I agree somewhat. With Lee she definitely seemed to be consenting in mutual sexual messages. This makes Lee a total scumbag, of course, because he's supposed to be married/in a relationship.
With Creepy's messages though - whilst I understand she is of age, she is yet again another vulnerable person (he seems to have a type, doesn't he). His messages (offering her an opportunity etc) to me look as if he's using his "position of power" (being a YouTuber) to get his dick wet.
None of these messages - and I'm sure these won't be the last to ever come out (these vile cretins never change - look at Josh Duggar) - will never be as bad as the ones sent to Jess. They were ILLEGAL messages, and he'd probably still be serving a jail term now if in the US when it all came to light.