I still contend that most of this decision to not have him in some kind of preschool comes back to Jenn refusing to drive. As useless as Tim is at his job, he does need to be flexible. Something new at MK? Event early morning? Late at night? He needs the flexibility to drop everything and get over there. He misses the mark a lot, but still. It would be difficult for him to be boxed in to a preschool drop off and pick up schedule (which at J$ age might be 9-12ish if they don’t do full days). This is where the full time parent with a working vehicle comes in, but that person doesn’t exist. The chickens are coming home to roost on that subject in just a few weeks when #2 shows up.Jackson is 3 years, 2 months old.
He won’t go to daycare cause (in no particular order)…..
• Timbo and Dejennerate can’t be bothered.
• Daycare is too expensive
• he can’t feed himself using utensils, not just using his hands
• can’t have a sit down meal without an iPad being 8 to 10” from his face.
• he has the fine motor skills of a 18 month old
• his talk is gibberish most of the time
• he is not potty trained or even started the program
• he is not socialized
• he thinks hitting someone is funny
• he will bring “germies” into their house as he will be constantly sick in the beginning months, as his body lacks the antibodies that he would have built up naturally being around kids his own age. (the typical colds and runny noses young kids have)
Basically, Timbo and Dejennerate‘s decisions and lifestyle (seldom home) have screwed him. 🫣
I had high hopes for Jackson. He had the twinkle in his eyes that most kids do about the world. Wonderment , curiosity and inquisitiveness.
Unfortunately he got the people*** who believe they are still teenagers, with the accompanying mentality. Me me me!!
Tim is rigid like a hammer and Jackson is the nail!
*** I refuse to use the word parent(s) cause this is a slap in the face to all of us.
Parenting is selflessness and sacrifice.
Giving love, guidance and patience.
All these Timbo and DJ fail to give Jackson.
Add Tim and DJ to the saboteur list for breaking Jackson’s spirit.
What I find really strange is the fact that they never include the prop in dinner plans. It seems that they always eat without him…I know those meal boxes have options for servings for 4…so why the duck can’t they include him in their meals?
He is regulated to only eat pasta & meatballs. They should drop those stupid meal boxes (talk about bad for the environment) and cook damn real food!
-- they can't live off pizza eggs forever, because Gin can't cook for tit (with our without specific guidance from a boxed meal) and Dim is too "manly" to bother to cook anything for his family.
YES!
I still do not understand J$ eating separately from them. Even lunch, they prep his meal completely separate and then they eat something else. I'm not looking for the parent of the year award, but my kids ate what we ate. If one of them didn't like some part of the meal, I made accommodations, like my younger daughter doesn't like the taco seasoning, so I'd make her a bowl of unseasoned meat before I seasoned the rest. But we always ate the same meal at the same time. Even those insane nights where we were going from volleyball to softball to girl scouts to karate and we ate in the car, we ate the same thing together. We talked about our day, what's going on the next day, the weekend, anything. Basic human conversation. No iPad. No special meal for each person. No prepping a whole meal, cleaning up and then prepping another meal.Jackson has always been there for the photo ops exclusively.
When has he ever truly been included as
part of the family?
His meals have been different than theirs.
He ate at a different time than them.
Even when they sit down for a meal they really aren’t together.
Jackson sits with his face glued to his iPad, mindlessly eating.
He is never included in their conversations.
He is talked AT, rather than talked TO.
So no, DJ, you are not a family building core memories!
You are two self centered, narcissistic, egotistical, entitled, controlled, selfish pricks who will ruin two innocent boys lives!
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YES!
Just caretakers of Jackson’s (and soon to be Anotherson’s) daily needs.
Nothing more.
Every single person I’ve ever seen with fillers…again good or bad…has smooth lips with practically zero lines. Jenn’s lips are still very lined and dry looking, so again her sodium intake is puffing everything up
Wonder if those are the same painful jorts. Really, both of them look like they aged about twenty years since that was taken.
We have dinner together as a family as often as we can. Sometimes it means eating close to 8pm (and I know that’s not ideal) but when my husband isn’t home until 7 it’s what happens. I would rather eat late and together than separate ourselves into different meal times. I just don’t understand, they have all these little luxuries that they just refuse to acknowledge
and Timmy Boy before he decided his 2 feet needed tattoos as well - LOL!!!
He probably won't go to kinder until he's 7 or 8 because they will forget to register him for school....cause dates are hard.
