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lord knows what theyā€™ve been doing when they were off.
I donā€™t even want to watch their videos anymore and give them more views šŸ˜‚ they are beyond boring and annoying to watch
 
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Ugh... Where do I start? I have been watching this family since practically the beginning. They've changed a lot, to say the least... Or their true colors have really started to show the past couple years. Not sure which... But I tend to think a combination of the two. The elder girls seemed to have much more of a childhood and were allowed to do fun stuff line dance and gymnastics before they pumped out "Reu bear" and Houston. Now they're nothing but domestic servants.

Who else saw the episode before it was swiftly deleted where they pranked Hosanna into thinking that Houston was kidnapped and blamed it all on her? They let this "joke" go on for like an hour before telling her that it was a joke. It was horrifying and she was hysterical, crying and hyperventilating... Meanwhile, they had another kids hiding with the baby down the road. This was the LAST STRAW for me. So many people unsubscribed and said how cruel this was and they deleted the video in like one day. They could have made an apology video but no, they didn't. They scrubbed it from the internet. I hope someone screenshot that mess of a video to prove exactly how messed up this family is.

I used to love them and they would shout out me and many other regular subscribers - they were so humble back in the day and really exuded warmth and love. At first I thought the spiral down might be from Tim but I see that he actually a nicer person in general, albeit lazy and sexist... Ella is just always smug and has a something mean to say about "haters" and doesn't want any criticism. She also gets very snippy with those children, and they seem scared of her. Heze is 11 and can't even choose his hairstyle and she insists on having it that awful blue. Like why??

They clearly have grown up privileged and got a free house from mummy and daddy and Tim doesn't work a real job and never has. He's been a rapper in the party and Ella was the breadwinner working some sort of corporate job until she had Reu. Now they monetize their kids with all these ads and shows on British TV.

And then the COVID?? Like none of them wear masks. Tim was at a huge party for some other vloggers (James and Kimmy) and either went right after having COVID Or perhaps it was filmed beforehand and that is where they got ill. The party was packed and nobody wore masks. They aren't vaccinated either. If they were they surely would have said. And how irresponsible to send off Heze and Halle to live w grandparents while their whole family has COVID. The kids may have tested negative But they could have had it and transferred it to grandparents. My guess is Heze had football and Hallie had some acting tit to do, so they wanted to keep the money flowing in so they sent those kids off.

Greed has ruined this family. It is hard to watch anymore!

ATRO ***** OPEN LETTER *****

Dear Tim & Ella. We know you are reading this because you saw our comments & did a video calling us out, trying to justify your awful behaviour. Please take on board the following.

Ella please stop doing that fake squeal when u laugh. And Tim, please stop copying her.

Please stop pretending your kids are the most mannerly kids ever. Their not, you allow them to kick a ball everywhere, screech, talk over each other, hit & push eachother. This is not manners. It's rude.

Tim & Ella, have some manners & respect & STOP allowing Heze to bring that football everywhere. It's disgraceful. He is going to do damage or cause an accident & hurt somebody. How can you preach about well behaved kids when you allow Heze to run around with a ball in stores, streets, malls, trains, buses, cinemas, auditions, horseriding, themeparks, in the house and constantly kicking the ball outside the house against the walls. Have respect for your next door neighbours. I get he likes football but Its coming across as weird for his age that he can't let go of the ball. He either holds it or keeps his foot on it. You dont see kids that like art bringing paintbrushes everywhere.

Everytime you go shopping or anywhere you bring the whole family and let them run around the place screaming loudly, taking up aisles with 6 kids and a pram, touching everything, Filming and annoying the public. The way you allowed the girls to behave in the dressing rooms in the mall was shocking. They were screaming at the top of their lungs & running around clearly annoying shoppers. Very rude that you filmed there with women trying to use changing rooms & Tim & Heze clearly standing in the doorway.

