So one of my kids in his first year was not reaching all his milestones on time, he was premature so it was to be expected but it literally stressed me out so much. He was my first and I was 24, much younger and even more clueless then I am now
![Face with tears of joy :joy: 😂](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f602.png)
, but even so I made sure to research and do everything I could for my baby. Got him into whatever therapy’s he needed, read and educated myself of his needs, went to play groups (even though I hated them) etc. So I don’t care for T and J acting so cavalier about the issue. They are both of matured age and have all the time in the world, there is no excuse for their naïveté.