ATRO ***** OPEN LETTER *****
Dear Tim & Ella. We know you are reading this because you saw our comments & did a video calling us out, trying to justify your awful behaviour. Please take on board the following.
Ella please stop doing that fake squeal when u laugh. And Tim, please stop copying her.
Please stop pretending your kids are the most mannerly kids ever. Their not, you allow them to kick a ball everywhere, screech, talk over each other, hit & push eachother. This is not manners. It's rude.
Tim & Ella, have some manners & respect & STOP allowing Heze to bring that football everywhere. It's disgraceful. He is going to do damage or cause an accident & hurt somebody. How can you preach about well behaved kids when you allow Heze to run around with a ball in stores, streets, malls, trains, buses, cinemas, auditions, horseriding, themeparks, in the house and constantly kicking the ball outside the house against the walls. Have respect for your next door neighbours. I get he likes football but Its coming across as weird for his age that he can't let go of the ball. He either holds it or keeps his foot on it. You dont see kids that like art bringing paintbrushes everywhere.
Everytime you go shopping or anywhere you bring the whole family and let them run around the place screaming loudly, taking up aisles with 6 kids and a pram, touching everything, Filming and annoying the public. The way you allowed the girls to behave in the dressing rooms in the mall was shocking. They were screaming at the top of their lungs & running around clearly annoying shoppers. Very rude that you filmed there with women trying to use changing rooms & Tim & Heze clearly standing in the doorway.
You can't claim to have Christian morals, then allow your daughters to wear crop tops, dance to age inappropriate music & make suggestive adult dance faces & poses and have your sons throwing gang signs. The lyrics of the songs you let your kids dance to is sickening. Christians believe men & women are equal, something you do not believe or practice. God says love everybody but you are homophobic against LGBTQ.
Ella STOP saying the kids with the "white texture" hair have nicer/better/easier hair. STOP jumping for joy that Rue & Hosanna are white skinned. It's hurtful & damaging to the kids. I understand you always disliked your skin & hair but work on self love instead of making your kids feel flawed.
Tim, it's insulting & disrespectful to mock black culture and accents. As a fellow white person I am embarrassed you think it's ok or that you have the right to act borderline racist and use black stereotypes just because you are married to a black woman. Its not cool, funny or respectful. Stop trying to speak Patois. You have never even been to Jamaica. Of all the wonderful things you could teach the kids about their heritage. You chose Jamaican slang.
Ella you are a black woman. Tim you are a white man. Both of you need to be proud of your skin and races because your children are both. How must they feel when mum doesn't want to be black & dad doesn't want to be white. How will the kids ever be happy in their skin when their parents aren't.
Ella as a mother, you need to respect & stand up for your daughters instead of having them as maids. Teach them their value & worth that they are capable of achieving goals and dreams. You can't rant about independent women & then have them chained to the kitchen sink. All your teaching them is how to cater to men, run a house & boys are better than girls. Women & black people fought long & hard for rights, freedom and equality and here you are making slaves of the girls. The cleaning, cooking & child rearing is YOUR job not the kids.
The boys need to start helping out. They need to learn to help, tidy & cook. What happens if they live alone or become single fathers. How will they care for themselves, kids & run a home when they don't know how to wash a dish. Heze is 11. He should be able to do his own hair. How dare you make the girls clean up their brothers mess. It's disgusting that you prioritise the boys freedom, time, luxuries, hobbies & activities over the girls.
Tim, you need to start doing chores. You contribute to the mess, so you need to clean it. Your a parent. Cooking and feeding your kids is a necessity not a choice. How can you sit and watch your babies clean up your mess & cook your food. Disgusting, vile, sexist man
Tim, if you can't help out at home, go and get a job. Stop saying youtube is work. You literally record a 15 minute video and upload it with no special effects or transitions. The rest of the time you lay in bed or play computer games. How can you keep saying your bored when the house is dirty. In your bored moment, why not declutter and go to the dump or hire a skip. Ella, we appreciate you trying to defend Tim but you are both lazy.
Ella, you also need to do more around the house. It's always dirty, messy, cluttered, laundry and rubbish everywhere. Why can't you get off your behind and clean it while the kids play outside or make Tim help. Instead you make your kids do it or the elderly grandparents and you have a cleaner. Laziest couple on youtube. You never leave the house so it's not like your busy. Your don't do homeschooling much, everybody helps you, most meals are fruit or chicken left to boil in a pot. So you have plenty of time to clean. If you can't manage, make a cleaning rota & stop adding more kids to the equation.
HOW DARE YOU deny your kids an education. The kids are behind academically and socially. You need to get tutors for these kids ASAP. What happens if YOUR dreams of the kids being a famous footballers & celebrities doesn't work out. They have nothing to fall back on & won't get a good jobs because they have zero education or qualifications. Deciding your kids careers at birth, boys will be footballers & girls will be actors & dancers is WRONG. Hosanna struggles with basic reading but you get a tutor for Heze, because he's a boy. If your kid is struggling, then stop going to parties and help them. The kids are never seen doing schoolwork in the background, their either cleaning, babysitting, kicking a ball or making tiktok dances. It is terrible that you have ALL the kids learning the same things. For christ sake why are 11 year old Heze and 3 year old Reu being taught the same thing. And so unfair that the kids try to learn with Houston screaming at them
The kids are homeschooled, well they don't do much learning but none of you work. Perfect opportunity to have educational trips to help them learn. The kids never go anywhere. They are always at home taking care of the parents responsibilities. You make money but still never treat the kids to a day out unless your gifted one by a sponsor like Legoland or a youtube event. So many free, educational, fun, interesting things to in London where you live. There are parks, rivers, zoo's, galleries, museums, sporting arenas, themed attractions, theme parks, sights, monuments, steet performers, bowling, arcades, theatres, activity centres. You live an hour away from the beach and amazing lakes & scenic areas.
