Madame No
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I think you're onto something! I can see Nati being Ms. Goody.To make sense of what she wrote, try reading her comment out loud with Nati's accent.
I think you're onto something! I can see Nati being Ms. Goody.To make sense of what she wrote, try reading her comment out loud with Nati's accent.
I lost my son to suicide two years ago, he had made several attempts and we were in the dark about his mental condition as he put on a brave front hiding his torment from us. I’m happy for you and your son, I hope that he is open and let’s you know if things are getting too much for him. Now that I belong to the club no one wants to join, I try to distract myself and stay busy, and the famous 15 make me laugh they’re really not such terrible bunchBeachgirl said:
I agree with everything you say. I was in the position of having to call on the youth mental health team when my son was 16. He jumped from a railway bridge but fortunately people got him off the track in time. I got help the next day but only because it was classed as an emergency. I found that they had a way of wanting to deal with the problem and if my son didn’t agree that was it. I managed to get him to appointments but again if he didn’t give the responses they had been taught to expect then we were on our own. It was a tough few years and a further attempt by taking an overdose. I didn’t even bother with the mental health team then just dealt with it on my own. It was his head of year at school and his rugby club that gave me the most support and between us we got him through the worst of it. During this time I was made aware of how many boys actually have mental health problems and tried to commit suicide. It is heartbreaking. It does happen to girls as well as my sister committed suicide.
As I've reported before, it is my understanding there are structural issues that need to be fixed first and they are serious. Cuz Armoir can't fix those himself so he is left doing minimal things they can do until Stephanie Jarvis figures out a way to tell her patron friends she needs way more money to be able to properly continue the renovations. I am not sure she will walk that route though. She might as well choose to ignore the structural issues (she has done that before) against all advice (done that too, multiple times) and force Cuz to ram the paneling in just to be done with it and move on to the following disaster of a project. At this point there is no way to tell, because she's no longer reigned in by any common sense around her. She has become used to the fact that (some of ) her fans will love her no matter what.Jules100 said:
@Clara Burnett, can you tell us, what is the real reason for no progress in the grande salon? Money, the ceiling needing more support or replaced, heating, Amaury just can’t handle it, Stephanie just wants it to go as slowly as possible…?
Ok, I must sacrifice one of my twenty lives saying this; Can we not DEMAND that "Caroline Goodie" shows herself on CD??? We, the people, on behalf of patreons and grannies, we the 15 chosen ones!? Show yourself or we believe not! Failing that, can someone please get her sloshed before next "premiere" so we can see what she f.c.u.k she will drivel when intoxicated? Perhaps her true evil nature will penetrate the goody two shoes persona. About the smallish grammar issue, my secretary deals with this kind of thing on a daily basis... and SO WHAT!.. perhaps "Caroline" also happens to B a VIP who's too feckin' busy? I doubt we'll have more in common than this though. Bloody party pooper. Ok, whilst using my twentieth life, I can add; Ann Marie is a bloody wet blanket. What a disgrace!? His little "oh it is awful to sleep alone" routine could make any normal man vomit...but the camera man did not I've always defended Phillip, but he's getting annoying now. I still defend Dan. He came from nothing with bad teeth and a shyness about him,- now he is playing the pretenders at their own game. May his mansion outshine them, may his patreon flourish! Right, I am safely at a distance from being a fake VIP, the shame! So now I shall try to shut up.
Sorry, no sympathy from me. He's an adult. He doesn't have to do any of this. He chooses to do it. He's obviously not a self-made man of success. He's actually got a very cushy deal living at the shithole. Room and board taken care of. Sexual needs taken care of, I guess, I don't know for sure. No pressure to get anything done in a timely manner. No boss checking up on him. No job reviews. His own workshop. Adoring fans. I think he's quite happy in his position. He's a real mama's boy so taking orders from women suits him just fine.I do have a teeny tiny bit of empathy for the poor idiot - now his duties also include the gift vlog - he literally has to do everything now there is no one else.
He's giving Dana some fierce competition.Ah man, spoiler alert … he didn’t get pushed and go weeeeeeeeeeee plop. He simply cooked a bland meal for 4 hours
Keep asking universe folks
didnt i tell you all...the bitch is on tour again with her lapdog... oh my...that woman has a real problem..she has to be on the move all the time..its like a traveling circus..lets hope she doesnt sing....and another thing....her patreonvlogs seem to be the same as her regular vlogs...so we all can see them just a few days later.... it must be very disappointing to be a patreon...she isnt even at home when they want to visit her... its even worse than paying tax..I’ll be back with a filthy update on the Patreon Video
Yes, I’m still pissed off about how @ViscountLaLande was run off. Don’t know if he was legitimate or not, but would have been interesting to hear what he had to say. He hasn’t been back.This has been rehashed over and over again since almost the start of these threads. In one of the Patreon vlogs she claims to have graduated from Somerville College in 1996.