You can't claim to have Christian morals, then allow your daughters to wear crop tops, dance to age inappropriate music & make suggestive adult dance faces & poses and have your sons throwing gang signs. The lyrics of the songs you let your kids dance to is sickening. Christians believe men & women are equal, something you do not believe or practice. God says love everybody but you are homophobic against LGBTQ.

Ella STOP saying the kids with the "white texture" hair have nicer/better/easier hair. STOP jumping for joy that Rue & Hosanna are white skinned. It's hurtful & damaging to the kids. I understand you always disliked your skin & hair but work on self love instead of making your kids feel flawed.

Tim, it's insulting & disrespectful to mock black culture and accents. As a fellow white person I am embarrassed you think it's ok or that you have the right to act borderline racist and use black stereotypes just because you are married to a black woman. Its not cool, funny or respectful. Stop trying to speak Patois. You have never even been to Jamaica. Of all the wonderful things you could teach the kids about their heritage. You chose Jamaican slang.

Ella you are a black woman. Tim you are a white man. Both of you need to be proud of your skin and races because your children are both. How must they feel when mum doesn't want to be black & dad doesn't want to be white. How will the kids ever be happy in their skin when their parents aren't.

Ella as a mother, you need to respect & stand up for your daughters instead of having them as maids. Teach them their value & worth that they are capable of achieving goals and dreams. You can't rant about independent women & then have them chained to the kitchen sink. All your teaching them is how to cater to men, run a house & boys are better than girls. Women & black people fought long & hard for rights, freedom and equality and here you are making slaves of the girls. The cleaning, cooking & child rearing is YOUR job not the kids.

The boys need to start helping out. They need to learn to help, tidy & cook. What happens if they live alone or become single fathers. How will they care for themselves, kids & run a home when they don't know how to wash a dish. Heze is 11. He should be able to do his own hair. How dare you make the girls clean up their brothers mess. It's disgusting that you prioritise the boys freedom, time, luxuries, hobbies & activities over the girls.

Tim, you need to start doing chores. You contribute to the mess, so you need to clean it. Your a parent. Cooking and feeding your kids is a necessity not a choice. How can you sit and watch your babies clean up your mess & cook your food. Disgusting, vile, sexist man

Tim, if you can't help out at home, go and get a job. Stop saying youtube is work. You literally record a 15 minute video and upload it with no special effects or transitions. The rest of the time you lay in bed or play computer games. How can you keep saying your bored when the house is dirty. In your bored moment, why not declutter and go to the dump or hire a skip. Ella, we appreciate you trying to defend Tim but you are both lazy.

Ella, you also need to do more around the house. It's always dirty, messy, cluttered, laundry and rubbish everywhere. Why can't you get off your behind and clean it while the kids play outside or make Tim help. Instead you make your kids do it or the elderly grandparents and you have a cleaner. Laziest couple on youtube. You never leave the house so it's not like your busy. Your don't do homeschooling much, everybody helps you, most meals are fruit or chicken left to boil in a pot. So you have plenty of time to clean. If you can't manage, make a cleaning rota & stop adding more kids to the equation.

HOW DARE YOU deny your kids an education. The kids are behind academically and socially. You need to get tutors for these kids ASAP. What happens if YOUR dreams of the kids being a famous footballers & celebrities doesn't work out. They have nothing to fall back on & won't get a good jobs because they have zero education or qualifications. Deciding your kids careers at birth, boys will be footballers & girls will be actors & dancers is WRONG. Hosanna struggles with basic reading but you get a tutor for Heze, because he's a boy. If your kid is struggling, then stop going to parties and help them. The kids are never seen doing schoolwork in the background, their either cleaning, babysitting, kicking a ball or making tiktok dances. It is terrible that you have ALL the kids learning the same things. For christ sake why are 11 year old Heze and 3 year old Reu being taught the same thing. And so unfair that the kids try to learn with Houston screaming at them

The kids are homeschooled, well they don't do much learning but none of you work. Perfect opportunity to have educational trips to help them learn. The kids never go anywhere. They are always at home taking care of the parents responsibilities. You make money but still never treat the kids to a day out unless your gifted one by a sponsor like Legoland or a youtube event. So many free, educational, fun, interesting things to in London where you live. There are parks, rivers, zoo's, galleries, museums, sporting arenas, themed attractions, theme parks, sights, monuments, steet performers, bowling, arcades, theatres, activity centres. You live an hour away from the beach and amazing lakes & scenic areas.

