I am not convinced M and Thomas had this close and loving relationship that she portrayed on her blog. Whatever she write was probably exaggerated to appeal to her audience/fit the narrative. I have never heard about her spending thanksgiving 2016(?) with her father before? Even if- it’s quite possible something went down that led to a rift.
My take on it is that her relationship with her father wasn’t close at all for a long time but not necessarily in a bad way. More amicable and a bit distanced. Her gushing posts were over a few incidents when her father did great things for her past but highly exaggerated (weekly sushi after dance class…). She might have felt she was a Daddy’s Girl and still not had a close relationship anymore.
If nothing terrible had gone down I do think it was very harsh to cut him out after the first round of paparazzi. His later antics were horrible though. Funny enough that’s exactly the behaviour they have displayed later with the RF. H&M are adults: they most definitely could have handled Thomas better. It was their responsibility first. Why not fly down before the relationship was confirmed? They managed to meet up for a long time in secret. Even if it was just to make sure he is not going round and talking stuff about them. Getting in front of the story with a solid plan in a good way is not their strong suit. Even Kate’s uncle Garry, which is a nuisance to the Walses to say the least, is handled by W&K via her parents (that’s my take on it obv) to a certain extent.
I think so too, it wasn’t just on her blog though. I remember seeing interviews when she was talking about her relationship with her dad, or speaking of herself as a total daddy’s girl. It was a talk show similar to jimmy fallon etc.
I can’t find it because of all the drama since (she cancelled a jimmy fallon appearance last minute this time last year).
As she got older and I guess that image got a little stale, she migrated to actress - except that branding never really took off for her. She didn’t hit big in her acting career despite a long term relationship with a producer. The end was on the horizon for suits so she needed to move on, and discard the producer hubby.
so she switched tactic to became an influencer/blogger foodie, world traveller and sophisticate, at a time when blogging was popular and before we all started talking about how people only posted a highlight reel of their life online. When bloggers were aspirational and a fantasy we bought into. A lot of c-list actresses made similar moves to this (Ashley Madekwe had a popular fashion blog while her acting career stagnated a bit)
entering her mid 30s, she switched tactic again. The whole celeb/influencer thing wasn’t working out so much for her. She wasn’t THAT famous and I guess she wanted to be more serious as she got older, hence the move to UN ambassadorship, the move to the U.K., spewing that soap commercial anecdote to everyone she spoke to as though she was a lifelong feminism champion and branding herself as humanitarian. All very A La (the movie) Bruno.
now, she’s a professional victim with a splash of humanitarianism.
the South Park parody of her was spot on. She’s depicted as visiting a brand management/PR company and her branding starts off as “sorority girl” but then migrates to actress and eventually, victim.
i don’t think her and her father were ever as close as she made out, and it just illustrates how easily she lies and twists the truth as she sheds her latest skin. I think if she’d had a close a relationship with her dad as she’d initially claimed, she wouldn’t have thrown him under the bus in the way she did.
he was her loving daddy when he was tucked away in Mexico, before she was famous enough that people would be interested in him. He could be part of her fantasy that way. But when it came to the wedding, it became obvious he wasn’t part of the image she wanted to portray of herself as some sort of All-American upper middle class princess cum sophisticated world traveller and humanitarian.
Thomas is a pretty down to earth, unassuming and regular man. He isn’t especially refined or polished. This wouldn’t bother meghan if her own persona wasn’t such an act. But because it is a facade - and facades are fragile - she had to discard Thomas lest his normality risked ruining it.
I wonder if that’s why Harry was so disinterested in meeting Thomas? He knew he might ruin the fantasy that was Meghan Markle. I wonder if Meghan picked up on that and started to distance herself from Thomas? Then used his first mistake as a reason to discard him? I don’t think anyone will ever know the truth of their mentality as a couple where Thomas is concerned. But it’s certainly bizarre how much of a u-turn it all took, and it’s bizarre how little interest Harry had in him.
I’m of the opinion, as I said before, that Harry doesn’t love Meghan on a deep level. He has put her on a pedestal and wilfully ignores anything that might tarnish his fantasy or spoil it for him. That’s why he’s happy to perpetuate her lies and that’s why he was never interested in meeting her dad. He isn’t interested in her as a person, just who she is as a fantasy. A vehicle for him to project his mummy and abandonment issues onto. A fantasy to alleviate his inferiority complex. It’s all very self absorbed, but then that’s how Harry has shown himself to be.