But that’s how coercive abuse works. Want to know how I know? Personal experienceVictim or not she's just as bad if not worse than he is.
She choose to stay with him putting her children specially Izzy in a vunrable situation and not only that but brought 3 more innocent lives into it afterwards.
Sorry any abuse victim staying and having more kids with a pedalo looses my sympathy
If you can call a turkey baster sex………then yesSo they've been having sex with the cyst just swinging back and forth like a grandfather clock?
I hope cyst is an acronym for can you stop talking.
I'm really sorry to hear that you've been through this, I wanted to say how much I appreciate your support in these threads for victims, you're very well spoken and your insights are valuedBut that’s how coercive abuse works. Want to know how I know? Personal experience
I really dislike Sarah Ingham for multiple reasons BUT I cannot say it’s ok for her to be emotionally abused by her husband anymore than I would say it would be ok for someone to be raped because I don’t like them. I would’ve been devastated if someone who didn’t like me had said I asked for it or deserved it because I didn’t get out quicker. Abuse is abuse and we, as a society really need to be better at recognising it based on what it is and not who is victim to it and whether they’re worthy of empathy
It's totally different let's just say we find out that Izzy was r*ped every night as a child do we not hold Sarah accountable for what she knew and decided to stay with???But that’s how coercive abuse works. Want to know how I know? Personal experience
I really dislike Sarah Ingham for multiple reasons BUT I cannot say it’s ok for her to be emotionally abused by her husband anymore than I would say it would be ok for someone to be raped because I don’t like them. I would’ve been devastated if someone who didn’t like me had said I asked for it or deserved it because I didn’t get out quicker. Abuse is abuse and we, as a society really need to be better at recognising it based on what it is and not who is victim to it and whether they’re worthy of empathy
I know logically it's because he likes the "image" of being the patriarch of his own little growing tribe. He sees the kids as building up his image of a strong, G traveller in the same way that the DPD van or a boat would. Still, even knowing this I do scratch my head about it. He does nothing with the kids he does have. When was the last time he spent quality one-on-one time with Isla?Why is creepy always begging for more children with lazy when he does absolutely fuck all with any of them other than use them as human shields.
It must at least be Big Colin, Big Franks long lost grandfather....Can we name the cyst Colin please?
Sarah is as much a victim a the children. I am astounded at myself for such a U turn in the last 2 days. Everything makes sense when you see just how gaslit she is. I no longer blame her for anything. Chris is not only a groomer but a domestic abuser too.It's totally different let's just say we find out that Izzy was r*ped every night as a child do we not hold Sarah accountable for what she knew and decided to stay with???
When it comes to children there should be no messing about ....its not about the victim anymore
And tbh I couldn't care less about lazy I really couldn't because she chose to put it on her children aswell as bring 3 more into itBut that’s how coercive abuse works. Want to know how I know? Personal experience
I really dislike Sarah Ingham for multiple reasons BUT I cannot say it’s ok for her to be emotionally abused by her husband anymore than I would say it would be ok for someone to be raped because I don’t like them. I would’ve been devastated if someone who didn’t like me had said I asked for it or deserved it because I didn’t get out quicker. Abuse is abuse and we, as a society really need to be better at recognising it based on what it is and not who is victim to it and whether they’re worthy of empathy
Cystabelle?It must at least be Big Colin, Big Franks long lost grandfather....
I'm sorry I just can't do itSarah is as much a victim a the children. I am astounded at myself for such a U turn in the last 2 days. Everything makes sense when you see just how gaslit she is. I no longer blame her for anything. Chris is not only a groomer but a domestic abuser too.
She hasn't chosen any of this. She is under his thumb completely
Oh my, what a dreadful bald patchOmg I cant stop laughing look at creepy’s hair at the back these are taken from the Devon vlog where they go to look at caravans
I agree and it’s very gradual starting with small things and it grows more and more over time so the victim isn’t aware of what’s happening.Abusers will literally manipulate and control every part of their partners lives. They will make them believe they have nothing without them, are nothing without them, convince them they will never see their kids again, they won't let them have access to money, they will isolate them from friends, family, society, make them believe the only person they have is them and that the kids would be worse off if they left. Many stay because they don't have the literal means to leave and because of the control their partner has over them.
Looking from the outside and saying, nope, that would never happen if it was me is really ignorant and lacking empathy for victims of abuse. No one would ever choose to be in this situation but getting out is one of the hardest things, especially without support and that is something an abuser limits for this very reason.
Anyway, I don't want anyone replying to me just to victim blame, I'm not interested in reading it as my opinion won't change and the discussions run its course.
Control. My friend left an abusive marriage after 10 years and they had four children together. She never wanted that many but because they had all girls he kept convincing her to try again and see if they got a boy. It wasn't until many months after she left him she realised that he wanted so many kids as it would make it harder for her to leave him.Why is creepy always begging for more children with lazy when he does absolutely fuck all with any of them other than use them as human shields.
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