Hi, lurker here, first post, it's all been said but I can't help myself
I too, was a former watcher of Sarah's Day since before she met Kurtledoo. I too, used to casually watch her channel, for her bubbly personality and early content like the solo ski trip, bedroom workouts, hanging with friends and family. She def could not hide that she was on the neurotic/controlling side but seemed to be semi-aware and talked about changing her habits/trying to self-improve. While she wasn't my fav youtuber she still came across as watchable and sometimes relatable (like talking about breakups, love of food, goofy sunglasses and so on). Then she met Turd and things started to get weird imo. First of all the relationship was super rushed, and no offense to any couple where things happened fast (i have close friends who got married quickly and are v happy). They met Sept/Oct from what I remember, went on a family vacay, in Jan/Feb-ish they were living at each other's places and then by May (?) they had moved into their first appartment. While this seemed a bit off it was not a huge red flag cos they seemed happiest at their first apartment. I remember them vlogging and Turdle being a tradie/carpenter made them cardboard table/chairs? And Sezzbol seemed honestly proud about his skills. There's also the vid of Squurd mimicking Scuzz in the kitchen and it was funny. But now I can see this was a huge lie on part of manipulative Scuzzballs. The whole pushing Squirdl to "retrain" aka use her camera gear to film her and her crappy products was so self-serving I cannot.
Everything went south from there as we know. Abby was an IG prop which is where I started to get disgusted (i feel so sorry for that lovely dog, not properly trained and ignored except Turdso sometimes plays with her in the background but a pet requires more than the occasional roughhousing), and wth with her having to pee on that fake grass!!!! No dog does that unless utterly neglected.) Then that horrid pregnancy drama which shouldn't have happened, Scuzzy ticking off the boxes as fast as she could but not able to keep up.
The stupid boujee house renos "ThE bIg HoUse RenO yoU'vE aLL beEn wAiTiNg fOr" yeah no, we all have other worries during this pandemic Sezzpit. And speaking of pandemic...well, there is nothing to speak of because Scuzzo never mentions this unless it's can be used as a moaning prop.
And don't get me started on the parenting!! Telling her viewers that she gets asked all the time how Fokks is such a good eater and claiming she spent so much time teaching him to eat vegetables and other mum's don't spend as much time being dedicated to the nutrition needs of their weaning baby. I was speechless. That girl has no emotional, maternal or loving attachment to that poor child. Better observers than me have said it already, this deplorable mum-act and dispiccable talking to the camera while neglecting her child.
Ok rant over, sorry not sorry for my not-so-eloquent post, it's all been said already but I just can't with the pet and child neglect.