You need to let you kids socialise and interact with other people and kids their age. They lack social skills and clearly have attachment issues as Harper nearly had a heart attack because Tim & Halle got off at a different train stop. All the kids were in a state over it. That is not normal. Clearly seperation & attachment issues. They need to make friends. It's also ridiculous that the whole family has to go to every activity or sport. How will these kids have any "me time" or develop socially. They can't even play with friends their own age without the whole family there. How will they cope having to be alone as adults. It's not good for their development. Heze should not be spending his days with toddlers, babies & little girls. He needs to interract with boys his age. How are these kids going to cope as adults. They won't have a clue about the real world.

The kids are coming across so fake & robotic. It's like their brainwashed & just say rehearsed, mature things that they know the parents they want to hear. We never hear the kids laugh naturally. Its like a cult. It's a pity because they are nice kids but the fakeness is too much. Hosanna is becoming unbearable & fake. Whoever is speaking on camera she has to follow them around & start hugging & rubbing them just to be seen. Hosanna & Heze really need to stop with the goody two shoes act. Hosanna is sneaky & nosy, she watches & listens to everything. Hezes mask fell when he wouldn't show good sportsmanship by sulking when his little sisters won a game. It wasn't nice to see his jealousy. Hes too old act like that

How dare you spend the money your children earn, buying yourself designer outfits, luxury hotel stays, apple watches, tiffanys jewelry when your kids only wear free clothes from sponsors, Houston only wears Pyjamas or a nappy & the kids recieve poundland toys, toothbrushes & magazines for Christmas. It's exploitation and greed. That money should be divided into trust funds for the kids.

You need to get Hosannas eyes checked. There is clearly a problem that is being neglected. The problem will get worse. If you can find time to get your nails done & go to a party then you can find time to make a doctor appointment.

Ella, You need to stop complaining about being pregnant, stop rolling your eyes & sighing over baby #7. There are women & couples who can't have kids that are dying inside when you say these things. Be thankful you have beautiful healthy children. Stop acting surprised that your pregnant. You had unprotected sex, what did you expect, a tv? Shows how irresponsible you are that you get pregnant when not wanting more kids & waiting to get your tubes tied. Foolishness. Then saying your supposed to ask people for help. NO ELLA, when you can't manage your kids, then its NOT other peoples responsibility. It's YOUR responsibility to stop bringing children into the world when you can't manage and have no room for them. You don't just expect others to help. So rude to expect people to look 6 or 7 kids.

You need to stop relying and depending on elderly grandparents to babysit, pay & provide for you. Your parents should not be buying your food. Tim your parents bought you a house. Be greatful not greedy. Ella, your parents are elderly & have a special needs daughter. How dare you expect them to care for 7 kids. And have them clean your house, do your laundry, ironing & cook for you. HAVE RESPECT. You both should be spoiling the grandparents with a nice thank you gift for all the money & help they have given you . The disrespect is hard to take in.

Tim, your not American. We don't have a large basketball following in UK. It is practically non-existent. How the hell have you got every basketball team jersey from the states but you dont even play it or have a hoop at home. I think the only basketball team any British person can name is Lakers & thats because everyone thought Kobe Bryant was hot. It's not even televised over here. We don't even have any known British basketball teams because nobody plays it here. Maybe the odd school team activity. Stop trying to reel in American viewers because Jesus, we do not need our American friends thinking we all live & behave like you. God forbid.

