That whole Little Mermaid post and the "my kids were colour shamed by lollipops at the Drs" that came from it are so ridiculous. Sarah, babe, you aren't special or subversive for taking your kids to see a kids movie that all kids like. Every kid loves a Disney movie. I was an early childhood educator when Frozen came out, when I tell you every single child saw the movie and wanted to dress up as Elsa, I mean it.
Nurses are also way too busy to give a tit what colour lollipop your kid chooses. So either you're messaging yourself or your cult are just as full of tit as you.
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Also, as someone whose parents neglected my dental health and hygiene as a child, take your oldest son to a dentist for his sake. Not for other people's comments or looks, but for his own health and self esteem. It's so much harder when they grow into adults with awful, crowded and crooked teeth. Take it from someone who knows. I know you read here, do something for your kids aside from buying them a mountain of plastic tit.