I kind of feel like they (and their hardcore fans) enable toxic relationship behaviours, like on the last podcast a girl said that she was upset that her boyfriend had chosen to work on NYE instead of spending it with her (which is like ok you wanted it spend it with him so it's disappointing but he's literally at work for double pay just see him on new years day) and all the comments on the tiktok video are saying that's a massive red flag and he's cheating or seeing another girl and to turn up to his work to see him or bring him lunch to see if he's actually working like, it's not suspicious or weird to work on NYE if you work in hospitality, loads of people go out on NYE so someone has to be working....there's a very small chance that that's a lie and they're encouraging her to turn up at his work to try and catch him out? I'd be so embarrassed if someone did that to me and turned up at my work trying to catch me out honestly I'd end the relationship lol like I don't understand why they can't be more rational with their answers and give actual advice
they did say well he is working you can't really be too bothered but in a lot of the dilemmas I feel like they just spur on the girl to think that the boyfriend is doing something suspicious rather than approaching the situation maturely and clearly all their followers think the same based on the comments, if I'd written that dilemma in I'd be feeling super paranoid now when the reality is he probably literally is at work
Unsure why the commenters seem to have forgotten that people go to bars, clubs, restaurants etc on NYE and it's one of the busiest days of the year, aka people who work there will be working and they will need people working late shifts