You need to let you kids socialise and interact with other people and kids their age. They lack social skills and clearly have attachment issues as Harper nearly had a heart attack because Tim & Halle got off at a different train stop. All the kids were in a state over it. That is not normal. Clearly seperation & attachment issues. They need to make friends. It's also ridiculous that the whole family has to go to every activity or sport. How will these kids have any "me time" or develop socially. They can't even play with friends their own age without the whole family there. How will they cope having to be alone as adults. It's not good for their development. Heze should not be spending his days with toddlers, babies & little girls. He needs to interract with boys his age. How are these kids going to cope as adults. They won't have a clue about the real world.
The kids are coming across so fake & robotic. It's like their brainwashed & just say rehearsed, mature things that they know the parents they want to hear. We never hear the kids laugh naturally. Its like a cult. It's a pity because they are nice kids but the fakeness is too much. Hosanna is becoming unbearable & fake. Whoever is speaking on camera she has to follow them around & start hugging & rubbing them just to be seen. Hosanna & Heze really need to stop with the goody two shoes act. Hosanna is sneaky & nosy, she watches & listens to everything. Hezes mask fell when he wouldn't show good sportsmanship by sulking when his little sisters won a game. It wasn't nice to see his jealousy. Hes too old act like that
How dare you spend the money your children earn, buying yourself designer outfits, luxury hotel stays, apple watches, tiffanys jewelry when your kids only wear free clothes from sponsors, Houston only wears Pyjamas or a nappy & the kids recieve poundland toys, toothbrushes & magazines for Christmas. It's exploitation and greed. That money should be divided into trust funds for the kids.
You need to get Hosannas eyes checked. There is clearly a problem that is being neglected. The problem will get worse. If you can find time to get your nails done & go to a party then you can find time to make a doctor appointment.
Ella, You need to stop complaining about being pregnant, stop rolling your eyes & sighing over baby #7. There are women & couples who can't have kids that are dying inside when you say these things. Be thankful you have beautiful healthy children. Stop acting surprised that your pregnant. You had unprotected sex, what did you expect, a tv? Shows how irresponsible you are that you get pregnant when not wanting more kids & waiting to get your tubes tied. Foolishness. Then saying your supposed to ask people for help. NO ELLA, when you can't manage your kids, then its NOT other peoples responsibility. It's YOUR responsibility to stop bringing children into the world when you can't manage and have no room for them. You don't just expect others to help. So rude to expect people to look 6 or 7 kids.
You need to stop relying and depending on elderly grandparents to babysit, pay & provide for you. Your parents should not be buying your food. Tim your parents bought you a house. Be greatful not greedy. Ella, your parents are elderly & have a special needs daughter. How dare you expect them to care for 7 kids. And have them clean your house, do your laundry, ironing & cook for you. HAVE RESPECT. You both should be spoiling the grandparents with a nice thank you gift for all the money & help they have given you . The disrespect is hard to take in.
Tim, your not American. We don't have a large basketball following in UK. It is practically non-existent. How the hell have you got every basketball team jersey from the states but you dont even play it or have a hoop at home. I think the only basketball team any British person can name is Lakers & thats because everyone thought Kobe Bryant was hot. It's not even televised over here. We don't even have any known British basketball teams because nobody plays it here. Maybe the odd school team activity. Stop trying to reel in American viewers because Jesus, we do not need our American friends thinking we all live & behave like you. God forbid.
Please start teaching Houston to stop that shrill, piercing, screeching. She is at the age now she understands correction and basic instruction. But nobody can be bothered to teach her. It's annoying and she shouldn't be on the vlogs if all she does is scream. The viewers don't want to listen to roaring when people are speaking.
Please start allowing the kids to spend more time outside. It cant be good for their health being cooped up in that small, cramped, dusty, cluttered house. Why do you never open windows & doors even when the sun is shining? Why are you all sitting on the floor inside on warm days. Why have you not got some outdoor seating or garden toys. Those kids are homeschooled and indoors 24-7. You make lots of youtube money, so why not bring the kids on eductational day trips and outings.
You need to move house, build an extension or else re-arrange the home as the living conditions are shocking. Its disgraceful that pre-teens are sharing bedrooms with babies & toddlers. Halle & Harper share bed!!!
Tim & Ella, your not relatable or these amazing parents. British people have no idea what planet your living on. American viewers are seeing through the bull too. You really need to re-evuate your lifestyle and make better choices for your children. The only reason people think these things is because you keep putting your private lives on the Internet and telling us this information. Stop preaching when you havent even got own morals in check
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