Thenursemum #4 Supposed to be a nurse, more bothered about her purse, forgets to be a mum, Kayteee, you ok Hun
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do you really think she denies her boy his reflux medicine so he vomits more to try and keep the care? I don’t know about disabilities etc so half of what is said on here I know nothing about or understand! However, I find that with her attitude, her mannerisms she is an utter narcissist and if that’s what she does it really confirms that she is one. she loves herself so much it’s cringe. I wish she would decide, is her page about her son and standing up for his disabilities or is it about her
How can a reoffending ableist be an advocate?. And what has she ever supported other than herself?. She belittles the NHS and anyone medically involved in her sons care. Us historic observers know she was often less than polite about Kiera’s but when she seemed to be at risk of losing them that all stopped.
The valentines post after she waffled on about making it about children she thanked her ex for giving her the time to ‘love on herself’.
So she has left J with his dad for the 7 days and 3 dental sessions. She has used his motability vehicle to make at least the one trip in the middle without him. Breaking the rules. It is not for his benefit. The blatant breach of covid lockdown rules is the reason she is quiet (don’t reply saying it’s a bending it’s not it’s illegal) She posted one still image of J playing with his cheap as chips hospital play set. It was her scrolling through her pictures that prompted that…..he isn’t with her.
Her ex has NO KIERA’s. He doesn’t have a cell for him to sleep in. And I doubt he’s spent a week awake every night watching over this medically complex child she says she has.
There is not a single reason for J to have this care package, not now, and not a year ago.
The valentines post after she waffled on about making it about children she thanked her ex for giving her the time to ‘love on herself’.
So she has left J with his dad for the 7 days and 3 dental sessions. She has used his motability vehicle to make at least the one trip in the middle without him. Breaking the rules. It is not for his benefit. The blatant breach of covid lockdown rules is the reason she is quiet (don’t reply saying it’s a bending it’s not it’s illegal) She posted one still image of J playing with his cheap as chips hospital play set. It was her scrolling through her pictures that prompted that…..he isn’t with her.
Her ex has NO KIERA’s. He doesn’t have a cell for him to sleep in. And I doubt he’s spent a week awake every night watching over this medically complex child she says she has.
There is not a single reason for J to have this care package, not now, and not a year ago.
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She reduces his reflux medication from time to time, coincidentally when his carers are up for review/appeal. There is usually another reason given e.g. to reduce the time he is being medications or to see if it helps him feed better.
The really odd thing is she openly admits to doing this when she hides so many other parts of her life: partners, engagements, family etc. The only reason I can think of is that she thinks most of her followers won’t understand the medication issues (they aren’t nurses like her after all) and that by describing “complex” medications she makes her life look incomprehensibly complicated and unmanageable. But she doesn’t seem to realise all her posts and stories are public, even to people that don’t follow her. People like J’s doctors, the care review team, and social workers.
The really odd thing is she openly admits to doing this when she hides so many other parts of her life: partners, engagements, family etc. The only reason I can think of is that she thinks most of her followers won’t understand the medication issues (they aren’t nurses like her after all) and that by describing “complex” medications she makes her life look incomprehensibly complicated and unmanageable. But she doesn’t seem to realise all her posts and stories are public, even to people that don’t follow her. People like J’s doctors, the care review team, and social workers.
That ad. The lead up to it on her stories. People having been asking for weeks?? Ya what?! No they haven’t.
I like to think benefit picked her because she was a cheaper option and would sell her soul for a slice of fame.It’s not self love either that she preaches, it’s narcissism in disguise as self love- which I don’t think a brand should be attaching themselves too lightly.
I like to think benefit picked her because she was a cheaper option and would sell her soul for a slice of fame.It’s not self love either that she preaches, it’s narcissism in disguise as self love- which I don’t think a brand should be attaching themselves too lightly.
And how is that an ad to be proud of? It’s a few seconds long, doesn’t show how to use it, price, colours, details. It’s a tiktok scroll on by at its best. She’s so outdated and plain. I’ve said before hasn’t she seen the material some people are posting? It’s high end/editorial. It’s polished and pristine. It takes them time and creativity to produce and it shows. She takes minutes at most and because she just loves herself that’s the only thing she’s able to fill the screen with and its simply not cutting it. It’s less than amateur.
Yup the advert was based around herself not the product. Shes a total narcissist.
Also she is definitely using a filter. Not an Instagram filter. K used one whilst she videoed it first!
Yes it’s absolutely terrible. I am none the wiser about the product?!
Literally buy it and work it out for yourself ‘simpletons’.
Benefit you picked a duff one here!
Benefit you picked a duff one here!
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She really needs to work out what she wants from this platform. Is it about you or J?! People only followed for and care about Jaxon’s progress, not selfies of you and your pathetic attempt at ads. She’s definitely trying to steer into the ‘beauty’ influencer now. J will be a thing of the past soon! 2 images of him out of 6 and the whole page was supposed to be surrounding him and the “difficulties” they encounter, now all we see is wonky teeth, kissing mirrors and I love me selfies.
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Can it be reported to the ASA then if she’s used a filter
So nice to see that others see what I see! Never understood why initially a thread was not allowed.
I was recommend to follow Kaytee back in the early days, as I was a fellow nurse, with a child around the same age..this was back when Kaytee had possibly 15,000 followers and was ‘looking’ for a job, saying how difficult it was to find anything flexible, and asking for advice. I too was struggling to flexible working so I messaged her. Can’t remember to be honest if I got a reply.