Please start teaching Houston to stop that shrill, piercing, screeching. She is at the age now she understands correction and basic instruction. But nobody can be bothered to teach her. It's annoying and she shouldn't be on the vlogs if all she does is scream. The viewers don't want to listen to roaring when people are speaking.

Please start allowing the kids to spend more time outside. It cant be good for their health being cooped up in that small, cramped, dusty, cluttered house. Why do you never open windows & doors even when the sun is shining? Why are you all sitting on the floor inside on warm days. Why have you not got some outdoor seating or garden toys. Those kids are homeschooled and indoors 24-7. You make lots of youtube money, so why not bring the kids on eductational day trips and outings.

You need to move house, build an extension or else re-arrange the home as the living conditions are shocking. Its disgraceful that pre-teens are sharing bedrooms with babies & toddlers. Halle & Harper share bed!!!

Tim & Ella, your not relatable or these amazing parents. British people have no idea what planet your living on. American viewers are seeing through the bull too. You really need to re-evuate your lifestyle and make better choices for your children. The only reason people think these things is because you keep putting your private lives on the Internet and telling us this information. Stop preaching when you havent even got own morals in check

YOURS SINCERELY
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Thats just an updated version for anyone who wants to comment their videos
I am a long time subscriber to Tim and Ella and interacted with them a lot for years before they really went down hill. I defended then a while against "haters" but over the last year really have seen how bad of a turn they've taken. I saw this post on their tutor YouTube comments and then discovered this gossip board and I really agree with all you've said. I used to think the kids were so incredibly well behaved. It is obviously all a ruse that they've put on for all this time. The family are charlatans.

I want to know where Astro went!!! I guess wherever the other two dogs went. šŸ˜¢
 
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Ugh... Where do I start? I have been watching this family since practically the beginning. They've changed a lot, to say the least... Or their true colors have really started to show the past couple years. Not sure which... But I tend to think a combination of the two. The elder girls seemed to have much more of a childhood and were allowed to do fun stuff line dance and gymnastics before they pumped out "Reu bear" and Houston. Now they're nothing but domestic servants.

Who else saw the episode before it was swiftly deleted where they pranked Hosanna into thinking that Houston was kidnapped and blamed it all on her? They let this "joke" go on for like an hour before telling her that it was a joke. It was horrifying and she was hysterical, crying and hyperventilating... Meanwhile, they had another kids hiding with the baby down the road. This was the LAST STRAW for me. So many people unsubscribed and said how cruel this was and they deleted the video in like one day. They could have made an apology video but no, they didn't. They scrubbed it from the internet. I hope someone screenshot that mess of a video to prove exactly how messed up this family is.

I used to love them and they would shout out me and many other regular subscribers - they were so humble back in the day and really exuded warmth and love. At first I thought the spiral down might be from Tim but I see that he actually a nicer person in general, albeit lazy and sexist... Ella is just always smug and has a something mean to say about "haters" and doesn't want any criticism. She also gets very snippy with those children, and they seem scared of her. Heze is 11 and can't even choose his hairstyle and she insists on having it that awful blue. Like why??

They clearly have grown up privileged and got a free house from mummy and daddy and Tim doesn't work a real job and never has. He's been a rapper in the party and Ella was the breadwinner working some sort of corporate job until she had Reu. Now they monetize their kids with all these ads and shows on British TV.

And then the COVID?? Like none of them wear masks. Tim was at a huge party for some other vloggers (James and Kimmy) and either went right after having COVID Or perhaps it was filmed beforehand and that is where they got ill. The party was packed and nobody wore masks. They aren't vaccinated either. If they were they surely would have said. And how irresponsible to send off Heze and Halle to live w grandparents while their whole family has COVID. The kids may have tested negative But they could have had it and transferred it to grandparents. My guess is Heze had football and Hallie had some acting tit to do, so they wanted to keep the money flowing in so they sent those kids off.

