TheLongMum

[HeidiHole]

She is so cringe! I really want to like her, but. just stop with the wank talk. It was be so grim if it was a man showing of his sex toys - GRIM!!

 

[JellyDonut]

Hahaha on her questions. “How do you afford non essential things like Botox?!” Her answer: “I just don’t feed the kids for a week or two. After all they’re the ones responsible for the wrinkles. How do you spend your pay cheque?”

(Obviously I know she was joking about not feeding the kids, but she can’t get salty about people asking how she affords it when she pleads poverty 99% of the time)

 

[electric_boots]

Hahaha on her questions. “How do you afford non essential things like Botox?!” Her answer: “I just don’t feed the kids for a week or two. After all they’re the ones responsible for the wrinkles. How do you spend your pay cheque?”

(Obviously I know she was joking about not feeding the kids, but she can’t get salty about people asking how she affords it when she pleads poverty 99% of the time)

There was a lady on here a few pages back who said she and her husband work all the hours god sends and they can't afford the luxuries Anna has. If she wants botox, she would quite literally have to not feed the kids for a few weeks. Anna's little 'joke' is in extremely poor taste.

 

[Starsanddaggers]

So does anna use a dildo up her arse.....

What i hate most about her is the way she slags off her mum
.... Yet completely relies on her company and basic support .......
My mums a dick too. So I just dont see her or talk to her much???!

 

[Chattymamabear]

So does anna use a dildo up her arse.....

What i hate most about her is the way she slags off her mum
.... Yet completely relies on her company and basic support .......
My mums a dick too. So I just dont see her or talk to her much???!

anal dildo apparently. Grim. Yep agree! My mum helps me out with childcare so I tend never to slag her off if she does one little thing to annoy me, let alone publicise anything on Instagram

 

[Simbama12]

Ooh someone didn’t like the Botox question. She’s only put it up so loads of huns message her to say she can spend it on what she likes

 

[electric_boots]

Ooh someone didn’t like the Botox question. She’s only put it up so loads of huns message her to say she can spend it on what she likes

I was SO CLOSE to messaging her but I don't wanna get blocked

 

[Nixen]

Got the new man around to stay. Known him for a few weeks and introducing him to her kids

 

[Starsanddaggers]

Hopefully she won't tell us all how much he loves going down on her like that other bloke she was with ....they lasted about a month.

 

[electric_boots]

New man staying over when she's known him about a week and getting pissed on wine with the kids upstairs in bed. And she wonders why people say snarky things when she does the Q&A's

 

[Twopenniesworth]

Is it definitely the new boyfriend that’s round? That’s so soon! If my partner and I weren’t together and he introduced our children to someone new that quickly I would hit the roof! Plus he could be anyone ffs! Why couldn’t she have waited until the girls were with their dad!

 

[Onecandream]

I’m pretty sure in the past she’s had a guy friend over to stay so could just be that

 

[Nixen]

She must read here, she’s just posted it’s her mate

 

[Harry]

Anna babe (as your read here) what’s a cry wank I’m still trying to figure out what one is??

 

[electric_boots]

Man I need to set up an Instagram and become an influencer. Even a shite one like Anna seems to get sent at least two things a week. I'm in the wrong game

 

[Whataday]

Am I the only one to think that it’s a bit weird to film yourself while you’re on your own, laughing at a film…? Certainly calculated, because you would have had to have laughed at that bit of the film first, then thought ‘oh, this would make good content’, and then wound the film back, and then watched it again, while filming yourself, but watching yourself, to make sure that you’d filmed it properly…? It reminds me of the numerous times that she’s filmed herself crying…if I’m really upset, my first thought isn’t ‘Hang on, I should film this…There’s thousands of people who will want to see it”. It just all seems so…..manipulative.


I don’t know what to think of Anna. She’s funny, and definitely has a way with words. But I worry that she’s someone who demonstrates signs of narcissistic personality disorder. Or more specifically a covert (or vulnerable) narcissist. I think quite a number of people do on Instagram, it’s in the nature of the format. You’d have to be narcissistic to some kind of degree to believe that your life was worthy of interest. But some of her actions and words push it into the realms of NPD. If you look up the traits, she demonstrates a number on a fairly regular basis. She has a deep need for excessive attention and admiration. She totally uses her profile to extract validation from us followers; the regular posts that place her as a victim to get all those ‘You go, hun’ type replies etc.


