I’ve been a lurker here for a week or two, first time poster! Like a few new people here I have seen the error of my ways.
I’ve been following SAD for a few years because I see a lot of myself in them;
Same age, with my husband since 17, married around the same time, honeymoon in Orlando, have a daughter one month older than Barney. So I feel like they were relatable to me. But I’ve realised that’s where the comparisons stop. I’ve got a full time job, run an Etsy side business, have a mortgage, clean and cook etc. Most of my money goes on my daughter who has everything she needs and enough toys to make a toy shop envious and her happiness is my main goal.
What converted me is just realising how Sophie is doing as a mother, no desire to make Barney her main priority and no desire to admit to herself that she is struggling and needs help. They have just become less relatable and less likeable over the past few months and I think a lot of people are being to see this.
I’ve been following SAD for a few years because I see a lot of myself in them;
Same age, with my husband since 17, married around the same time, honeymoon in Orlando, have a daughter one month older than Barney. So I feel like they were relatable to me. But I’ve realised that’s where the comparisons stop. I’ve got a full time job, run an Etsy side business, have a mortgage, clean and cook etc. Most of my money goes on my daughter who has everything she needs and enough toys to make a toy shop envious and her happiness is my main goal.
What converted me is just realising how Sophie is doing as a mother, no desire to make Barney her main priority and no desire to admit to herself that she is struggling and needs help. They have just become less relatable and less likeable over the past few months and I think a lot of people are being to see this.