Such a shame that @ViscountLaLande was chased off this thread before we had chance to find out a little more. He knew her tangentially and spoke about seeing Fanny's matriculation photograph in one of the Common Rooms and also said he would be happy to dig around to find out more.
@Jules100 Since your dining room table and furniture are contemporary, I think it’s great to mix it up with the traditional china setting and etched crystal! If you weren’t adding the folding tables, I would recommend placemats. But, in order to “hide” the folding tables, I would suggest a tablecloth. I’m not sure you can find one large enough…if not, I suggest getting two tablecloths that overlap, or split, down the center. You can hide the “seam” using a table runner. I really like a plain white tablecloth because it’s so versatile and goes with any occasion. If you don’t have a cloth, order one (or two) right away so you have them in time! Then, you can decorate the table using traditional fall colors, and your napkins can be a burnt orange (which I think would go nicely with the red chairs). I don’t use napkin rings. I either fold the napkins, or I tie them with coordinating ribbon. For Thanksgiving, or fall, you could roll your napkins and tie them with burlap ribbon or twine. Your table runner could also be burlap or a neutral beige color so it doesn’t take away from the colors of the centerpiece. You could order a beautiful fall flower arrangement for the centerpiece, or use fresh vegetables (pumpkins, gourds, etc.)…or both. If you do flowers, make sure the arrangement is low so guests can see each other, and the length is long to emphasize the shape of the table. Also, instead of candlesticks, you could use votives in glass candleholders scattered informally around the table. That would help combine the contemporary with the traditional. I’m sure whatever you do will be beautiful!I love your china and Champagne coupes. I am useless at tablescaping so would go for simple but I am sure someone will be along soon with some wonderful ideas.
like all of these grifters she moves the goal posts-don't mention where the money or the accounts are and hopefully the cult following will forget and she can just pocket the lot. I am sure as with all of them their intentions were good at the start but over time their arrogance increases with their greed and they justify their actions and keep as much as they can for Teslas, Givenchy desks and the like-after all it is a reward for their life enhancing content. I imagine a lot of the shit gifts just get binned and some make it to Emmaus if she can be arsed and I bet some are sold in the crappy shopI can not fathom the gift opening, with all that is happening in the world - the last thing STEPHIE needs is more crap to open. Think of the money people spend not only on the gifts, but the shipping. From a PR perspective, the least STEPHIE could do would be to announce, like she used to do, who the money is going to - funds she garners from “views”. Back in the day, she was giving scholarship money, would proclaim monthly, if I recall correctly, how much she sent. That has stopped. Not a word. At least by telling where funds go - she could justify the gift opening. Wouldn’t you love to stroll through her crap palace and see where she stashes this stuff. Reality is - we see it once when opened, then off it goes into a hallway, stacked on a staircase, or jammed up in NARNIA. Except for the lovely hedgehog display in PhiPhi’s room.
Thank you. It was life changing. A Brain haemorrhage in my early 40s . I do things differently but have a good life.I hope you are well now xxxx
YASSS!!!I’m going to binge all of Stephanie’s old Christmas Diaries advent vlogs each and every day until Christmas. Who’s with me?
On the off chance Goody Gooder is a real person, Stephameme might want to put a little distance between herself and this rabidly obsessive fan. She has swerved wildly into crazy stalker territory. Again, if Gooder is a real person and not a chateau subterfuge, which is highly questionable.Please send positive vibes to Caroline Gooder as she approaches the final stages of her Ph.D. studies on Stephanology!
Damn! The mad woman must have all the CD and Cadeaux episodes on a continuous playlist!
kevin ohara
6 hours ago
Iv just seen the episode where you drained the pond to use as a pool what a waste all the wildlife plants etci have a lot of admiration for you decorating and making things etc but to destroy natural places is stupid if you wanted a pool make one lol
caroline gooder
1 hour ago
Please see the episode with Davey's 5 year plan. The pond is still there and will be a natural pond and not a fishery as it was historical. On Davey's plans it has a structure near it for viewing, etc. Michael Potts likes to swim in natural areas and the Moat, so he will enjoy to swim there. The lake was drained due to the demands of the EU water police and is being surveyed to return in a new more eco friendly state. The new modern pool is going in where the tennis court is in about three years.
