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It seems that Members only get bad press if they've done something bad (Andrew) or if they've annoyed/don't have the support of the family (Diana and Meghan)

I know Kate has had her share of bad press when the two were dating, but it was hardly anything at the level of what Diana and Meg have faced
 
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I think the one were he wrote to apologise about that still survives.
I think he got a Queen Mary sized rocket for that.
You’re correct, just had a look. In it he says “I feel such a cold hearted and unsympathetic swine for writing all that I did ... No one can realize more than you how little poor Johnnie meant to me who hardly knew him ... I feel so much for you, darling Mama, who was his mother.”
Reading more about him, he sounds abhorrent. He said in regards to Aboriginal Australians “they are the most revolting form of living creatures I've ever seen!! They are the lowest known form of human beings & are the nearest thing to monkeys.”
He also said this about Barbados and it’s people “It looks a proper bum island this Barbados. It's a unique sort of scenery very ugly & I don't take much to the coloured population who are revolting…I'm sorry for the colonial office people who have to live there tho (sic).”
 
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Exactly her sister has married a millionaire and would live very quietly with him if her sister hadn’t married the future king.
But would she ( or James) have married millionnaires if their sister wasn't married to William? Kates marriage put the whole family into a much higher social circle.
 
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In regards to Prince John, he made regular appearances with his family until his 11th birthday when his condition, epilepsy, became too severe. Unfortunately back in the 1900s, epilepsy was poorly understood and nearly everyone who had it as severe as John, if they couldn’t be cared for at home, ended up moving to a mental hospital for the rest of their life. When reading about John I have read one of his grandmothers kept a garden especially for him on the Sandringham Estate. Also his mother let local children befriend him which was against Royal protocol at the time. After his death one of the children, Winifred Thomas, was given a number of John's books, which Queen Mary had inscribed, “In memory of our dear little Prince.”
It seems that quite a few of the family were sympathetic to John, apart from Prince Edward who described him as an animal and said his death was “little more than a regrettable nuisance”. He also wrote a hateful letter to Queen Mary which has since been lost. What a prized dick he was.
Yes, it was Queen Alexandra who was living at Sandringham at the time who had a garden for him. If I remember correctly from what I've read, there were other problems than epilepsy and he became very distressed at the hubbub of a working palace and state occasions at a time when his brothers and sister were growing up and on with their lives, and his parents were often very busy. It was decided that a quiet life in the country would be better for him and he had his own little household at Sandringham. Queen Mary chose it so that he could see trains from his bed, which he loved. He also had regular contact with his family though as his fits got worse they distressed his siblings.

After John died, Alexandra wrote to Mary, saying that their "two darling Johnnies" were lying next to each other in the Sandringham church graveyard; her youngest child, Prince Alexander John of Wales, had died at Sandringham at one day old.
 
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You’re correct, just had a look. In it he says “I feel such a cold hearted and unsympathetic swine for writing all that I did ... No one can realize more than you how little poor Johnnie meant to me who hardly knew him ... I feel so much for you, darling Mama, who was his mother.”
Reading more about him, he sounds abhorrent. He said in regards to Aboriginal Australians “they are the most revolting form of living creatures I've ever seen!! They are the lowest known form of human beings & are the nearest thing to monkeys.”
It makes you wonder just why they wanted him out the way, doesn’t it …
 
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Kates privacy hasn't really been infringed, sure there was the hounding at the beginning but we never see her now unless its an official engagement. The speculation about her marriage and rumours aren't based on anything solid. Although Giles Coren ahem.
*whispers people on mumsnet say they see her in waitrose.
Just reading about Prince John to jog my memory.
 
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It makes you wonder just why they wanted him out the way, doesn’t it …
Plus being a Hitler fan and leaving confidential state papers around at parties didn't go down well. He even played a huge part in covering up a murder in the Bahamas as Governor. The Americans kept a very close eye on him as a potential German spy.

Andrew's not such an anomaly after all.
 
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Kates privacy hasn't really been infringed, sure there was the hounding at the beginning but we never see her now unless its an official engagement. The speculation about her marriage and rumours aren't based on anything solid. Although Giles Coren ahem.
*whispers people on mumsnet say they see her in waitrose.
Just reading about Prince John to jog my memory.
I think the hounding that Kate had at the start of her relationship was common with a lot of young women in the spotlight during that time. I remembering seeing videos of paparazzi running around and swarming Kate for a photo in the same way they did for Keira Knightly and Sienna Miller. It was also a time where slot of gossip magazines were horrendous about women. They would say that Kate, Keira, etc had eating disorders or picked apart the way they looked in a paparazzi shot. I think unfortunately the treatment that Kate faced was also of its era and its died down a lot since. I hope Charlotte and any other young female royals marrying into the family don’t face the same sort of intrusion.
 
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Did everyone know this about Edward? I'm quite shocked, I felt a little sorry for him.
 
