I’m so sorry you’ve been through that. My interpretation was different as it’s not something I’ve been through personally but I can see your point and why you would find it offensiveI feel they are actually over playing the losing a twin for views. By saying "losing" it makes it sound like a horrific experience,much like a miscarriage. But reality is vanishing twin syndrome is very common and as most pregnancy are not "high risk" your 1st scan doesnt happen until week 12, which if vanishing twin syndrome was to occur it would be before week 12 so many many pregnancies begin as twin but at the 1st scan is only 1 so people never know. It is not usually like a miscarriage, more the fact in very very basic terms 1 twin consumes the other.
I do not recall Ella going thro any form of miscarriage or symptoms.
Every one is different in their interpretation but as someone who has had multiple miscarriages i find it offensive how they used the term "losing" for views.