Mate I must be doing life wrong.
The last promotion I had nearly ended my marriage due to the additional stress. Now that we are through it, can say it was totally worth it and the work that I had to put into both my job and my marriage has made me a better person - and we are a stronger couple for it. We dealt with it privately, without projecting onto social media to try and convince everyone (and ourselves!) that we are perfect and happy all the time. We weren't, we had a rough patch, but we got through it - because we are realistic and know that life and relationships aren't always amazing.
All this time we should have just been posting on socials about how wonderful and perfect our marriage is, and my husband should have thrown me a surprise party. I'll keep this in mind next time we're going through a rough patch!