The House Build #2

[FakeNews]

Because I know them.

Oh I hate that I want to know the inside scoop, but I do...

Accounts like Becks' are so bloody harmful to followers. At first glance, she's full of motivational quotes and positive chat about how you work hard, play hard and you should make the most of life and initially, it's quite a cheery account to follow. It's only when you've followed for a while that it becomes clear that her talk about being a busy 'businesswoman' who is juggling a career, being a mum and a home is all smoke and mirrors. Anyone who runs a business knows its impossible to do school runs, gym sessions, long dog walks, long boozy lunches AND do a full day's work let alone being home before 5 to cook a meal from scratch. She implies that her success is down to hard work, when actually, she never seems to be at work. She is constantly pout and preening in front of the mirror or by her pool with her ridiculous pointed-foot pose to show off all the gifted dresses, tops, leggings and shoes, and regularly encourages us to buy cheap tacky watches with swipe ups, while she always wears a Cartier or an iWatch.

I called her out on the lack of social distancing while they were on their boozy boat trip, and she's not only deleted it but blocked me and I can't tell you how much nicer my Insta feed is without her inane wittering about 'mask Monday' and 'her world' and the latest dog update. For me, she sums up all that's rotten about Instagram - there's no warmth, no compassion, just fake smiles and cold eyes.

 

[Rosiepie]

I saw this the other day and though it was quite apt for some of the insta huns.

percent this!!! All the insta huns do it! The more they do it, the more it becomes acceptable and ‘normal’.

I know some instagrammers will say that Tattle is full of trolls, but I see other people like myself who are just fed up of people portraying everyday fakeness, the misuse of filters, the gifted lifestyles, using kids as cash cows etc etc. If no one says anything, this madness will continue and the younger generation will follow in their parents footsteps, having no values or morals, thinking that a career on social media is more lucrative, and being liked by strangers is more important than real relationships and friendships. I believe you should speak out about these issues. Disagreeing with someone is not being a troll, it’s human nature. We don’t agree with politicians, work colleagues etc but they don’t call people trolls or ‘delete’ negative comments. I agree there is a small minority of people who can be vile online and yes they are trolls. But they are the minority, and if you decide to publicise your life online for the whole world to view, you need to be prepared that you will attract all sorts of personalities.

 

[Wobblehead]

Also how embarrassing that the PR has the wrong twitter handle. Any company clicking on it will not see her... very unprofessional. Also I am not surprised in the slightest this goes on. These freeloaders have to get their stuff somehow.

I am shocked by how much stuff BD actually buys/gets sent for free. In this era of sustainability how many blouses or shirts of the same style does one woman need.

It is like an illness or compulsion to have have have. Very worrying and not the sort of thing you should be teaching your children.

Also don’t get me started on the skiing trip. The statement ‘Mr D and I want our children to be able to ski’. Jesus Christ it is skiing, a luxury past time not bloody swimming which could save your life one day. Translated as we want our children to be able to do posh hobbies.

I feel sorry for the children of influencers as everyone knows everything about their lives and as a teenager it must be embarrassing at best but has potential for bullying at worst. However the fear is that the children will just turn out like their mother - entitled and privileged and not contributing anything to society other than vacuous Instagram posts purporting to be for the greater good of all of us.
This constant thread of doing it for us... skincare recs... house inspo... recipes. The bottom line is they do it for the likes which bolsters their giant egos and free stuff which becomes addictive and there is no other reason other than that.

Before any BD fans come in with the standard phrase of me being jealous.. I’m not. I have a good professional job a family and nice house... not that any of that matters in any way but this is what these influencers think when they see these posts that we are all jealous nasties.

I just cant stand this whole stock phrase that you can’t criticise as that is not nice or if you don’t like don’t watch.... What we are criticising is the absolute hypocrisy, consumerism and narcissism that these people promote.

They are deluding themselves most if not all of the time.

 

[TheWitchIsBack]

I was gobsmacked by yesterday's post, and the comments underneath. A classic example of making it all about her, and her followers are lapping it up. Poor Becks, she's the real victim in all this, don't you know!

WHITE WOMAN IN HER WHITE HOUSE HAS A MELTDOWN BECAUSE PEOPLE WEREN’T BEING KIND.

Delusional, privileged arsehole. She’s never known a hard day in her life! Business handed to her by mummy dearest and a lifestyle financed by an expenses fiddling husband so she can totter about walks with the worlds saddest dog and cry about getting the wrong flowers for her memorial garden which overlooks her swimming pool which is just for winter cause she spends the whole summer in a luxurious Greek resort. Give over Becks you dumb bastard, your idea of a catastrophe is not being able to go barre class.

