We don't know these circumstances, we don't know what private messages have been sent. The point I'm making is that you said ppl smash windows and only get told to leave. I said not always true. My friends boyfriend showed up drunk and threatening, and was lifted. Nothing physical occurred but the police locked him upI assume he wasn't in a different house away from her when he was being drunk and violent though? So COMPLETELY different circumstances.
Edit: sorry drunk and threatening