I’m not sure if it’s just you being naive but parents don’t ‘give a baby up’ for reasons such as this. It’s so much more complex than that. Whatever we think about S and D, they would never do that! I think they have an idealised view of pregnancy and parent hood and the pandemic and lack of their own home and income has been a huge disappointment and robbed them of this (even when lots of it is down to their own bad and irresponsible choices). I think what is going on is a product of their immaturity and inability to make sensible adult choices and the lockdown has made things worse. As a result, and perhaps gender disappointment too, Sophie and maybe Dave is finding it hard to bond and get excited as the baby life/mum life she has longed for is turning out to not have all the things she dreamed of, such as a lovely decorated home and nursery, money to do nice things like fo to Disney etc. This are of course shallow things but also would upset you, whether it’s down to your own choices or not. However, despite all of this, it is a huge leap to suggest they’d not keep their own child!!