Siobhan, I like you. I don't anything negative to say about you. I feel that I can relate to you living over in Bali. The only difference is you are there living your life. If I go to Bali I would be runng away from them and all the problems they cause and the stress they put me under. So yes I'm a Runner. I ran at 23 to Dubai for 2 years, I came home, I ran 26 to Australia for 5 years, Im back in Ireland for 2 years, and guess what all the crappy problems got a whole lot worse. I'm thinking of RUNNING to Thailand. People say oh your only running away from your problems, went back same problems, got worse. I'm not capable of dealing with it anymore, I can't fix their problems. At least when I'm away RUNNING, I feel so FREE, I don't have to deal with it every bloody day! Are you a runner too?