 

[Rosiepie]

The fact she deleted not one but TWO photos of her cuddling up with her friend at the weekend on the boat proves she is not transparent and only cares about herself! She has breached Covid rules that are in place to keep people safe and so has her family. Rather than admit she, who is holier than thou, has cocked up, she swiftly deletes all evidence. I hope her staff, school parents, any clients coming to try dresses on saw those photos! She could be putting people at risk. And anyone supporting her on this should take a good long look at themselves.
#covidiot

 

[Wobblehead]

becks is just a cliche. She has no individuality whatsoever. Her house is bland. Her banker husband and 2.4 children are also on point. All the tick boxes, gin and fizz the drink of choice, yummy mummy cakes (which she never eats as she is so thin) weight training as that is what all the MC mums are doing now. Candles, worlds saddest cocker spaniel and the new fffffing influencer favourite Peonies. All the pages she promotes look the same and it’s all one round of bigging each other up before the bubble bursts. One last thing about the garden furniture.... we live in the UK if they aren’t arguing about who has to put all the shit away every night (like my house) in case it rains then I’ll eat my own hair. Becks your manic smile says it all.... keeping all this up is hard work. Just relax and enjoy your kids and don’t live for the gram likes

 

[BeccaBanana]

I've had to join this thread as I've followed THB for some time. I've been doing up our old farmhouse the last few years (which like most of us, have saved up and paid for ourselves - nothing gifted here) and it's always nice to see other home accounts. But then I noticed how much this woman seemed to brag and just appeared faker and faker with each post.

Then all the really long instastories with her waffling on about the mundane things she's doing made me think 'how self indulgent to presume all these people that just like nice home pics, want to listen to you prattle on about nothing'. She then changes her profile pic to just her, Becks, rather than the house and I thought 'hmm, bit arrogant'......The final straw was seeing her kiss Lydia 'the beggar' Millen's arse and I realised they're cut from the same cloth. Both have an over-inflated sense of self importance given to them by the fact they sell a fake lifestyle that people fawn over.

I don't normally wish ill on anyone, but if all this about her husbands fraud case is true, I hope she's brought back to reality with a bump! Why can't people stay humble?!

 

[TheWitchIsBack]

You’re basing everything you know on someone from the only thing you have access to - IG. So, it’s an extremely biased point of view and quite frankly unfounded. But, enjoy making yourselves feel better by bitching about others

Yes, these people choose to use Instagram to sell things to us and as such are selling themselves as a brand. We, as people form an opinion on that brand based on what they choose to show us and presumably they show us the version of themselves they want us to see. We don’t need to like it, accept it and like every other brand out there we’re entitled to our opinion on it.

If she shows us the “best” of her life to support her brand it’s a very pathetic, empty, meaningless life based entirely around material possessions, begging for freebies and the world blowing smoke up her arse. How empty and desperate does a 40-something woman have to be to pimp out her home, children and dog for the sake of some free furniture? It’s tragic that she portrays the life of being this rich aspirational person when her husband is fiddling expenses and she’s begging for affiliate commission.

So yeah, we will bitch about her all we want and I guarantee we are happier than she could ever dream to be.

 

[Cariad]

She is beyond mad. Cutting a hole in a perfectly good rug so a wire doesn’t show. She must lie awake at night thinking of this shit. Just live your fffing life beggy and stop worrying what everything looks like

She is beyond mad. Cutting a hole in a perfectly good rug so a wire doesn’t show. She must lie awake at night thinking of this shit. Just live your fffing life beggy and stop worrying what everything looks like. These folk say that we are mad and nasty and jealous freaks for being on this site. I could not feel more sorry for people like beggy.... they are the ones who cannot be happy unless everything is abnormally perfect

My husband has been working from home ( for last 7 years) and his study piled high with paperwork/ files/ printer/ filing cabinets....wonder how Bec's husband manages to keep his 'study' so tidy- where are the filing cabinets?...to be GDPR compliant and working in financial industry surely he'd need somewhere secure and file his work ( I don't believe it would be completely paperless) ?.....does he actually work from home/ does he still have a job or are those monitors just for playing Minecraft?

 

[Exhaustednurse]

The delivery of cakes and biscuits that she shared on Friday was an undeclared gift. Other instamums have also received them.

How can Beggy Bex’s sit in her mansion and receive free food when there is so much child poverty at the moment? I genuinely cannot understand how she can be comfortable with herself ?

