Of course it’s bizarre because I’m talking the truth about a bizarre individual , you lot attack her then take it back oooooh the honey boo bunch are back licking her face the lot of you are as fucked as showannon !! Crack in your shows as amusing as hers
I've not finished catching up yet and I sincerely hope oasis that you've back tracked and apologised.... highly doubt it. You're excellent at giving your opinion on folk so here's mine...... you are a jealous, scorned someone from her past. Perhaps she didn't wanna be friends anymore and you've turned bitter. Either way I don't care, not a shiny
tit given hun but to act like a petulant child on here projecting your anger towards strangers on a forum..... I'd say you need help, maybe a hug. Theres absolutely NO need for this statement. Hunnyboo has had healthy debates with you and while yous might not always agree that's OK, however the pathetic name calling and targeting is not! Do not make people on here out to be trolls, there's only you doing that from where I'm sitting. There's no need for any of it. You change your opinion too much, however I do believe you. I do believe you know shan and I do believe you saw her in sainsbury not long ago like you stated..... I do wonder if you have a deeper investment into shan, it could be coincidence but the way you told us about seeing her did make me wonder if you'd been following her? I won't say stalk as I'm not gonna make accusations with no proof, it's not what I'm about.
Unfortunately you've switched up your narrative too many times and its difficult to know whats what. You have anonymity as we all do. No ones asking you to give info on who you are, just some context as to how you can make such strong allegations.
I'm gonna continue catching up now
Shes been declining since her relationship broke down before Christmas, some people don't do well on their own especially if suffering mental health as well. We believe the children were first with their gran as a mutual agreement between Shan and her gran but in my opinion social services have since stepped in and placed them somewhere else and her mental health, drug taking and drinking has been up and down ever since. She needs to just remember she never knows who's watching her lives and who's screen recording her lives.
I agree whole heartedly here. I have suffered with MH in the past, before I had kids and I'm under no illusion it will be with me forever, BUT, I can avoid triggering situations, use coping mechanisms to help if I feel the slightest decline in mood, I've had at least 1 admission to a MH facility before I had kid.... now I'm not saying having kids cures illness, it certainly does jot, in fact I knew I'd get PND and sure enough I did but I was prepared to a certain degree. That a diff story though. There's a fine line between needing help and craving it, what I mean by that is quite often we see patients that crave attention. Again I BELIEVE shan has MH problems but as an adult, a mother, a hurt and tormented individual I can't help but be inclined to think that some of this is down to craving attention. Now I have not assessed her in a professional capacity so can't make any assumptions or diagnosis but from what I've witnessed I feel something somewhere has spiralled out of control.
It makes me sad in some respects but also furious. I think I can hand on heart say a number of us in here alone had questionable upbringings, I'm the wrong side of 30 now and back when I was a little girl it was normal for men to hit their wives, disgusting and sad I know but that's how it was. It wasn't spoke about so I can empathise and relate to that, although I believe there's a good 10 years between me and shan so I don't feel comfortable saying she had a good or bad childhood. What I do know is that
tit messes you up as An adult. That being said why the hell would you put your own kids through this????? I'm a level headed person, and I can tell when my MH is dipping, I'd go as far as to say now I've mentioned it you guys can tell when I'm not myself, because I'm no where to be found haha. But seriously I have a plan in place for almost every eventuality, I engage regularly with health professionals if and when I need help. There's no shame in that, what I will never ever deem acceptable is putting any child no matter the age, through this! I know its hard being a mum, I was a single mum for a lot of years, that was my choice, I wasn't in the frame of mind to be with anyone or share my time with anyone, it took me and my partner many many months before we introduced our kids to the other. Again that was just our preference, we wanted to be sure it was right cos the kids would be the ones who suffered if we didn't work. I hope she wakes up soon and sees the devastation she's causing her kids to go through. If the kids are away because she was struggling, that's okay! It's the rumours attached to it though that haven't been squashed.
I'm not someone with a "platform" I'm an idiot with a phone so I can't comment on how these "influencers" should conduct themselves, or anyone to be fair. But what i do know as a mum, a professional and a someone with a heart I would NOT be on social media knowing my kids weren't in my care. If it was infact because of MH she would of been sectioned by now...... or accepted the help?! Again just my observations. Xx