Ned learned a hefty lesson about wrapping it up at that Grand Prix! Tbf very little pityI'd say Ned is finding it exceptionally hard to keep his dignity. That's testament to him, he's probably doing it for his daughter.
But there no doubt - this weapon is a very difficult human so I can only imagine Co Parenting with her and trying to maintain the agreements ans boundaries which Shiv never adheres to as we know
Nightmare stuff
I'd say once Shiv realised Ned didn't want her it was game on for her to weaponise the kid.