The House Build #2

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Berkshirebuild has a very well deserved post on here of her very own. Grabby as!
 
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I guess there should also be a petition against people constantly trying to convince you to buy things under the guise of being your friend...
as feeling inadequate or getting into dept is very bad for mental health.
 
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Omg absolutely - when cloud interiors done her stories the other day discussing tattle. I have been stewing as to message her directly about this. I came to tattle re the MOD situation. Once here it opened my eyes to the manipulative world of influencers. Unaware of brought followers, tricks of the trade etc. I quickly reviewed my following list and ditched a lot including THB.

I find most of the time the comments on here constructive, discussing the lack of transparency that influencers demonstrate. Their behaviour is criticised. Yes occasionally there are some spiteful comments regards peoples looks. Which I don’t find necessary. When you stop slating a behaviour and make personal attacks it under values the argument and just makes people look childish.

The influencers don’t like a forum that opens peoples eyes and give people the chance to criticise them. However, when you become an influencer, you are making a ‘business’ about yourself and your life. Every business is subjected to feedback good and bad. I struggle to understand that all the time they are happy to make money out of their lives, why they can not accept feedback. Seems a very one sided !!
 
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Same here....so I kinda regard cloud interiors’, claire totman designs’ rant on tattle as free advertisement of this site. There maybe 23k+ signatories but I bet hundreds more will have taken a look at this site, even for curiosity.

I belong to another forum which is a bit similar to this. So many naysayers about it on other sites, threats to shut down, etc. It’s still standing, thriving and getting more members 14 years on. And no I’m not a moderator or owner of that site, just a regular member.
 
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I watch their inane ramblings from time to time, (The Housebuild, Berkshire Build, Justalittlebore etc,etc) and I wonder what would their grandmothers/great grandmothers think?
- Women of substance no doubt, who’d lived through world wars and real hardship.....I imagine, they would be at the least totally baffled by all their ridiculous nonsense. Sad too at the sense of self importance, when really and truly what are any of them actually achieving? Apart from receiving a few free candles and the odd planter!
The stoic, dignified, modest ladies of a generation or two ago are in danger of becoming a dying breed.
 
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Is no-one on here toight because we are all being sick at the vomit inducing posts she has put on her stories with comments from ppl gushing how fab she is. One even suggesting she writes a lifestyle book. OMG please no
 
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I love your post! So true
 
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Meanwhile back at the ranch......... I wonder whats going on with the Mr D situation. No sign from Becks that he's at home and no mention of him. We need an update from her used to be friend that posts from time to time on here...... Shes always got the latest info.

@88354
 
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Love this! You are so right. I’m so worried about what effect this is going to have on children growing up in this ‘influencer’ social media culture.
 
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Love this! You are so right. I’m so worried about what effect this is going to have on children growing up in this ‘influencer’ social media culture.
I really do too. It’s all so superficial and mostly pointless. Depressing.
 
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Yup!, tonite's meanderings made me write this....

Some well-recognized symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder:
1) in need of and requiring constant admiration (screen shots of praises given)
2) belief that nobody should question your motives
3) taking advantage of others to move forward in life (ads/aff links)
4) responds to criticism with anger ("pond scums, bullies") and thereby an exaggerated belief that others are envious/jealous of you
5) talking about oneself A LOT!!
6) preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success
 
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Is no-one on here toight because we are all being sick at the vomit inducing posts she has put on her stories with comments from ppl gushing how fab she is. One even suggesting she writes a lifestyle book. OMG please no
Well she is available to make ‘personal appearances and attend events’ according to her PR agency.. A lifestyle book about what? Making soups, how to ask for free expensive stuff on Twitter? Endless kindness quotations? How to bag yourself free Daniel Wellington watches and try to sell them to your followers, yet not wear them yourself? How to decorate the 8 or 10 Xmas trees in your home. How to build a portico......She’d also need to get her facts straight regarding the number of renovations she has actually done. Title of book anyone? You have to question the REAL motive behind sharing those type of stories with everyone.

 

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No well by the sounds of it there will be a lot of information to collate. Sounds like he must have been doing it for quite some time. Tut tut tut. Thanks for the update tho
 
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They are going for skiing lessons ? Didn’t the son brake his arm ? That’s the worst thing to do as you will spend all your time pulling yourself up if your a beginner ?? And she has a broken pelvis ? Madness.
 
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Personal appearances - omg she is seriously deluded.
 
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They are going for skiing lessons ? Didn’t the son brake his arm ? That’s the worst thing to do as you will spend all your time pulling yourself up if your a beginner ?? And she has a broken pelvis ? Madness.
I agree
Totally madness

my son had a broken finger and it was no sport. You can do so much damageif it’s not fully healed.
And if I had early osteoporosis??? or what ever she said she’s got, 100% I wouldn’t go, the strongest of people I know have snapped at ski
 
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And she shares a picture of her son with broken bones and no sport for 6 weeks skiing ! Unbelievable. So either lying in the first place or absolutely no fucks given with regards to her son’s broken bones. She truly is a vile creature. #socialservices
 
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