I think you’re pretty spot on.
And for that reason doing what she’s doing on tik tok day in and day out is completely ruining her mentally.
I really would like to find something about her where she shows that she is a decent person. It’s actually quite hard. Because she’s so nasty. She doesn’t have it in her to cope with being on social media.
And she probably is a good mum, but she is still using at least one kid to exploit for monetary gain.
100%.
She's not a bad mum, but she (in my opinion) doesn't put the needs of the children first. Yes, they don't want for anything, but she is doing untold damage by having them on social media; her son cannot consent so his basic rights are being violated. Her daughter CAN consent and while on the face of it Vav respects her by keeping her off the apps, she disrespects her by acting in the manner in which she does online. The clap backs, the dancing etc. For any teenager seeing your mum do that online, it's bound to be cringe for her and she is bound to get pelters, in some form, from people at school.
And that's not even taking into consideration the mental health issues her being online does to herself. You have to be a strong person to be in the public eye, and unfortunately I don't believe Vav is. She doesn't have a great support system. Yes she has Mad Pam and Nana, but she doesn't have any friends off the app. Noone she can call up for a coffee or a drink or a rant. That is isolating. It has to be.
For years she has wanted notoriety and she HAS got it but not in the way she wants. She's not liked in the city, regardless of her claims of a small circle. Her socialising comes with brand trips and having to socialise with kids nearly half her age while claiming to be living her best life? No, I'm sorry that's not flying for me.
Having to fly some lad from tiktok over to Ibiza for her because she doesn't have any other options here? That's not normal and no amount of her trying to spin it will convince me otherwise. Its not impulsive, its borderline creepy and pathetic.
All of this, and teaming it with the fact she's not a nice person. You can see the chip on her shoulder, the anger in her face, the sadness behind her eyes.
I think she thinks she's doing well, but when you peel back the curtain and really think about it? Is that success?