It’s just deplorable

 

[Rosiepie]

This woman hasn’t got a clue about Kindness - all she shows is extortionate levels of greed and vanity. This account has nothing to do with kindness - it’s about Me, Myself and I. It is all about having free gifts or being paid to promote. It’s is nothing more than a glorified sales channel. What a shallow person she is. Clearly, thinks she’s something she isn’t. Hoping to be like her other begging, freebie loving, won’t spend a penny, in love with herself - Lydia Millen. What an inspiration she is to the young (said no one). Never do we see this woman giving - helping others. She’s boastful and everything about her screams fake and gifted. Not the values I teach my kids thankfully. Imagine a society full of Becks, and all the other so-called begging, freebie grabbing, narcissistic Influencers out there. Us tattlers need to keep bringing these issues to this forum, keep talking and raising this in the open. I don’t want my kids to ever think this is the right way to live their lives - so shallow, so fake and full of greed.

 

[swipeup]

Companies contact her to use her as a marketing tool. What’s wrong with that? Don’t act like you wouldn’t!

What and get a thread on here talking about me, my home, my husband, my kids, my business and expose my life to a hundred odd thousand strangers on the internet. Nah you’re all right love. I’ll stick with paying for stuff myself and keeping my dignity because unlike these insta floggers, I’m not that thirsty for attention and validation from strangers and don’t feel the need to spew every waking thought into a phone or twirl and pose in front of a mirror showing off my shopping addiction and generally act like an insufferable show off. Open my family’s life up on the internet in exchange for some garden furniture.....nah you’re all right, you can keep your garden furniture.

 

[RazRazRazMataz]

So Tattle Bingo - she was on holiday and literally couldn’t bear not to tell us how rich she is and how she can afford to go away and how needed it was because she works so hard. And look at her sheeple telling her they missed her and love her and how beautiful she looks with her sunkissed skin and body boofy hair. That ego has been sat in compost for the whole week she managed to stay away from validation. Oh, I mean social media. I thought we were getting two weeks off? She will
Never take it for granted ever again? Such a liar

 

[CurrentBun]

She's got 4 dad's?

Well one biological and 3 step dads, her mum even divorced one and married his brother.

 

[youhavinabubble]

Companies contact her to use her as a marketing tool. What’s wrong with that? Don’t act like you wouldn’t! Here’s a free dress, here’s a free outside dining table with fire pit. We’ll pay you, and you need to photograph and share where it’s from. It’s a no brainer. It’s clever business, and pretty sure each and every one of us would do the same. Not really begging for stuff is it.
Have a good day, folks.

If I didn’t know better I’d say you are 1: Becks..2: friend of Becks, 3: someone that aspires to be like her, or 4: just deluded.

 

[CurrentBun]

They weren’t talking because she was fed up of Becks making ‘Mr D’ work his arse off whilst referring to herself as ‘practically a single mum’ all the time. They never liked her though because she’s a total bitch and even Mr D himself said if it wasn’t for the kids he’d divorce her.

 

[Wobblehead]

Am I the only person who thinks that open shoe and bag cupboards and open cupboards full stop are just giant dust collector? How will the shoes not get covered in dust??? Perhaps I am too much a pleb to understand.

Plus if I am being really bitchy anyone else think that there is not really enough room for the dressing table in the area?

I think the problem with these insta folk is that they always feel like they have to have a project on the go so they have content. Why can’t they just enjoy what they have and get on with life without it all being projected to the public for adoration and validation. This validation must be addictive, to suggest otherwise and try to make out that it is for the good of the watcher is egotistical and narcisssitic to the core. In years to come this insta culture will be studied in depth to understand why a person feels the constant need to overshare.

 

[Ciaragh]

The closest she gets to symmetry is having a chip on both shoulders!

 

[Ciaragh]

I can’t get over how much she constantly covets more, she is literally never happy with her lot. She’s out for a riverside walk and she’s obsessing over the houses instead of just enjoying the moment. She lives in a mansion yet it’s still not enough. To the point where she’s now coveting a “dream home by the water” which is apparently her “#goal”

She’s working in her husband’s home office and she’s gazing at the light fitting wishing it was in her office. No matter where she is or what she’s doing, she’s perennially disappointed and seeking more.

She’s one of those people who will never be happy because all she knows is the price of everything and the value of nothing.

 

[Corkscrew]

It's a big problem. It's actually quite hard to believe. It's worrying that people can make a career out of putting up the same photos of rooms in their house. Cream and brown rooms. That's it. How is she even worth following? Why are any of these people worth following? How can it make someone feel better about life to look at what free stuff someone they don't know has? It's like the pages of Hello magazine have exploded all over Instagram and everyone wants to be on the front page. It started with Facebook, but it's gone beyond what any of us could have imagined. It's like something out of Black Mirror. It's frightening. This woman has nothing to share. She is out of touch, vain, self-important, vaccuous and immoral. I can only hope that this trend of selling yourself and monetising your children is coming to an end. She has a lot of followers... she could turn this shit around and start doing some actual good in the world.