No need to apologize. I think Tattle Life could stand to increase the emoji selection. Personally, I took your heart emoji to indicate understanding and compassion. One of the things about sharing a traumatic experience is to show how much more in common we all have, that we can overcome adversity if we choose too. I have a wonderful life, that I enjoy, with chosen family I love. Changing any one event might not have allowed my life to develop as it has. Whenever I hear people say they have no regrets I find it difficult to believe. This forum, while dedicated to holding someone accountable, has evolved into a group of genuinely diverse but like minded individuals and I, for one, am glad to have found it!@MRShavershamsdress I'm sorry for the heart emoji, there wasn't a hug one... It's not life that hurts us, it is usually an individual or groups of people, life gives us circumstances which is what we have to deal with whilst suffering from the hurt. I'm sorry you were made to feel responsible for your friends passing, blame is a way of keeping the focus off themselves...Your friend will eternally be a wonderful man
Her parents owned the Alzheimers care home she grew up in. They sold it to fund her portion of LieLande as I understand it. It isn’t really clear but I assume that also funded the current London apartment and the South Africa beach house. Perhaps even Isabelle’s UK and French properties as well.One of my wise friends who went to Cambridge says different friends come into our lives at different times for different reasons.
For some it is not because we are lacking but the rhythm of life has changed and also if you travel a lot and move around the country that affects friendship groups too. And some have children and then dynamics change.
For Stephanie, she was a lonely, self indulged child .
Who has a strange Scottish man looking after you that would probably worry parents of other little girls??
She spent a lot of time in her tower and then Daddy took her to many many places. Never any mention of mummy attending the various CHRISTIES sales when she was bought a tapestry, or a rug, or a bed so much stuff. Lalande was her fathers dream too. But just where did the money come from to spend on this? Two nurses salary? Does NOT add up
Oh yes. Here’s the way I see it…I inherited a lot of things from my grandparents and great grandparents. I used to use the “good stuff” only on special occasions. Now I use it as often as I like. I figure, why keep it put away for a special day? I guess I just don’t want to look back one day and say “nice, my china is pristine! I never used it!” I’d rather use it, look back at the wear, and say “we had some nice meals with good friends and family on that china!” I agree, no one should feel uncomfortable in your own home. They should feel welcome and able to relax. If it’s like a “theater” no one feels comfortable.oh no...not another one... i live surrounded by old furniture..antiques..silver cutlery and porcelaine..i had to attend all that pahlava last week...i so can enjoy a normal dinner at the kitchentable..in my workclothes....without all the fuss...just good food...and good company...i so hate theater...
Have to say i feel for you..i had to stay in the closet untill i was 25 myself...all my friends had a susspicion i was gay...but nobody asked...i went on a holiday to Ibiza when i was 21..with a very good friend....we went to all kind of clubs..we met a lott of people..and they all said to him...we are sure your friend is gay... i guess by that time he also thought i was..but it was never discussed..at some point i felt i had to move to a different circle..so all my all friends were married and some had even children...so i went off into the gayscene..on my own...at 25...had the best time...also have to say...never had one problem with homophobia..i guess i was lucky..and i also think it had a lott to do with my background...nobody even dared to take me on i guess... have to say..i once in highschool gave a nasty commenting kid...a huge knock on his nose.he cried like a baby...after that...nobody ever made rude remarks....i am gay..but certainly no pussy...i never felt myself a victum of homophobia..and i surely never was..Yes, unfortunately my story is just one of several in my life. And I’m not alone…many more stories like mine. Being excluded is painful. Most of my straight friends from childhood and early adulthood suddenly disappeared when I came out. But I’ve got great friends now. I hope that my nieces have a “gay best friend” when they get older. I think we really do make life a lot more interesting and fun!
Stick to your day job, Philip. Oh... wait... what is your day job?Really? Really? Receding-pube-head PhiPhi has resorted to making cooking vlogs!
His life at Lalande must be so numbingly boring at this point.
Ladyboy PhiPhi should take a leaf out of Nicolas Fairfraud's book so he can start living a more elegant life!
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Pan-seared turkey breasts and mash---prep time 4 hours! I think the man-child needs full adult supervision when he works in the kitchen. Russian Maria, I dare you to supervise PhiPhi!
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Jon L
Where's Philip's cooking vlog? I was just on his channel---nada. I was so looking forward to watching how it took him 4 hours to make a simple meal.
Third one Too
“Maybe you should do lunch.” Best line ever!! You’ll know when you’ve watched the video.
Kimmie Kat
1 hour ago
Andrew: “Maybe you should do lunch and then that would be normal dinner time” I shot coffee out of my nose! LOL