She then started to complain about the carers, and as a ‘nurse’ it struck how 1) she should have understood the complexities surround chc funding (it’s a bloody minefield), and 2) she should have realised that J’s needs were perhaps more ‘social care’ needs. I messaged a really nice message explaining that it’s almost impossible to acquire chc funding, but perhaps she could contact the local social care team, there would no doubt be appropriate funding streams available if J did require carers. She totally ignored the message but then start passively aggressively putting messages about how she couldn’t get funding from anywhere, health didn’t want to support her, social care didn’t want to support her. At the point I unfollowed, as she clearlywas just using J for engagement, and thought no more.
Then Rosie Ramsey and Susie Verril started the fundraiser for her and bought her back to my attention. I started to view her stories occasionally and mostly forgot about her. Until the whole Susie Verril thing blew up, the Twitter messages she had postedthat were racist, laughing at ‘disabled’ children..and the fact Kaytee never called her outin this, really didn’t sit right. The things Susie said, even in jest, were pretty hideous, and no parent of a child with a black father, who has complex physical and medical needs, could sit back and not say something, just because of money. It’s not natural, and it’s not what you do as a caring parent.
Obviously from there on in she has just steadily become worse and worse, ans I can’t even bare to ‘hate’ watch her any more, and listen to the bullshit she spouts about the nhs.
I was recommend to follow Kaytee back in the early days, as I was a fellow nurse, with a child around the same age..this was back when Kaytee had possibly 15,000 followers and was ‘looking’ for a job, saying how difficult it was to find anything flexible, and asking for advice. I too was struggling to flexible working so I messaged her. Can’t remember to be honest if I got a reply.
She then started to complain about the carers, and as a ‘nurse’ it struck how 1) she should have understood the complexities surround chc funding (it’s a bloody minefield), and 2) she should have realised that J’s needs were perhaps more ‘social care’ needs. I messaged a really nice message explaining that it’s almost impossible to acquire chc funding, but perhaps she could contact the local social care team, there would no doubt be appropriate funding streams available if J did require carers. She totally ignored the message but then start passively aggressively putting messages about how she couldn’t get funding from anywhere, health didn’t want to support her, social care didn’t want to support her. At the point I unfollowed, as she clearlywas just using J for engagement, and thought no more.
Then Rosie Ramsey and Susie Verril started the fundraiser for her and bought her back to my attention. I started to view her stories occasionally and mostly forgot about her. Until the whole Susie Verril thing blew up, the Twitter messages she had postedthat were racist, laughing at ‘disabled’ children..and the fact Kaytee never called her outin this, really didn’t sit right. The things Susie said, even in jest, were pretty hideous, and no parent of a child with a black father, who has complex physical and medical needs, could sit back and not say something, just because of money. It’s not natural, and it’s not what you do as a caring parent.
Obviously from there on in she has just steadily become worse and worse, ans I can’t even bare to ‘hate’ watch her any more, and listen to the bullshit she spouts about the nhs.
I remember the hundreds of stories slating Kieras. Literally all day every day. Complaint after complaint. She soon stopped when she realised she needed to keep them sweet so they'd support her appeal. An appeal for 60 hours a week which she herself has admitted is far too much care for j and was given to her in hospital because she complained about coming home with him and not being able to look after him. I can see why she was in hospital for 8 months now. She didn't want to be discharged until she'd got a new home and full kiera package.
What I find really odd is that she’s posing in front of a frame that’s only got a couple of photos in?! I guess the ones that look blank could say something in small print but it just looks empty and a strange place to record that video if that’s the case?the faces she pulls
The slating of carers was awful and relentless. It was pretty much every shift and, from memory, she included personal identifying information in some of the stories. There is still an extremely patronising post on her grid as to how she doesn’t completely blame the carers because she had three years training to be a nurse and the carers (many of whom will have had years and years of experience caring for high needs children) will only have had a few weeks training.
It is telling that the slating of carers has now ended. Partially because she needs them on side to help with her appeal. But more importantly J now has much lower needs so there is little a carer, particularly an overnight carer, could get wrong.
It is telling that the slating of carers has now ended. Partially because she needs them on side to help with her appeal. But more importantly J now has much lower needs so there is little a carer, particularly an overnight carer, could get wrong.
She’s a self obsessed narcissist
Mrs Hinch has liked that latest ad. That has done me in, all Katie’s begging for her followers to inbox her and ask her to message Katy again has paid off
Yes as the law changed recently as far as make up and beauty products are concerned. There is a thread on it here. ASA were the ones that changed it so will be aware in your complaint
Today I have seen a fellow SEN mum on insta Post about recieving 15 hours care from continuing health and her story was so.... Greatful. She was so so happy with 15hours care given to her.
Her child genuinely qualifies for continuing health care because he actually has high health care needs.... Who also isn't at school yet.
Then there's kaytee... 60hours carers package, full time school and help with his father. Still not greatful. No genuine gratitude what so ever.
Who doesn't need that care package.
There's families who actually qualify. Who need that extra help. Then there's her. With a fundraiser that achieved incredible amounts that isn't needed, nanny's in the shape of health care professionals.
She disgusts me. I hate the way she is dragging the reputation and image of SEN parenting down. Single handedly and all whilst having the life of reily whilst many of us get on with it and never moan. Who are so greatful for the things we get.
You want to be utterly embarrassed and disgraced kaytee.
Her child genuinely qualifies for continuing health care because he actually has high health care needs.... Who also isn't at school yet.
Then there's kaytee... 60hours carers package, full time school and help with his father. Still not greatful. No genuine gratitude what so ever.
Who doesn't need that care package.
There's families who actually qualify. Who need that extra help. Then there's her. With a fundraiser that achieved incredible amounts that isn't needed, nanny's in the shape of health care professionals.
She disgusts me. I hate the way she is dragging the reputation and image of SEN parenting down. Single handedly and all whilst having the life of reily whilst many of us get on with it and never moan. Who are so greatful for the things we get.
You want to be utterly embarrassed and disgraced kaytee.
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