I’ve come to the conclusion Tan, can’t cope with going to work. I think she feels she should be at home. Making dinners and doing table scapes. Or for the rest of us, setting the table.
She can’t cope with a normal working week. So the reason she feels the need to constantly justify a glass of wine, or flowers an expensive purchase. She once said she feels she fails when she doesn’t cook, well lately love you are failing loads then.
she can’t cope with real life. Your Instagram would be so much more relatable if you was just honest. You are not perfect, no one is. Most people don’t even have the time to pretend life is perfect.
Yet you do, you do these things that are “extra” but you manage to make yourself come across as a complete
hole and you do it so perfectly.
So you’re not failing at that.
Now we all know you don’t have many friends, your Instagram shows that, so that means you show that.
Just because you have people commenting doesn’t mean they’re your friends. Remember people on here have said they talk to you on your feed.
Any how, what I am saying is you have built this pretence and it’s not sustainable. Saying your daughter is snapping up your other daughters room, we don’t
bleeping care. We know they don’t live with you. It’s been obvious for months. So why not admit that.
My daughters are off to uni, I am gutted but life goes on. My life will be very different but I shall embrace that change. I won’t need wine, and expensive purchase or flowers. Or 3 takeaways a week.
Instead I’ll be carrying on but instead of a face to face dinner, we will do it over FaceTime. Maybe, if they’re not too busy. For now I’ll get ready for our last family holiday. Yes my kids are coming with us, we paid for them. Other wise they wouldn’t have come.
We did a trip to wales the other week, it was stressful and not as enjoyable as it should have been. But hey ho, it pissed with rain. We made the most of it, and we actually did laugh but not one photo was posted to the gram.
I ate my fish and chips out of the cardboard box they came in.
Now for some sunshine.
That reminds me I must book my car in for its service. I do hope the receptionist isn’t too over worked, I will defo ask her.