Now that Ben has spoken VF should never speak of it again. Stop doing the Instagrams, the pap walks, mentioning it on Talk TV and other media.Draw a line under it in public, sob in private until it hurts less, don’t give him the satisfaction of knowing at what stage of the grieving process she is at. At the moment she has people on her side, but soon she will be seen as entertainment if she doesn’t stop the public emoting. Remember when she lost her shit on BB? She is an esteemed broadcaster. It will be a shame if she lets this twonk derail her professional career.