I think she’s deleted the post now, but I remember her basically bragging about assaulting the father of her kids when he came home from work and wanted a beer (even if he was being totally inconsiderate and insensitive, her actions were not really warranted behaviour). Uncontrollable anger like this, is very common from narcissists. Similarly she still criticises him on her stories, with no forum for him to represent himself, which is typical of a narcissistic post-relationship smear campaign. The way she slags her mum, and shows all her healing books on narcissistic abuse, but still expects support from her? And unfortunately the children of narcissists often become narcissists too, having never learned empathy, and stuck with the emotional range of an entitled teenager.

And also the addiction to porn and sex, that need for instant gratification and the constant search for validation and supply through all the men she’s slept with. Not to mention the victimhood…her situation isn’t her fault…it’s her mum’s fault…or it’s the ex’s fault, because he wants to work (or something, even though she could work, seeing as one kid is at school, and the other is in day care…or am I missing something…?)….oh no I forgot, it’s the patriarchy’s fault, because no other woman or mother in this country has ever got a good job, or had a successful career etc.

Anyway, look up NPD. It's worth it just to inform yourself that you're not in a relationship with someone with it. Because it won't end well, it never does

 

[electric_boots]

Am I the only one to think that it’s a bit weird to film yourself while you’re on your own, laughing at a film…? Certainly calculated, because you would have had to have laughed at that bit of the film first, then thought ‘oh, this would make good content’, and then wound the film back, and then watched it again, while filming yourself, but watching yourself, to make sure that you’d filmed it properly…? It reminds me of the numerous times that she’s filmed herself crying…if I’m really upset, my first thought isn’t ‘Hang on, I should film this…There’s thousands of people who will want to see it”. It just all seems so…..manipulative.


I don’t know what to think of Anna. She’s funny, and definitely has a way with words. But I worry that she’s someone who demonstrates signs of narcissistic personality disorder. Or more specifically a covert (or vulnerable) narcissist. I think quite a number of people do on Instagram, it’s in the nature of the format. You’d have to be narcissistic to some kind of degree to believe that your life was worthy of interest. But some of her actions and words push it into the realms of NPD. If you look up the traits, she demonstrates a number on a fairly regular basis. She has a deep need for excessive attention and admiration. She totally uses her profile to extract validation from us followers; the regular posts that place her as a victim to get all those ‘You go, hun’ type replies etc.


I think she’s deleted the post now, but I remember her basically bragging about assaulting the father of her kids when he came home from work and wanted a beer (even if he was being totally inconsiderate and insensitive, her actions were not really warranted behaviour). Uncontrollable anger like this, is very common from narcissists. Similarly she still criticises him on her stories, with no forum for him to represent himself, which is typical of a narcissistic post-relationship smear campaign. The way she slags her mum, and shows all her healing books on narcissistic abuse, but still expects support from her? And unfortunately the children of narcissists often become narcissists too, having never learned empathy, and stuck with the emotional range of an entitled teenager.

And also the addiction to porn and sex, that need for instant gratification and the constant search for validation and supply through all the men she’s slept with. Not to mention the victimhood…her situation isn’t her fault…it’s her mum’s fault…or it’s the ex’s fault, because he wants to work (or something, even though she could work, seeing as one kid is at school, and the other is in day care…or am I missing something…?)….oh no I forgot, it’s the patriarchy’s fault, because no other woman or mother in this country has ever got a good job, or had a successful career etc.

Anyway, look up NPD. It's worth it just to inform yourself that you're not in a relationship with someone with it. Because it won't end well, it never does

I agree with everything you've said here. I've mentioned before that I'm an old friend of her ex and yes, she did assault him that night and that is ultimately why he left. I remember her post and how cleverly she worded it because I remember being so angry that her followers were getting fed the victim story when the reality of that incident was way different. I'm not denying that maybe she was suffering from some kind of mental illness at that time (she's mentioned postnatal depression), but if he'd hit her, nobody would blame her for leaving, would they?

Also, the story where she filmed herself laughing hysterically, she was watching Sex/Life, I've watched it and it was basically a scene with a bloke turning round in the shower to reveal he had a massive dick. Not exactly enough to have me doubled over in spluttering hysterics. Why is she so immature when it comes to sex?

 

[Starsanddaggers]

She tried to baby trap the ex with her 2nd child...
Didn't realise she was violent towards him too!
She's currently looking at dresses to wear to her brothers wedding or something
All utterly flamboyant
She's just a bitter older mum who's out of touch with life

 

[Onecandream]

Her stories today about not being able to return to a cafe cos her kid spilt a drink on an outdoor table. Cos thats never happened before ever!

I get second hand embarrassment for the fact she’s stood up and taken a photo of the messy table whilst other ppl are around. Is this really the world now? Does everything need to be snapped and used for content. I honestly hate humans sometimes

 

[Venuslurker]

I thought it was cos they broke the plant pot.