I collected fancy paper napkins! Completely free to me and my parents as I would just grab an extra at weddings and other parties. I never felt deprived. What I had that many of these weirdos at the shatoo didn't appear to have was a loving family, a stable upbringing in a neighborhood with other children my age, and an imagination. Don't worry, I gave up the napkin collection around the age of 10. IMO, Davey spending all that time packing up the toys, hauling them to the shatoo, unpacking them, etc. is sad to me. Why not just bring some of them? Was it to say to the others, "Look what I have! I may not have a chateau and belong to a snooty boys and girls club, but I was doted on as a child by my parents as evidenced by this massive collection." Or was it just a way to try and connect with others on some level as his social skills are developmentally delayed? Harmless but questionable.