He doesn't have an ex wife, or kids.
I agree. For some reason, I just see them both as a pair of wannabees. Especially, Filippo, to my own surprise. Something is off with his demeanor. He is both condescending, controlling, self-absorbed, and clingy at the same time. They should probably think of sharing less to preserve the image.
To each their own, but for a man in his 50's he has little to no possessions if that's his level of income.
just one remark, maybe some of you do not know, the brands have generous discounts for employeesGood point! She indeed talks about food a lot, and then shows an empty poke bowl container to prove she had eaten. A person with a healthy relationships with food would not do that, imho. I mean, I cannot imagine myself throwing my dirty empty lunchbox into my colleagues facesShe's acting like a toddler that secretly flashes food down the toilet/ gives to a pet and then shows mom an empty plate, as if they were finished.
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On another note, the more I think about it and connect the dots, the more I'm convinced that she wears fakes 95% of the time.
My reasoning:
1. Fil is an employee, not a CEO, so, what is his salary, what do you, guys, think? Imo, it's € 100,000/year with bonuses, max. Would he be able to buy at least two Hermes bags for his girlfriend a year + jewelry?
2. It can be argued that he has some inheritance money/investments made, but think of his lifestyle before Tamara. Where did he even live before if they both rented at first? He had no car as well. He's wearing the same clothes, or at least he is not splurging on himself. He likes that Chrome hearts brand, but what does he buy from them mostly? Costume jewelry and sunglasses. I do not see rich habits there at all. For his age, he's not even a middle class Italian. And you tell me he's buying Hermes and diamond rings left and right? And again, for the man his age, he is not very well secured financially, again, imho.
3. Their summer vacations are all three-day breaks somewhere in Italy. Every. Single. Year. Exotic trips are all sponsored. Does this speak wealth to you?
4. Now, look at Tamara. Yes, it does seem like she shops a lot, but those are all sponsored hauls on rotation (NaP, Missoma, Mytheresa). And what is she wearing on a daily? Same white Khaite top in 90% of her videos in the past three years. Notice, how every time she actually splurges on something, she wears it to death (black Bottega heel to every single fashion event this fashion month, anyone?). On the contrary, 99% of her purchases we never see again. Her wardrobe is not even that big, considering the amount of hauls. So, where is the clothes?
5. They went to Japan recently...What did they buy exactly? A Chrome hearts necklace and a tiny Chanel purse. Cash poor? Seemed super weird to me.
6. She receives her treatments (body/skin/hair/face/nail) from far remote locations. Why would you only go to Belgrade for facials, or only to Paris for body sculpting? That does not make sense, unless all these services are freebies. Note, how she stopped showing her body sculpting appointments all of a sudden.
7. I do know that top influencers might make € 10,000 and up per post. And she might have some investments. But their general lifestyle screams of a wannabe to me. Everything is always somehow in excess with her, so, that it makes you question the validity. Several of the same van Cleef&Aples necklaces/bracelets in different colors? Multiple of the same Hermes bags in different sizes? The most random Chanel items in a bulk? I don't know, I follow a good amount of fashion influencers, and their more selective and unique in their choices. Tamara reminds me of a hoarder. Remember, her blog name was (is?) All that glitters (...is not gold, isn't it?)
(btw, I'm an academic researcher, hence the rant)
All in all, her alleged lifestyle does not make any sense to me, unless, she's a trust fund baby, and she'll get her access once she's married, or something. Which contradicts with her sister's lifestyle. Personally, I see no other explanation to that level of mindless spending other than most of it is either returned, or fake.
The same story as what she said years ago then, “I can’t make up my mind on where to buy” translates to “I can’t stop maxing out my credit cards on handbags and flights”. It does not take someone years to decide where to buy. Buy a terraced house in London and rent it out or buy one in Milan, you know, where you live
. If someone has money sitting in an account, it would be worth so much more put into property, the earlier the better with prices constantly rising. She thinks we’re all dumb. Going by his Insta handle, he presumably was born in 1975, which makes him 48. However, I personally would think he's older, and not because of his beard. There are other signs of aging in people, especially, men, like, slower movements, changing posture, gestures, walk. If he is 48, I know men of his age that still look like boys in comparison.
I did some research. He was actually born in 1974. So he’s a year older than we thought, his birthday is in December so he’s 48, turning 49 at the end of the year. How old is Tamara?
) surely he would be on Linkedin or have interviews in publications or at least be mentioned on legit websites. But there is nothing out there. He filed a company to pay tax in 2018 but it was dissolved by the government a couple of years later because he either hadn’t provided correct paperwork or hadn’t paid his tax bill. Hardly the rich, successful career guy Tamara pretends he is 
.That's what I'm saying! All professionals are highly visible online nowadays. If he's a freelancer, or an entrepreneur, where is his portfolio? If he owns shares in Off-White, then, why would he be organizing events?I did some research. He was actually born in 1974. So he’s a year older than we thought, his birthday is in December so he’s 48, turning 49 at the end of the year. How old is Tamara?
I also found out there is absolutely no evidence of what his actual job is apart from what Tamara has alluded to and gossip sites have repeated. I’m not saying he doesn’t work for fashion brands but maybe he is just someone who sets up new stores or is a personal asisstant to people within the companies. If he was actually high up (like Tamara tries to make out when she exaggerated about how “close” he was to Virgil Abloh
Well, then all Balmain (Filippo's late employer's) CEOs and Presidents of subdivisions are regular plebs, cause they are all on LinkedIn somehow (I just googled).
His whole appearance is weird, I would question his sexuality, if he wasn't with Tamara. For a man in his late 40s that job doesn't sound very serious (organising parties and dealing with vip clients).It seems he doesn't have any higher education and relies only on connections.I had the idea that she wanted a partner like Jürgen (Xenia’s boyfriend and business partner at Attire) and Alex (Leonie’s boyfriend and business partner), but I guess there is something off about her that we don’t see that probably turns men off.In the new video Tamara addresses a few topics from here.
It seems that Fill wakes up early for the sake of their bright future, hence no inheritance
She is not skinny and botched, she just "has problems with her bones, joints and ligaments". Tamara, hopefully you are healthy, if not take care of yourself.
Somebody here mentioned that we haven't seen the kitchen and voila! it's in the vlog.
I still can't understand how she settled with FT. Obviously, he is not that wealthy as she would like to be, he is not coming from an old money family, otherwise we would have seen the castle .
Anyway, let's see if there would be any wedding until "2026."
That’s her projecting to us that she works hard. I’d say all of her subscribers work 9-5 and the fact that influencers earn more than us is really
She’s wearing a Chanel top, which is more expensive than all of the furnitures and fixtures on the kitchen!
Yes and she just mentioned that he talked to David Beckham as if they were close friends lolI did some research. He was actually born in 1974. So he’s a year older than we thought, his birthday is in December so he’s 48, turning 49 at the end of the year. How old is Tamara?
I also found out there is absolutely no evidence of what his actual job is apart from what Tamara has alluded to and gossip sites have repeated. I’m not saying he doesn’t work for fashion brands but maybe he is just someone who sets up new stores or is a personal asisstant to people within the companies. If he was actually high up (like Tamara tries to make out when she exaggerated about how “close” he was to Virgil Abloh
