I don't think it's the word poorly, we all say it here regardless of age. It's the way Paul behaves like a child when he isn't well and expects sympathy on a constant basis. There would be nothing more he'd love than being sick and some woman running around after him like the control freak he is.
Nobody is turning on anyone, everyone takes on board others opinions on Tattle and moves on. We all have an opinion on the subject, and not everyone will agree with mine but I like to learn the reasoning behind why people feel differently to me.