yep. i have/had huge respect for her mother and sister after watching how they spoke about her in the channel 4 documentary a little while back - it would have been easy for them to fall back on treating people with kindness etc but they both openly spoke about her being sometimes emotionally volatile, especially in romantic relationships, and that she simply was too emotionally fragile for fame because of how much she craved approval. people fell back on “be kind” but i saw equally awful posts directed at her boyfriend for being beat up by a woman (though how male victims of abuse are treated in comparison to female ones is an age old discussion).
i know there’s lots of theories for what exactly happened on that night but the arrest seems to be justified, as did the actions after it. i think the thought of “bad” press and loss to reputation just scared her sadly