Why the big deal about being allowed a bath. If I said to my three I'm going in the bath can you make sure you spend the next hour not dying and not disturbing me they would barely bat an eyelid at me. Always having to prove she's a good mum. I feed them so healthy, I do so many activities with them, I dare not have a bath while they are awake incase they need me.... If she stopped trying soooo hard to please strangers on the insta and prove her worth as a mum she might actually loose the anxiety