“The Ick”

[SkinkaareFan]

My husband does some disgusting tit occasionally and he tried a flat cap and I couldn't stop laughing but nothing has ever put me off him?

I mean his feet are like shrek feet and he says some of the stuff mentioned in this thread but mostly I just laugh and carry on

The only thing thta would put me off is if he was a pedalo/rapist/racist or a cheater... Like normal stuff that would instantly put anyone off (not to say your feelings aren't normal BTW, I guess I'm more tolerant? I'll show him this thread and show how tolerant I am )

 

[Kimberina]

My husband does some disgusting tit occasionally and he tried a flat cap and I couldn't stop laughing but nothing has ever put me off him?

I mean his feet are like shrek feet and he says some of the stuff mentioned in this thread but mostly I just laugh and carry on

The only thing thta would put me off is if he was a weirdo/rapist/racist or a cheater... Like normal stuff that would instantly put anyone off (not to say your feelings aren't normal BTW, I guess I'm more tolerant? I'll show him this thread and show how tolerant I am )

Luckily for you, you’re in the minority I think for myself and some others these are experiences we’ve had in the very early talking/dating stages where something has been said or done to put us off someone completely

 

[Caramel Latte]

My husband does some disgusting tit occasionally and he tried a flat cap and I couldn't stop laughing but nothing has ever put me off him?

I mean his feet are like shrek feet and he says some of the stuff mentioned in this thread but mostly I just laugh and carry on

The only thing thta would put me off is if he was a weirdo/rapist/racist or a cheater... Like normal stuff that would instantly put anyone off (not to say your feelings aren't normal BTW, I guess I'm more tolerant? I'll show him this thread and show how tolerant I am )

I applaud you for your tolerance really
I'm still working on mine

 

[Caramel Latte]

Half naked mirror selfies on Instagram

 

[Ls2991]

The university of life classic

Mine are my Internet dating ick's... I'm just venturing back into the world of dating after 10 years and my colleagues all laugh at me because he only has to say or do one icky thing and I'm like... NEXT.

Profile pic sticking his tongue out
Profile pic wearing wide leg jeans with shoes
Profile pic of just abs muscles

Profile saying "do any girls actually reply?"
Profile with a list of what he isn't looking for
Profile saying he's a 'pilot' 'managing director' or studied at the 'University of life'

Replying to 'how are you' with "I'm good but I'm really horny".... of course you are babe < unmatch>

Things in every day life...

If he wears sliders
The fear of a man undressing and wearing actual pants (y front things) haunts me so much that if it happened I wouldn't be able to continue with the evenings plans
Farting or the discussion of any bodily function on the first few dates
Being tight with or worrying out loud about money on a date.
Innuendos
Wearing any same item on date 2 that was worn on date 1
Smelling bad
White socks, unless to the gym
Grey joggers (sorry girls! )
Shaved chest
Any clingy behaviour
Double texting when I haven't replied to the first message yet
Fungal nails

Oh god I'm going to be single forever! Haha

OMG I think we may be the same person every single one of these would give me major ick. Especially the passive aggressive ‘do any girls actually reply’ - 100% swiping left on these as you can guarantee their opening line would be ‘Hey, hows u? X’

 

[_RainBeanTemaki_]

Thinking, looking, acting, pretending you're in Peaky Blinders. Basically anything to do with that bleeping show

 

[Tttanya]

My ex owned a red satin kimono style dressing gown that was just AWFUL. It didn’t help that it was also short, he looked like a fancy chicken when he wore it

 

[LoisLane]

This might be an unpopular opinion but here goes....

grown men who describe themselves as “gamers” or being into “gaming” and spend all their spare time playing on computer games give me the absolute ick.

