Sophie Stanbury - ex SIL of CS and oh so busy busy! #1

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By the sounds of it she didnt finish her project on time but that doesnt stop her leaving her cat who is at deaths door for a weeks skiing. She deffo has a black eye. Gosh I have never seen someone who puts their social life before EVERYTHING. She doesnt realise that if she had priorities correct she wouldnt have these problems. My pet was v v old last year so it meant that we took separate trips with the kids as we didnt want him dying or putting the burden on someone else.
 
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Let’s hope the cat survives when she’s away for the week. The desperate #ad fest today, she must be desperate for the pennies. Bore off on your free ski trip .
 
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So she is taking 3 months off to recover from her part time job, 😃 😃 I think she was very close to a nervous breakdown the last few months, it must have been a nightmare for her trying to fit in work in between all the beauty treatments, hair appointments, pilates, barre, etc. etc. Even with the filter she looks totally frazzled.
 
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I felt genuinely sad for her last week about the cat. But then she abandons the poor puss when he needs her the most to go skiing. She skis all the time, it is not like it’s a big deal to her.
 
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I felt genuinely sad for her last week about the cat. But then she abandons the poor puss when he needs her the most to go skiing. She skis all the time, it is not like it’s a big deal to her.
I’m genuinely stunned she’s gone, like you say, she goes all the time, she went a week or so ago and has multiple holidays. Poor cat is confused and dying and they’re all just going to disappear. Horrible thing to do.
 
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Her behaviour has changed beyond recognition since this relationship started . She has decided to future proof her life and put Mark ahead of children , elderly parents , pets . She was just a middle class girl from Weybridge and she dreamt of a life moving in wealthier circles . That dream remains and it will be at the peril of everything and everybody else . It’s not how she expected it to be , she is torn, but ultimately the money wins . When he smells the desperation….
 
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Pets are family. Don't get one if you're not prepared to be there for them, when they need you MOST.
 
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Her behaviour has changed beyond recognition since this relationship started . She has decided to future proof her life and put Mark ahead of children , elderly parents , pets . She was just a middle class girl from Weybridge and she dreamt of a life moving in wealthier circles . That dream remains and it will be at the peril of everything and everybody else . It’s not how she expected it to be , she is torn, but ultimately the money wins . When he smells the desperation….
im honestly shocked that she’s done this, the old Sophie would never, ever have left Basil just for another holiday that she can take any time. She seems stressed beyond measure trying to hold this life together and the harder she tries the worse it’s getting. If Basil dies while she is away she will never forgive herself.
 
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Didn’t she say Alex (her ex) and Harry ( her eldest son) were staying with Basil for a day. Even her boy doesn’t want to go skiing with her.
Juliet is there skiing too, wonder if they will meet up.
Edit - I’ve just looked at their instas and they have had lunch together. Sophie looking very subdued.
 
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She has to be seen in the right place with the right people and feels she must share this daily . She wasn’t going to miss this week skiing, mingling with all the other socialites. It’s the same thing with Bamford, she is always letting us know that she was there . She showed a warm loving side to herself last week with Basil but it’s forgotten about now. The kids get the same treatment, she loves them but they interfere with her socialising and hols so they need to sent off to school.
 
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I felt genuinely sad for her last week about the cat. But then she abandons the poor puss when he needs her the most to go skiing. She skis all the time, it is not like it’s a big deal to her.
You know I have to agree...

She hasn't mentioned the puss today said sad to head home but have lots of pressing things like....work calls....er lots going on...

Er not mention of Basil...gosh why do I watch?

Why does she even post?

Why?!?! 😂
 
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She has alot of land for someone who rents. That garden is a couple hundred a month during low season to keep. She is a.mystery.
 
I think secretive people hide the truth. Seems to be a lot of that now days with social media. Those with nothing to hide are truthful, no? imo
 
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