Greed has ruined this family. It is hard to watch anymore!



I am a long time subscriber to Tim and Ella and interacted with them a lot for years before they really went down hill. I defended then a while against "haters" but over the last year really have seen how bad of a turn they've taken. I saw this post on their tutor YouTube comments and then discovered this gossip board and I really agree with all you've said. I used to think the kids were so incredibly well behaved. It is obviously all a ruse that they've put on for all this time. The family are charlatans.

I want to know where Astro went!!! I guess wherever the other two dogs went. šŸ˜¢
Welcome to the party šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‰ xx
 
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Wtf...they literally let them kick the ball at doors, walls & glass panes.. they laughed when they kicked the ball at pregnant Ella with hot tea and a phone in her hand. Bad parenting at it's finest. I cannot believe neither Tim or Ella told them to stop or appologise for hotting her with the ball and allow them to kick a ball all over house

They used to like & reply their followers comments. They don't bother anymore.

Just when I thought we were going to have a peaceful video with Houston asleep.... she woke up & did hwr usual whinge like a pig squeal lol
 
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Notice on Tim's Instagram page last month he posted a pic of him and the dog and then the Grimwade Family account posted a comment that said "Our baby!" Like they clearly know we were all skeptical of how long they'd keep him. I bet they gave him away and won't ever mention him again
 
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Notice on Tim's Instagram page last month he posted a pic of him and the dog and then the Grimwade Family account posted a comment that said "Our baby!" Like they clearly know we were all skeptical of how long they'd keep him. I bet they gave him away and won't ever mention him again
Hopefully they havent dumped this dog like the last ones. Why keep getting dogs when they know they can't look after them and won't keep it for long. Probably got it for views. Unless they have him locked outside, in that case it's not great either considering they haven't even bought so much as a dog bed nevermind a kennel. Did they even bring him for a walk, bath him, play or try to train him in the few weeks they appeared to have him. Their shockingly careless & ignorant this lot.
 
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Wtf...they literally let them kick the ball at doors, walls & glass panes.. they laughed when they kicked the ball at pregnant Ella with hot tea and a phone in her hand. Bad parenting at it's finest. I cannot believe neither Tim or Ella told them to stop or appologise for hotting her with the ball and allow them to kick a ball all over house

They used to like & reply their followers comments. They don't bother anymore.

Just when I thought we were going to have a peaceful video with Houston asleep.... she woke up & did hwr usual whinge like a pig squeal lol
And automatically it was "girls can you get Houston out" Rather than Dim putting the camera down and getting her or Ella getting up and undoing her. x
 
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And automatically it was "girls can you get Houston out" Rather than Dim putting the camera down and getting her or Ella getting up and undoing her. x
It really bugs me that he doesnā€™t set the camera up then vlog and interact with everyone especially when they are all in one room! šŸ¤¦šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø
I donā€™t see any other families I watch do this, they normally are doing something, cooking, shopping, cleaning, DIY he does nothing but film!
 
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It really bugs me that he doesnā€™t set the camera up then vlog and interact with everyone especially when they are all in one room! šŸ¤¦šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø
I donā€™t see any other families I watch do this, they normally are doing something, cooking, shopping, cleaning, DIY he does nothing but film!
Exqctly. Most vloggers hold the camera and vlog or hold it so there in shot while also filming others. Thats where they slipped up with their "suprise Tim with i am pregnant video". They never ever set the camera up, yet the day they do a suprise Tim video the camera is set up in place, to the exact position it needed to be so it would get them both in view. Utter boll0cks. Total set up. X
 
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Exqctly. Most vloggers hold the camera and vlog or hold it so there in shot while also filming others. Thats where they slipped up with their "suprise Tim with i am pregnant video". They never ever set the camera up, yet the day they do a suprise Tim video the camera is set up in place, to the exact position it needed to be so it would get them both in view. Utter boll0cks. Total set up. X
And then Tim is like ā€œOh hey there Grimwade Gangā€ as if we are to believe he didnā€™t know she was filming.

