Lilymyheart was another one who was very supportive of AE initially, including claiming she had read the wiki and the threads first. Then she posted some sad stories about possible narcs in her life and going NC with one... Unless they are obvious I am never really sure and don't like to call them out. She's doubting BW now, but then tbh I don't get a good vibe from BW myself! I rewatched her MS video a few times and realized she reminds me of someone who hurt me very badly, someone who was very sadistic, but that could just be because they look a bit a like and speak in much the same way.
Maybe that's the sole reason why I had such a visceral negative reaction to BW. I hope you don't mind me posting this. After the last debacle, and my own part in it which I feel quite ashamed of, I don't want to post anything in the MT that might rock the boat again.