You’re right. She does lecture.Daphne is allowed/encouraged to be a girly girl and wear pink/fairy outfits/love unicorns, yet when the boys were younger we were all lectured on gender stereotypes and they were only ever seen in orange/pink/yellow etc and playing with dolls/buggies. No consistency which tells you it’s all for show.
Then gets huffy when someone challenges her.
What a fanny