They are so fake.
 
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Exqctly. Most vloggers hold the camera and vlog or hold it so there in shot while also filming others. Thats where they slipped up with their "suprise Tim with i am pregnant video". They never ever set the camera up, yet the day they do a suprise Tim video the camera is set up in place, to the exact position it needed to be so it would get them both in view. Utter boll0cks. Total set up. X
Oh no Tim can't do that! He needs to use the excuse of him needing to be behind the camera so that he doesn't have to do anything!! He's been caught out now . As I said before the camera can be placed anywhere. He doesn't have to be behind the camera all the Time! He chooses it and gullible Ella just panders to Him!!
 
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Could it be any more obvious they read here? Tim infront of the camera AND said prayer before food? Did anyone hear Astro? If not thts 4 vlogs minus a dog. X
 
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they defo read here.. Tim isnā€™t behind the camera šŸ¤”šŸ¤”šŸ¤”
Iā€™m struggling to understand why a Christian family would publish a photo of their child showing disrespect to his mother and father using a swear hand gesture.

Why does anyone need to see that. Talk about it if you must, but actually show it. Gosh look how low they have to sink for new content.

Sort yourselves out!

Iā€™m glad they read here, because if they thought we was talking BS they would have no need to change their setup.

Do you think by Rue using a swear gesture - was a subliminal message to us (inside joke), who continue to call out their Fake behavior??

Well Dim & Elladerberry, your inside joke hasnā€™t offended me it simply confirmed that you are a bunch of silly little twats using your children yet again. I actually feel sorry for you, having to watch you scrape the bottom of the barrel.
 
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Iā€™m struggling to understand why a Christian family would publish a photo of their child showing disrespect to his mother and father using a swear hand gesture.

Why does anyone need to see that. Talk about it if you must, but actually show it. Gosh look how low they have to sink for new content.

Sort yourselves out!

Iā€™m glad they read here, because if they thought we was talking BS they would have no need to change their setup.

Do you think by Rue using a swear gesture - was a subliminal message to us (inside joke), who continue to call out their Fake behavior??

Well Dim & Elladerberry, your inside joke hasnā€™t offended me it simply confirmed that you are a bunch of silly little twats using your children yet again. I actually feel sorry for you, having to watch you scrape the bottom of the barrel.
Totally agree. Dim also faked laughed at Rues "bad finger". I personally think Elladerberry is as thick as mince. How the hell she can home school and educate 5 kids at school age is beyond me. And the irony of them constantly pointing out manners if eating on camera then they talk the entire way thru a meal. That is not family time. The focus was the vlog not being family. Everything they do is so staged, fake and the only ones they are kidding are themselves and the children are purely an income. The need to watch out, coz they might end up getting sacked like poor Astro. X
 
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Totally agree. Dim also faked laughed at Rues "bad finger". I personally think Elladerberry is as thick as mince. How the hell she can home school and educate 5 kids at school age is beyond me. And the irony of them constantly pointing out manners if eating on camera then they talk the entire way thru a meal. That is not family time. The focus was the vlog not being family. Everything they do is so staged, fake and the only ones they are kidding are themselves and the children are purely an income. The need to watch out, coz they might end up getting sacked like poor Astro. X
I was speaking to my mum about this. Ella is not qualified to teach all those kids who are at different levels of education. Sat there round that dinner table I couldnā€™t quite believe that none of them go to school! .. she should be teaching them or have someone in to teach them 5days a week !! As for people always pointing out their ā€˜mannersā€™ and the way they talk. Theyā€™re only mimicking what they hear. Thatā€™s what children do!!they have no other influence around them other than their parents so of course theyā€™ll come across the way the parents do! Ella is thick as tit and the way they believe each otherā€™s tit and convince each other is beyond me!!
 
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