospital.

 

[longtimelurker86]

I personally don't agree that K should be blamed for J's death as we obviously dont know the ins and outs surrounding that, but this thread is here to talk about HER and that's what is being done soooo there we go...

She just doesn't sit well with me, she never has done. And the fact that she said KEIRAS rather than CARERS just really grated on me back in the day LOL.

 

[mrstakeaway]

Don’t you think this is in really bad taste? I understand people finding the grave etc tacky and I get it about the shop. But she’s clearly in a very bad place and how is picking it over here helping anyone? Saying someone is to blame for their child’s death with no evidence is very harsh. You may think things about his health based on her posts but you don’t know anything categorically. Things may be more complicated than she portrays them on Instagram but you are not coming out of this well either.

shes in that bad of a place she can use her £45k go fund me money to fly to Morocco.. who does that

And also if she can show her life on Instagram to the world then the world can talk about it on here

 

[GobShyte64]

Just seen on the Ashley Cain thread that Saff is gonna be doing a live or meet up or something with Kath. Fancy using your sons death as a means to social climb. Straight after his death she was tagging them in her stories and getting her minions to flood safs lives & now shes got what she wanted. Kath is a true narcissist and the last thing Saf needs round her is her pumping her head full of shit & making out like she knew more than GOSH consultants with about 50yrs experience between them!

 

[AreYouJoking?]

10%
That's it.
What's the rest being spent on?

So even at his birthday firework display ... the brand name had to be part of it.
Imagine making money of your child that's passed and using his death as a Brand and having that brand name at his birthday memorial.
Even his birthday was used to promote it.
You just can't make this shit up.

If you can bare to watch the firework display you will hear people questioning what the hell the 398 stands for as it’s lamely lit up. She has to explain it. And that must of been to people she’s invited so they knew her and still didn’t have a clue!!.

Anyone able to do the maths? How many of those 398 was he with his 60 hrs a week Kiera’s? Or his dad? Or school? Or her mum?

TEN measly percent. If she makes £1000 they will get £100. She’s had hundreds of thousands YES HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS donated to her own person charity case and they will get just 10% of sales. How does she sleep at night?. Oh yeah in a Marrakesh retreat at the moment.

 

[I’mThankyou_]

hello you.

Oh for fucks sake. When I was community and we organised carers, it was usually so mum or dad could sleep all night.

Hello my lovely potato

There was an incident one night she went out on the piss and came back and filmed herself arguing with one particular carer she had an issue with. They weren't used for their need with Kaytee. They were her on call baby sitters.

 

[Hinchy’s Tamagotchi]

If I can be brutally honest, it’s a load of naff shit isn’t it really? Lost for words at the photoshopped angel wings t-shirts, who in their right mind would want to wear that? As for the rest of it, it’s just bland & unimaginative tat. Why would someone want to display a print that just says 398 in their home? Or have it on a plain white t-shirt? For 24 quid! You’ve got to be having a laugh! If I was a friend of hers & therefore obligated to make a purchase I’d be really struggling. I’d rather just donate directly to her chosen charity than buy any of that rubbish.

 

[HoGi]

What is the feeding school?

It's to try and get tube fed kids eating orally.

She had to get it from overseas as everyone here said it was a terrible idea.

It basically involves withholding tube feeds to force the child to try eating orally.

It ended with J losing so much weight he was hospitalised or nearly hospitalised I can't remember which.

His ribs were visible, he was gaunt. He was literally starved until someone stepped in and said stop. But her minions applauded how well he did as he licked some frazzles and "ate" a crumb of chocolate muffin

 

[mrstakeaway]

So the first thing I saw was a T-shirt of Jaxon with Angel wings, I wouldn’t wear a T-shirt of my own child with Angel wings nvm anybody else

 

[AreYouJoking?]

Her target audience are mums who don’t have disabled children but want to feel like they give a shit about ones who do. It looks good on the gram to look like your an ally.

 

[Sendparent]

@mrstakeaway HUGE difference between discussing interior influencers bad taste/ beauty influencers having secret botox and making accusations about a woman whose child has just died.
@Sendparent did you miss the post up thread claiming his death was caused by her munchausens ? That is literally saying she killed him.

No I haven't missed any posts. I saw someone say 'maybe' so it wasn't a full blown allegation. Perhaps you should read the previous threads, people will have thoughts and heightened emotions over everything but it's clear that everyone is being careful on this thread. If you like to use tattle to talk about interior/beauty influencers this might not be the thread for you

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

Just to add, for anyone not up to speed, as well as the appalling ways she treated Jaxon, she also bitched about children's cancer wards. Apparently they're like 5 star hotels because the families who need them have access to games consoles and snacks.

 

[Cariad]

My thoughts exactly!!! Especially number 2, she must think people are so thick .


Maldives is such a strange place for a poorly child to go, I imagine there’s not a lot of hospitals. If he had an emergency or something could be dangerous for him.. Also probably be boring for him after a while. But again what she wanted to do and where would give her the most “stylish” insta pics

There's only one hospital on Male( the main Island) for the whole of the archipelago ...the Maldives are not designed for ill children and the flight(s) alone would take 11 hrs . However I have no doubt she will still 'honour his memory' and go to the Maldives- hypocrite ....although currently the Maldives are not open for U.K. travellers
but remember this is the mother that took her sick child to the remote African islands of Cape Verde, which also had no hospital....it's always been about her and not J

 

[dailyfaillurker]

I used to only stalk them I followed her when he was clearly dying (sue me) and now I’m just lurking because I wanted to know if she’d post what happened.

the fact she says she “cant” to me is odd for someone who shared so publicly so I do wonder if it’s not “I don’t feel I can” and more “yeah I’m not allowed to talk about it…”

I don’t think trying to find out how a child died should be part of your social media experience tbh. I would unfollow and find something a bit healthier to think about.

 

[Abettermumma]

He only has “colours” because baby A had orange and all their new webpage is orange and she’s just desperately trying to copy…