By the sounds of it she didnt finish her project on time but that doesnt stop her leaving her cat who is at deaths door for a weeks skiing. She deffo has a black eye. Gosh I have never seen someone who puts their social life before EVERYTHING. She doesnt realise that if she had priorities correct she wouldnt have these problems. My pet was v v old last year so it meant that we took separate trips with the kids as we didnt want him dying or putting the burden on someone else.