I think it’s really, really unfair to judge anybody for saying “I don’t care about the sex once the baby is healthy” that’s such a normal thing to say.
The alternative? It better be a girl/it better be a boy or it’s going in the shed” ?
@Sassyspud I can totally understand how your personal experiences have made this a trigger for you ? I really hope your daughter and family are doing great, and like all parents if something comes up that hasn’t been expected, we adapt, we make it work. You have and you’re a credit to each other.
But I would hate for any parent to feel the need to edit themselves to such an extreme in a conversation by saying “I don’t care about the sex of the baby once it’s healthy,
but if it’s not that’s ok too,
and if my child gets cancer at the age of 2 that’s ok too,
and if... if... if”
It’s PC gone crazy expecting that.
No women about to give birth should be worried about what “might” happen down the line.
The word perfect can be used regardless of a medical diagnosis, people always say the pregnancy is progressing perfectly and the baby looks perfect.
I remember the Saccone Joly’s making a comment about Alissa when people were suggesting she had some difficulties.
Jonathan lé Shitcone Joly actually said “the baby isn’t broken”
Now THAT pissed me off. I’d rather the use of the word perfect. Her pregnancy and baby are perfect.
It’s mother and father are the “broken” little shits that deserve to burn in the fires of hell.
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