 

[aw1993]

My boyfriend does some strange and annoying things but havent been put off

The one thing that really gives me the icky is when I see men drinking a can of monster. I dont know why, red bulls fine but theres something about monster I find dead cringe

 

[_RainBeanTemaki_]

My boyfriend does some strange and annoying things but havent been put off

The one thing that really gives me the icky is when I see men drinking a can of monster. I dont know why, red bulls fine but theres something about monster I find dead cringe

Brand bleep!

 

[LaurieLaurie]

Some of my best friends are gamers but I’m not into it at all. They park up or hide in bushes to reply so not all of them are glued to the screen haha.

 

[clueless]

Not me (honestly!) but a friend had been seeing a guy and during sex he said

“Show me those big juicy titties”

She dumped him the next day

I'm crying

This reminds me of an ex, in dirty talk he once used the word "penis" and I can't remember the exact sentence (I've clearly blocked it out!!) but he also said something about my "big vagina" what an absolute bell end!

I'd like to point out I was a virgin at the time, so I did NOT have a big vagina and still don't!! (and he was never in there, "penis" nor fingers THANK GOD!)

 

[Notredamn]

- being seemingly terrified to speak up in restaurants. The type who would leave you to complain (nicely) about bad food or and do all the ordering while they sit there looking nervous and meek. Never use a phone to book appointments or reservations, either. Grow up, child!

- gaming. My son does that.

- laughing really loudly and in an over the top way to draw attention in public places, at nothing in particular.

- loud, womanly sex noises copied straight from porn 'oh baby!'...oh no. No, no, no. Get out my bed and into the bin!

 

[clueless]

- being seemingly terrified to speak up in restaurants. The type who would leave you to complain (nicely) about bad food or and do all the ordering while they sit there looking nervous and meek. Never use a phone to book appointments or reservations, either. Grow up, child!

- gaming. My son does that.

- laughing really loudly and in an over the top way to draw attention in public places, at nothing in particular.

- loud, womanly sex noises copied straight from porn 'oh baby!'...oh no. No, no, no. Get out my bed and into the bin!

Those porn noises are ridiculous aren't they, once I seen one where the woman was shouting "f**k my sh*t" - lovely

 

[petra23]

-Over using emojis, especially when complimenting you...
-Not being capable of carrying a conversation either over text or in person.
-Wearing old ratty trainers like those DC things everyone wore in 2008
-Being cripplingly shy in public (I feel like a witch saying that but I'm shy and can't cope with being the more outgoing person in a relationship)
-Having a really untidy room/house in general. Doesn't take much to have a tidy up before you invite me round for tea, don't really want your chest hair in my coffee cup, hun.

 

[Fourcandles]

Oh my god I get the ick so easily and often for things that wouldn’t bother other people or wouldn’t bother me if other people did them

The things that sounded the death knell for my most recent relationship:
- Using ‘lol’ in text messages.
- using a hanky
- coming into the living room saying ‘don’t go near your toilet, it stinks’ after being in there for 10 minutes
- wearing a hoodie when meeting my friends for the first time at a relatively formal occasion

Very irrational ones that have given me the ick in previous relationships:
- trying to hold my hand in the back of a car with my friends
- asking me if my earrings were from Venice. What a weird bleeping question. Still sends shivers down my spine thinking about it

 

[LaurieLaurie]

My ex once repeatedly went on about getting me pregnant during sex and it instantly turned me off and I ended up never fancying him again. We had been together 13 years on/off. It was a sudden ick that I’d probably ignored for years haha.

 

[Trampoline]

This is so funny.
Mine would be
Bad trainers or dirty shoes
When they turn up in dirty work stuff
A dirty inside of a car
Gym selfies
Top off selfies
No facial hair literally a shiny face

 

[champagnepinkk]

Love this thread

mine would be...

Bad hygiene
Not wearing aftershave
crappy dress sense LOL

 

[Notredamn]

Oh i forgot the guy I had to dump when I saw him approaching from afar. I realised he walked weirdly, with his arms fully turned so the back of his hands were facing forwards. Knocked me sick