therealsmilf
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How can she keep going on about how severely heartbroken she was?? Like its so so offensive to Maddy.
My marriage broke down in such a traumatic way a few years ago, and every now and then I have something that triggers a fleeting memory of the pain, but I rarely talk about it. And when I do talk about it, its with gratitude because I am so so grateful for my life now and my new relationship. I would choose this relationship over my marriage a zillion times over - so when I speak about my past, its positively. I don't rehash my darkest moments over and over.
Talking about the song that kept her alive and how she was self-harming FFS. How about "I went through a painful breakup but I am so happy it led me to my life with Maddy. This song got me through some dark times but hearing it now makes me smile". That wasn't so difficult.....
Maddy is 100% second choice
My marriage broke down in such a traumatic way a few years ago, and every now and then I have something that triggers a fleeting memory of the pain, but I rarely talk about it. And when I do talk about it, its with gratitude because I am so so grateful for my life now and my new relationship. I would choose this relationship over my marriage a zillion times over - so when I speak about my past, its positively. I don't rehash my darkest moments over and over.
Talking about the song that kept her alive and how she was self-harming FFS. How about "I went through a painful breakup but I am so happy it led me to my life with Maddy. This song got me through some dark times but hearing it now makes me smile". That wasn't so difficult.....
Maddy is 100% second choice