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I think the hounding that Kate had at the start of her relationship was common with a lot of young women in the spotlight during that time. I remembering seeing videos of paparazzi running around and swarming Kate for a photo in the same way they did for Keira Knightly and Sienna Miller. It was also a time where slot of gossip magazines were horrendous about women. They would say that Kate, Keira, etc had eating disorders or picked apart the way they looked in a paparazzi shot. I think unfortunately the treatment that Kate faced was also of its era and its died down a lot since. I hope Charlotte and any other young female royals marrying into the family don’t face the same sort of intrusion.
Even worse were the paps who would try and get upskirt pics of celebs.
 
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But would she ( or James) have married millionnaires if their sister wasn't married to William? Kates marriage put the whole family into a much higher social circle.
I've said this before. Pippa was going out with an ex-cricketer turned banker. That's about the level of guys both sisters would have got if they didn't hit the limelight. Party Pieces was going along steadily but grew astronomically after the wedding to have enabled them to purchase a house for £4-5m. And James is just doing James things still
 
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Did everyone know this about Edward? I'm quite shocked, I felt a little sorry for him.
Sorry I missed that, what happened?

I've said this before. Pippa was going out with an ex-cricketer turned banker. That's about the level of guys both sisters would have got if they didn't hit the limelight. Party Pieces was going along steadily but grew astronomically after the wedding to have enabled them to purchase a house for £4-5m. And James is just doing James things still
It's brilliant he has overcome depression and married his love
 
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In the Royals defence, if you had a family member with mental disabilities they were often sent away regardless of what class you were. On one side of my family they were working class and there was a child who became mentally disabled after they were deprived of oxygen during a routine operation. Lots of people were surprised that the family didn’t send the child far away and forgot about him as was the norm, instead they all looked after him until the parents were unable to and even then they still kept in regular contact. This was very rare behaviour, I was speaking to a family friend about this several years ago and they couldn’t understand why my family kept the boy because he wouldn’t be able to get married, hold down a job, look after the parents, etc. It was very much ‘what is the use?’ At first I was aghast but it was the common belief of the day. Anything like that was shameful. The way the British treated people with mental disabilities has been very cruel and even today you hear horror stories.
I caused a bit of trouble in the family doing the family tree which triggered a relative's memory about my dad's aunt in a dinner table conversation in the 1930s/40s. She demanded to know why my dad's dad was being fed cos he wasn't bringing any money into the house at the time as he was ill.
My dad was devastated at this news but she died before he could have it out with her.

But would she ( or James) have married millionnaires if their sister wasn't married to William? Kates marriage put the whole family into a much higher social circle.
Is James aristocracy as I heard the Middleton's were looked down on by them?
 
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I'd much prefer to be an ordinary millionaire than a royal millionaire. Kate did have it tough from the tabloids in the beginning when there were hordes of them following her around but she has it much better now though.

I'd hate to be a royal in the direct line. The worst part for me would be one of my children being heir to the throne. I'd be so worried about George if he were my child. What if he doesn't want to do it? He seems kind of quiet and shy. What if the press take against him? I don't think I could cope with the worry of it. I suppose others would love the idea of it though.
 
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But it's not just money and nice outfits. It's a life of pure privilege where you don't really have to think about money at all. Your job, while boring most days, is meeting people and shaking hands and being generally respectful and that's a lot easier than the average job - and on top of that you get to travel to other countries to meet some possibly amazing people? And even then, Kate has hardly been working anyway

The bad press is something but once you make it in good PR managers and the institution can probably shut them up pretty quickly. We can see that they're even able to afford a certain amount of privacy these days too

Even marrying a millionaire doesn't guarantee that sort of stuff, and I do wonder if Pippa would have met a millionaire had it not been for the family's newfound status

I think the Middletons did it for status primarily rather than money, but I can see the appeal in it, especially if you're happy to appear like you've got no actual personality. Plus being young means you probably won't consider the downsides as much
I don’t know….as lovely as it can be, the lack of privacy, choice and say over what I did with my life, or what my children can do, wouldn’t be worth it for me. All the small talk you have to make, having a smile on at all times, can’t be seen grumpy. Even coming out of the hospital after giving birth having to look all lovely 😱 But I’m not Kate! She does it very well in my opinion.
 
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Did everyone know this about Edward? I'm quite shocked, I felt a little sorry for him.
Yes. He was pretty awful. Never fit to be King.

I think he was sent to the Bahamas to keep him away from the Nazis during the war. That's how seriously they took his Nazi support.
 
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I'd hate to be a royal in the direct line. The worst part for me would be one of my children being heir to the throne. I'd be so worried about George if he were my child. What if he doesn't want to do it? He seems kind of quiet and shy. What if the press take against him? I don't think I could cope with the worry of it. I suppose others would love the idea of it though.
George is going to be socialised into it

My worry is for the second and third borns. I find it hard to believe that the heir to the throne doesn't get some sort of preferential treatment. And even then, they're going to be the monarch and that can be hard to grasp for kids - you know, why does my brother get this huge role but not me. Once they grow up, they're probably thankful for their place but it's still a toxic environment to grow up in I think. Especially if the youngsters get dropped under Charles' plans - George will never really have to know the difficulty of finding something to do with your life
 
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